I Ain't Gonna Eat Out My Heart Anymore
The Young Rascals Lyrics


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(Yeah) I Think you got the biggest brown eyes
And you know how to part your lips to tantalize, sure
(Yeah) You can get any man you want goin' and you do it
And don't say you don't know you do

Well, baby, I ain't gonna eat out my heart anymore
I ain't gonna eat out my heart anymore
So quit it

I love you, I love you, I do, little girl
But you ain't gonna cheat on me
I need you, I need you, I [2: really] do, girl
Choose, is it him or me (is it him or me)

(Yeah) Just 'cause I ain't been sayin' it, girl
You should be ashamed of what I've been seein' - bad
(Yeah) You better watch your step or, girl
You can bet you're gonna lose the best thing you ever had

Well, baby, I ain't gonna eat out my heart anymore
I ain't gonna eat out my heart anymore
So quit it

I love you, I love you, I do, little girl
But you ain't gonna cheat on me
I need you, I need you, I do, girl




Choose, is it him or me (is it him or me)
I ain't gonna eat out my heart anymore [repeat to fade]

Overall Meaning

In The Young Rascals' "I Ain't Gonna Eat Out My Heart Anymore," the singer is clearly fed up with their partner's behavior. He acknowledges her physical attributes, such as her "biggest brown eyes" and ability to "part your lips to tantalize." Despite her apparent beauty and allure, the singer refuses to continue being treated poorly. He understands that she has the power to attract any man she wants, but he is not willing to put up with it anymore.


The song's title is a reference to the act of "eating out one's heart," which is a metaphor for being consumed by jealousy and heartache. The singer has likely been feeling this way for some time, but now he has had enough. He's not going to let his love for her consume him anymore. He wants her to choose between him and the other man in her life. He knows that he loves her, and he needs her, but he's not willing to be second best.


Overall, this song is about standing up for oneself and not putting up with poor treatment from a partner. While it may seem like an ultimatum, it's important to remember that the singer is simply drawing a line in the sand and demanding respect from his significant other.


Line by Line Meaning

(Yeah) I Think you got the biggest brown eyes
I believe you have the biggest, most beautiful brown eyes that catch my attention.


And you know how to part your lips to tantalize, sure
You know exactly how to part your lips in a seductive way that captivates me.


(Yeah) You can get any man you want goin' and you do it
You have the ability to attract any man you desire and you take advantage of that.


And don't say you don't know you do
You are aware that you have great power over men.


I love you, I love you, I do, little girl
I genuinely love you, my dear.


But you ain't gonna cheat on me
However, you will not be unfaithful to me.


I need you, I need you, I do, girl
I need you deeply, truly.


Choose, is it him or me (is it him or me)
Make a choice between me and the other man in your life.


(Yeah) Just 'cause I ain't been sayin' it, girl
Even though I haven't said it, you should feel ashamed of your actions.


You should be ashamed of what I've been seein' - bad
Your behavior is shameful and it's causing me to see you in a negative light.


(Yeah) You better watch your step or, girl
You should be careful with your actions or you'll face consequences.


You can bet you're gonna lose the best thing you ever had
If you continue with your current behavior, you will lose the most valuable thing in your life, namely me.


Well, baby, I ain't gonna eat out my heart anymore
I will no longer be heartbroken over what you're doing.


I ain't gonna eat out my heart anymore
I will no longer suffer the pain of your infidelity.


So quit it
Stop engaging in your deceitful behavior.


I ain't gonna eat out my heart anymore [repeat to fade]
I will not continue to suffer in silence as you betray me.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: LORI BURTON, PAM SAWYER

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

MrSkinnn

Yeah, I admit you got the biggest brown eyes
And you know how to part your lips to tantalize, sure
Yeah, You can get any man you want goin', and you do it
And don't say you don't know you do it
Well, baby, I ain't gonna eat out my heart anymore
I ain't gonna eat out my heart anymore
So quit it

I love you, I love you, I do girl
But you ain't gonna cheat on me
I need you, I need you, I do girl
Choose, is it him or me, is it him or me
Yeah, Just 'cause I ain't been sayin' it girl
You should be ashamed of what I've been seein' - bad
Yeah, You better watch your step or girl
You can bet you're gonna lose the best thing you ever had

Well, baby, I ain't gonna eat out my heart anymore
I ain't gonna eat out my heart anymore
Quit it

I love you, I love you, I do girl
But you ain't gonna cheat on me
I need you, I need you, I really do girl
Choose, is it him or me, is it him or me
Well, baby, I ain't gonna eat out my heart anymore
I ain't gonna eat out my heart anymore
I ain't gonna eat out my heart anymore
I ain't gonna eat out my heart anymore
Ain't gonna eat out . . .



All comments from YouTube:

Richard Fisher

One of my favorites by the Rascals. They were so so major in the 60s.

robert thacher

They were TIGHT!

Ron Greene

I loved it when it first came out; I still do. It's fresh as ever in my musical memory.

Barry Fagin

@Suzanne Hepburn GROOVIN ON A SUNDAY AFTERNOON....THE F'.....ING RADCALS...LATER...
GOOD LOVIN '

Suzanne Hepburn

Ron Greene, I so agree!!

Cissy2cute

IMO the BEST song they ever did. A real powerhouse. Let me explain: this one just hits me right in the heart. The others were more pop; which is OK, but I guess I'm just a fan of the raw garage band sound sung with heavy emotion.

robert thacher

@one mexican They were too good to be called a garage band!

one mexican

it was not garage band sound.....it did not exist..garage band....

robert wahlgren

Spot on!

David Ward

Agree. Gritty and so cool. Melissa Ward here

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