CULTURED MAN
The Zolas Lyrics


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I want to be your cultured man
who doesn’t jump off of the bus you were riding
run as fast as his legs can go
to return the previous night’s video

then sprinting to catch up
by the next bus stop
Just to impress you my love
just to impress you
just to impress you my love and sit back beside you.

I want to be your talented man
who doesn’t wake you in the morning having cooked us something strange
and when you go for supper at his folks
doesn’t burst in through the door and announce to them

you’re never gonna guess
who I brought as a guest.

Cause your blood is family too
so come to the table
your blood is family too now sit down beside us.

Pouring wine and pushing opinions
taking drags, ignoring the dishes
the worlds we unwrap off the top of our heads
you and me and my folks between dinner and bed.





When months they pour into years and more
will he still be holding car doors for you?

Overall Meaning

The Zolas's "Cultured Man" is a love song about a man who wants to be the best version of himself for the person he cares about. In the first stanza, the singer explains that he doesn't want to be the kind of guy who jumps off the bus to return a previous night's video because he's too afraid of being judged for what he rented. Instead, he wants to be the cultured man who impresses his significant other by sitting back beside her and being proud of his choices. The second stanza speaks to his desire to be talented, but not in a way that disrupts his love's routine. He wants to be the man who can cook her breakfast without leaving her disturbed or interrupting her norms when introducing her to his family.


Throughout the song, the singer expresses a desire to be the type of man who is comfortable in any situation, whether it's pouring wine and pushing opinions, ignoring the dishes, or unwrapping worlds between dinner and bed. He wants to be the man who will hold car doors for her after months turn into years and more. Overall, "Cultured Man" is about wanting to be a reliable and impressive partner who is respected by their significant other and their family.


Line by Line Meaning

I want to be your cultured man
I aspire to be a person of sophistication and refinement for you.


who doesn’t jump off of the bus you were riding
I'll wait for you and not abandon you, no matter where we go.


run as fast as his legs can go
I'll never run away or give up on you because I'll always be determined to be by your side.


to return the previous night’s video
I'll make the effort to return, retrieve and watch a video with you from the night before.


then sprinting to catch up
I'll have to move quickly to catch up to you but I'll always try my best.


Just to impress you my love
I'm willing to go the extra mile just to gain your admiration.


just to impress you
Everything I do is aimed at impressing you.


just to impress you my love and sit back beside you.
I'll impress you and simply enjoy sitting next to you as a result.


I want to be your talented man
I want to showcase my abilities, skills, and talents to you as a gesture of how much I care about you.


who doesn’t wake you in the morning having cooked us something strange
I won't disrupt your morning routine and habits by cooking or serving weird things to you.


and when you go for supper at his folks
When you join me for dinner with my family,


doesn’t burst in through the door and announce to them
I won't create any awkward situations by surprising your family with my uninvited arrival.


you’re never gonna guess who I brought as a guest.
I won't make the occasion uncomfortable by making it sound like I brought an unexpected or taboo guest.


Cause your blood is family too
You and your family are just as important to me as my own blood relatives.


so come to the table
Join us at the dinner table and take your rightful place as a member of our family.


your blood is family too now sit down beside us.
Your kin is our kin, and you are welcome to share the table with us.


Pouring wine and pushing opinions
We'll share wine and discuss our views on topics.


taking drags, ignoring the dishes
We'll have a fun time, talk and enjoy ourselves, without worrying about mundane chores.


the worlds we unwrap off the top of our heads
We'll have engaging conversations and explore interesting worldviews and perspectives.


you and me and my folks between dinner and bed.
We'll spend quality time with each other and my family from dinner time until bedtime.


When months they pour into years and more
As time passes,


will he still be holding car doors for you?
Will I still make an effort to show small gestures of love and respect towards you, no matter how long we've been together?




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Hailey Nelson

I want to be your cultured man
who doesn't jump off of the bus you were riding
run as fast as his legs can go
to return the previous night's video

then sprinting to catch up
by the next bus stop

Just to impress you my love
just to impress you
just to impress you my love and sit back beside you.

I want to be your talented man
who doesn't wake you in the morning having cooked us something strange
and when you go for supper at his folks
doesn't burst in through the door and announce to them

you're never gonna guess
who I brought as a guest.

Cause your blood is family too
so come to the table
your blood is family too now sit down beside us.

Pouring wine and pushing opinions
taking drags, ignoring the dishes
the worlds we unwrap off the top of our heads
you and me and my folks between dinner and bed.

When months they pour into years and more
will he still be holding car doors for you?



All comments from YouTube:

Jim Lahey

Criminally underrated song

Kate Bordom

Wow, its been a while since every song on an album was amazing!

Sebastian Brito

Yess

Dane333W

That breakdown with the keyboard at 2:54 is amazing. It reminds me of foreigner suite by Cat Stevens

RJ

Dane333W yeah its what drew me to this song

Jamie Jensen

+Dane333W
Oh hell ya. I almost skipped this and I'm so glad I saw your comment prior

Gigglez'n Gamin'

+Dane333W That's my favourite part of the song!

MrSegrist

This is easily in my top 10 of the last decade. Total melodic, rhythmic, and tonal ear candy.

banditroxx

I want a live version of this! They're the best live!

Siri Van Gruen

Love this song! Loved hearing at their concert last weekend!

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