Theory of a Deadman's fourth studio album, The Truth Is.. was released on July 12, 2011. The Truth Is... (I Lied About Everything) Songfacts reports it was inspired by the divorce that Tyler Connolly went through in 2010.
Current bandmembers:
Tyler Connolly – lead vocals, lead guitar (2001–present)
Dave Brenner – rhythm guitar (2001–present)
Dean Back – bass (2001–present)
Joey Dandeneau – drums (2009–present)
Former members
Tim Hart – drums (2001–2004)
Brent Fitz – drums (2004–2007)
Robin Diaz – drums (2007–2009)
Discography
Theory of a Deadman (2002)
Gasoline (2005)
Scars & Souvenirs (2008)
The Truth Is.. (2011)
Savages (2014)
Wake Up Call (2017)
Say Nothing (2020)
What You Deserve
Theory of a Deadman Lyrics
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You can never get the best of me
Well I've never been to California
And I'll never care if I get there anyway
Don't ever lose your morals
Since I could never fill that hole
And I never burned your letters
When you get what you deserve
You try to take control
You can never get the best of me
Well I've never been to Tijuana
And I never care if I get there anyway
You never lost your marbles
Since I could never fill that hole
And I never burned your letters
But I think I'll like you better
When you get what you deserve
Give it some time to sink in
Just give me some time to figure it out
Just give me some time to think here
Just give it some time
And you'll get what you deserve
You'll get what you deserve, you'll get what you deserve
You'll get what you deserve, you'll get what's coming
You'll get what you deserve, you'll get what you deserve
You'll get what you deserve, you'll get what's coming
You'll get what's coming
Give it some time to sink in
Just give me some time to figure it out
Just give me some time to think here
Just give it some time and
You'll get what you deserve
In this song, Theory of a Deadman is calling out someone who has been trying to control and manipulate them. The lyrics suggest that the singer has been provoked in some way but has managed to hold their own against the person trying to bring them down. The chorus implies that the singer is biding their time, waiting for the other person to get what they deserve.
The first verse makes it clear that the person taunting the singer is attempting to bring them down but failing. By saying “you can never get the best of me” the singer reveals that they are resilient and unwilling to be dragged down. Furthermore, stating that they’ve never been to California or Tijuana shows that they are not distracted by the allure of these places, indicating that they are focused on their goals and their sense of self-worth.
The second verse continues this reflection on the other person’s behavior, with the singer indicating that the other party hasn’t lost their mind (‘marbles’) and that they don’t hold any grudges against them (‘never burned your letters’). However, the statement that they’ll like the other person better ‘when they get what they deserve’ indicates a simmering anger that they are holding in until the right moment. The bridge in the song takes a more reflective tone, with the singer suggesting that the other person should give them time to make sense of the situation, thereby letting the anger mature and making sure that the other person does indeed get what they deserve.
Overall, the song is a story of someone who has been wronged by another but who is biding their time for the right moment. Whether this will be to speak out or take some other sort of action is left open-ended. However, it is clear that the singer wants the other person to know that they will get what they deserve.
Line by Line Meaning
You try to string me up
You attempt to manipulate or control me in a negative way
You can never get the best of me
Your attempts to control or manipulate me will never succeed
Well I've never been to California
I have not had all of the experiences that life has to offer
And I'll never care if I get there anyway
I am not concerned with achieving any particular goal or reaching any specific destination
Don't ever lose your morals
It is important to maintain a strong moral compass
Since I could never fill that hole
I am not capable of satisfying a specific need or desire
And I never burned your letters
I have not destroyed any correspondence between us
But I think I'll like you better
I may have a more positive view of you in the future
When you get what you deserve
When you receive the consequences you have earned
You try to take control
You attempt to manipulate or control me in a negative way
You never lost your marbles
You have not become mentally unstable or irrational
Since I could never fill that hole
I am not capable of satisfying a specific need or desire
And I never burned your letters
I have not destroyed any correspondence between us
Give it some time to sink in
Take a moment to contemplate and understand the situation
Just give me some time to figure it out
Allow me some time to come to a conclusion or solution
Just give me some time to think here
I need some space to think and process
Just give it some time
Patience is necessary for the situation to be resolved
And you'll get what you deserve
You will receive the consequences you have earned
You'll get what's coming
You will receive the consequences that you deserve for your actions
Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: DAVID J. BRENNER, DEAN HENNING BACK, TIMOTHY R. HART, TYLER PATRICK CONNOLLY
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