THERAPY? is an alternative rock/punk rock band from Northern Ireland. The b… Read Full Bio ↴THERAPY? is an alternative rock/punk rock band from Northern Ireland. The band was formed in 1989 by guitarist/vocalist Andy Cairns and drummer Fyfe Ewing. The band initially recorded their first demo with Andy filling in on bass guitar. To complete the line-up, the band recruited bassist Michael McKeegan.
With keen pop sensibilities, a skewed sense of humour and a willingness to draw inspiration from diverse sources (notably punk rock), Therapy? came to attention in the early 1990s rise of alternative rock, but have endured for more than a decade since; Critic Johnny Loftus writes, "After a ten-plus year career that has seen them outlast competitors and outwit industry attempts at categorization, Therapy? are still headbangers with their thinking caps screwed on tight."

Current line-up :
Andy Cairns (guitar, vocals) (1989 - )
Michael McKeegan (bass guitar, backing vocals) (1989 - )
Neil Cooper (drums) (2003 - )

Past members:
Fyfe Ewing (drums) (1989 - 1996)
Martin McCarrick (cello, guitar, backing vocals) (1996 - 2004)
Graham Hopkins (drums) (1996 - 2001)

Discography:
-Hard Cold Fire (2023)
-Cleave (2018)
-Disquiet (2015)
-A Brief Crack of Light (2012)
-Crooked Timber (2009)
-One Cure Fits All (2006)
-Never Apologise Never Explain (2004)
-High Anxiety (2003)
-Shameless (2001)
-So Much For The Ten Year Plan - A Retrospective 1990-2000 (2000)
-Suicide Pact - You First (1999)
-Semi-Detached (1998)
-Infernal Love (1995)
-Troublegum (1994)
-Face the Strange E.P. (1993)
-Shortsharpshock E.P. (1993)
-Nurse (1992)
-Pleasure Death (1992)
-Babyteeth (1991)

Northern Ireland, 1989.

He's Not That Kind of Girl
Therapy? Lyrics

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Hey baby, I dig your scars
Think you're smart
But they think you're kind of stupid
You don't say much
I don't care
They think you're strange
But I think it's kinda sexy

You're kind of lovely
In a ugly way
Your feet scratch together
My two-time waltz
I think you've a lot to say
You're kind of strange
But I think it's kind of fun

And I can't believe you're still stuck to me
Can't believe you're still stuck to this world
(Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah)
And I can't believe you're still stuck to me
Can't believe you're still stuck to this world
But he's not that kind of girl

Hey, baby I dig your scars
They think you're smart
But I think you're kind of stupid
You don't say much
I don't care
They think you're strange
But I think it's kind of fucking fun

And I can't believe you're still stuck to me
Can't believe you're still stuck to this world
(Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah)
And I can't believe you're still stuck to me
Can't believe you're still stuck to this world
But he's not that kind of girl

And I can't believe you're still stuck to me
Can't believe you're still stuck to this world
(Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah)
And I can't believe you're still stuck to me
Can't believe you're still stuck to this world
Can't believe you're still stuck to me
Can't believe you're still stuck to this world
But he's not that kind of girl

Somebody please, get me out of this K-hole
Somebody please, get me out of this K-hole
Somebody please, get me out of this K
Somebody please, get me out of this K-hole
Get me out of this K-hole
Get me out of this K-hole
Out of this K-hole
Get me out of this K-hole
Out of this K-hole
Out of this K-hole
Out of this K-hole
Out of this K-hole

Yeah!

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Therapy?'s He's Not That Kind of Girl convey a message of accepting someone for who they are despite society's negative perception of them. The singer is attracted to their partner's scars and perceived lack of intelligence, going against mainstream beauty standards. The partner is also described as "kind of lovely in an ugly way", showing that the singer embraces unconventional beauty. The partner's quirks and strangeness are also a source of enjoyment for the singer, as they find it "kind of fun" and "kind of sexy".

However, the repeated line "but he's not that kind of girl" implies that others may judge the partner harshly and make assumptions about their gender or sexuality. This shows how society's societal norms and labels can affect people's opinions and attitudes towards others. The lines "get me out of this K-hole" at the end of the song could be interpreted as the singer being trapped in this societal judgment and wanting to break free from it.

Line by Line Meaning

Hey baby, I dig your scars
I admire your flaws and imperfections

Think you're smart But they think you're kind of stupid
I think you're intelligent, but others may not see it the same way

You don't say much I don't care They think you're strange But I think it's kinda sexy
I don't mind your quietness or quirks, I find them attractive

You're kind of lovely In a ugly way Your feet scratch together My two-time waltz
You have a unique beauty that is not conventionally attractive, but I enjoy dancing with you despite our flaws

I think you've a lot to say You're kind of strange But I think it's kind of fun
You may seem odd to others, but I find you interesting and enjoyable to be around

And I can't believe you're still stuck to me Can't believe you're still stuck to this world (Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah)
I'm surprised you haven't left me or given up on life yet

But he's not that kind of girl
Despite my unconventional partner, I am still attracted to masculinity in a partner

Somebody please, get me out of this K-hole
I feel trapped or stuck in a negative situation or mindset

Out of this K-hole
I want to escape this negative state of mind or situation

Yeah!
An enthusiastic expression of agreement or excitement

Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: ANDREW CAIRNS, GRAHAM HOPKINS, MARTIN MCCARRICK, MICHAEL ROBERT MCKEEGAN

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