Remember When
There for Tomorrow Lyrics


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Your initial reply hit me undercover
When I lost my head to it
It was out of its time, it was undiscovered
As I caught my breath again
You were running out of lies to keep me under
Afraid of your back hands ?
So to speak, you had me shaking at the knees
But I don't know the way out of this mess
No, I don't know the way out of this mess
And if you would've seen me at my best
Would it have changed anything at all?

Remember when, we never had to remember when times were better
When times were better than this
We never had to remember when times were better
When times were better than this

The door was always open
But still not nearly enough to let me in
and my eyes are wide awake,
And i can see you clearly, but you don't stand out one bit.
I was always loud enough just for you to hear me
You never caught the wind
Now watch me break
Breakdown this time, this time again

But I don't know the way out of this mess
No, I don't know the way out of this mess
And if you would've seen me at my best
Would it have changed anything at all?

Remember when, we never had to remember when times were better
When times were better than this
We never had to remember when times were better
When times were better than this
(When times were better, when times were better than this) [Repeat: x2]

And I'm still waiting for a sign
Or just a win-win situation
Can I hear it one more time?
Without the sound of devastation setting in

Your initial reply hit me undercover
When I lost my head to it
It was out of its time, it was undiscovered
When you let me in
Oh, won't you let me in?

Remember when, we never had to remember when times were better
When times were better than this
We never had to remember when times were better
When times were better than this

Do you remember, remember when?
Do you remember, remember when?
We never had to remember when times were better




When times were better than this
(When times were better, when times were better than this [x2])

Overall Meaning

The song "Remember When" by There for Tomorrow talks about the complexities of a relationship that is falling apart. The first stanza describes the singer's realization that they were under the control of their partner, who kept them under their thumb with lies and possibly physical threats. However, despite wanting to leave, the singer confesses that they don't know how to get out of the situation. The chorus follows, repeating the title phrase and contrasting the past with the present. The singer longs for the time when things were better between them, but acknowledges that they now have to remember those times instead of living in them. The second stanza describes the singer's feelings of isolation, despite the door being supposedly open for them. The bridge addresses the need for communication and signs from their partner, but the singer is still unsure if they will ever come.


Overall, "Remember When" is a haunting ballad about an unhappy relationship that is falling apart. It accurately portrays the complicated feelings of a person who both longs for the past and fears the future. The lyrics are beautiful in their simplicity, and the contrast between the somber melody and the energetic chorus creates a beautiful tension that is sure to resonate with anyone who has experienced a similar situation.


Line by Line Meaning

Your initial reply hit me undercover
Your first message to me caught me off guard and left me vulnerable


When I lost my head to it
I became so consumed by our interactions that I lost control of my emotions


It was out of its time, it was undiscovered
Our relationship was ahead of its time and unexplored


As I caught my breath again
As I regained my composure


You were running out of lies to keep me under
You were losing your ability to deceive and manipulate me


Afraid of your back hands ?
Questioning whether you were physically abusive


So to speak, you had me shaking at the knees
You had me incredibly anxious and intimidated


But I don't know the way out of this mess
I am unsure of how to escape this difficult situation


And if you would've seen me at my best
If you had witnessed me in a positive light


Would it have changed anything at all?
Could it have altered the course of our relationship?


Remember when, we never had to remember when times were better
Recalling a time when things were good without having to remind ourselves to do so


The door was always open
I was always available and willing to communicate


But still not nearly enough to let me in
But you were still unwilling to let me fully into your life


And my eyes are wide awake,
I am fully aware and observant


And I can see you clearly, but you don't stand out one bit.
I understand you, but you are not particularly impressive


I was always loud enough just for you to hear me
I was always trying to get your attention


You never caught the wind
You never truly heard or understood me


Now watch me break, breakdown this time, this time again
I am about to suffer a mental and emotional collapse, as I have in the past


And I'm still waiting for a sign
I am still hoping for some indication of how to proceed


Or just a win-win situation
Or a situation where we both benefit


Can I hear it one more time?
Can I have some reassurance or validation?


Without the sound of devastation setting in
Without the weight of sadness and disappointment


When you let me in
When you finally allowed me to be close to you


Oh, won't you let me in?
Asking for permission to be included in your life


Do you remember, remember when?
Asking if you can recall a past time


We never had to remember when times were better
Once again reflecting on a time when things were good without feeling the need to remind ourselves


When times were better than this
When things were easier and more positive than they are now




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: CHRISTIAN ALAN CLIMER, CHRISTOPHER JOSEPH KAMRADA, JAY RAFAEL ENRIQUEZ, MAIKE HAINI MAILE

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