Cruel
Thomas Dolby Lyrics


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Cruel, what a thing to do
I've been cruel to you such a long time
and how can I hide my shame
'Cause there I go again
At the wrong time
and I know that it was just the fear of flying
and I know it's hard to keep myself from crying
but when my tears are washed away
You'll still be blind
Skin-diving
for jewels
You were a shining pearl in a broken shell
Under moonlight
And I was cruel

And I know that it was just the fear of flying
And I know it's hard to keep myself from crying
But when my tears are washed away
You'll still be blind
Skin-diving
For jewels
Cruel - I've been such a fool
And I'll be missing you




Such a long time
I was cruel

Overall Meaning

In Thomas Dolby's song "Cruel," the singer talks about their past actions towards the person they love, being cruel to them for such a long time. The lyrics suggest that the singer is struggling with guilt and shame for how they treated their partner, and it seems as though the person they were cruel to is trying to move on and pursue their own interests, like skin-diving for jewels. The line "You were a shining pearl in a broken shell" could represent how the person shone brightly within the singer's life but suffered the consequences of the singer's actions.


The chorus repeats twice in the song, emphasizing the singer's regret and recognition of their cruel behavior, and how it has caused the couple to separate. The phrase "the fear of flying" could represent the singer's fear of commitment or some other fear that prevented them from treating their partner with kindness and respect. When the singer says "You'll still be blind", it could indicate that even if the singer is forgiven or their tears are washed away, the partner will still bear the scars of the singer's cruelty. The repetition of the phrase "skin-diving for jewels" could also represent the partner's attempt to find value and beauty in their own life after the hurt they have experienced.


Line by Line Meaning

Cruel, what a thing to do
Acknowledging the cruelty inflicted upon the other person


I've been cruel to you such a long time
Realization that the cruelty has been going on for an extended period of time


and how can I hide my shame
Feeling of guilt and shame for treating the other person badly


'Cause there I go again
Admitting to a repeated pattern of hurtful behavior


At the wrong time
Acknowledging that the cruelty happens at inappropriate moments


and I know that it was just the fear of flying
Realization that the root cause of the cruelty was personal fear


and I know it's hard to keep myself from crying
Admitting that the remorse is difficult to deal with emotionally


but when my tears are washed away
Implying that the remorse will eventually fade with time


You'll still be blind
Recognizing that the other person was hurt and affected by the cruelty


Skin-diving for jewels
Metaphoric reference to someone searching for something valuable


You were a shining pearl in a broken shell
Complimenting the other person's beauty and strength despite challenges


Under moonlight
Setting the scene romantically


And I was cruel
Reiterating the admission of cruelty


Cruel - I've been such a fool
Self-realization of foolishness in being cruel


And I'll be missing you
Expressing regret at the loss of the other person


Such a long time
Implying that the regret will persist for some time


I was cruel
Final acknowledgment of responsibility for the cruelty




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: MARGARITO ESPARZA NEVAREZ

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