Nicholas self-released his debut album, Without Warning, on January 15, 2008, and his follow-up album, "Without Warning Acoustic" on February 28, 2009. His third release was Heroes Are Human, put out on June 1, 2010. His fourth release is a self-titled EP, released March 20, 2012; the first single "My Generation" also appears as part of the American Reunion soundtrack album. His fifth release is the EP Security released on April 8, 2014.
In March 2015, Nicholas appeared on Blues Traveler's album Blow Up the Moon, co-writing the song "All the Way."
Nicholas (second from right) performing "1999" with Bowling for Soup on its release day
On July 9, 2022, Nicholas released "1999", a single that parodied the Bowling for Soup song "1985".
IN TOO DEEP
Thomas Nicholas Band Lyrics
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we're stopping and stalling
We're running in circles again
Just as things were looking up,
you said it wasn't good enough
But still, we're trying one more time
Maybe we're just trying too hardWhen really, it's closer than it is too far
'Cause I'm in too deep, and I'm trying to keep
Up above in my head, instead of going under
'Cause I'm in too deep, and I'm trying to keep
Up above in my head, instead of going under
Instead of going under
Seems like each time I'm with you, I lose my mind
Because I'm bending over backwards to relate
It's one thing to complain, but when you're driving me insane
Well then, I think it's time that we took a break
Maybe we're just trying too hard
When really, it's closer than it is too far
'Cause I'm in too deep, and I'm trying to keep
Up above in my head, instead of going under
'Cause I'm in too deep, and I'm trying to keep
Up above in my head, instead of going under
Instead of going under (Instead of going under)
Instead of going under
I can't sit back and wonder why
It took so long for this to die
cnd I hate it when you fake itYou can't hide it, you might as well embrace it
So believe me, it's not easy
It seems that something's telling me
I'm in too deep, and I'm trying to keep
Up above in my head, instead of going under
'Cause I'm in too deep, and I'm trying to keep
Up above in my head, instead of going under
Instead of going under
Instead of going under again
Instead of going under
Instead of going under again
Instead of going under again
Instead of going under again
The lyrics of "In Too Deep" by the Thomas Nicholas Band encapsulate the tumultuous emotions of a relationship that is fraught with misunderstandings and challenges. The opening lines reflect a sense of urgency and frustration, signifying a cycle that feels both repetitive and stifling. The mention of "the faster we're falling" suggests a rapid decline in the relationship’s stability, where attempts to improve the situation are met with setbacks. This feeling of running in circles illustrates the couple's struggles to break free from patterns of behavior that no longer serve them. Clinging to hope, the singer suggests that despite previous disappointments, both parties are willing to try "one more time." This duality captures the struggle between optimism and the gravity of their circumstances—highlighting the push and pull of desire versus reality.
The chorus introduces a poignant metaphor of depth, as the singer confesses, "I'm in too deep." This line creates a powerful image of drowning or being overwhelmed by emotional currents. It speaks to the singer's desire to stay afloat mentally and emotionally, while simultaneously grappling with the feeling of being submerged in the complexities of the relationship. The repetition of trying to keep “up above in my head” underscores the intensity of the struggle; it suggests a frantic effort to maintain clarity and sanity amidst chaos. The phrase “instead of going under” resonates as a determination to overcome despair, embracing the fight to salvage what remains rather than succumbing to defeat.
As the song progresses, the singer reflects on how interactions with their partner have become increasingly fraught, leading to a loss of mental composure. The phrase "I lose my mind" illustrates a state of overwhelming confusion and exhaustion. Bending over backward to relate to one another highlights the effort being misaligned or fruitless—showing that their emotional labor is leading to burnout instead of connection. The singer acknowledges that mere complaints do little to change the dynamics and suggests they may need a break from each other. This revelation points to an essential truth within relationships: the need for space when one partner feels overshadowed or emotionally exhausted.
The concluding verses dive deeper into the internal conflict surrounding the relationship's viability. Here, the singer grapples with the notion of inevitability—acknowledging that it’s been a long time coming for things to collapse. The despair is palpable when acknowledging the futility of pretending everything is alright. The lines about embracing reality speak to an emotional authenticity that can lead to empowerment, even as it feels uncomfortable. By asserting that "it's not easy," the singer conveys a recognition of the complexities involved in caring for someone while simultaneously coping with overwhelming feelings. The repeated refrain about trying to stay afloat emphasizes this struggle vividly, creating a haunting echo of the desire to rise above the turbulent waters of a love that may no longer be sustainable.
Line by Line Meaning
The faster we're falling,
The more rapidly we descend into complications and issues,
we're stopping and stalling
we find ourselves pausing and hesitating in our progression,
We're running in circles again
only to realize we're trapped in repetitive patterns of behavior once more.
Just as things were looking up,
Just at the moment when there seemed to be hope for improvement,
you said it wasn't good enough
you expressed dissatisfaction, indicating that it fell short of expectations.
But still, we're trying one more time
Yet, despite setbacks, we are determined to make another effort.
Maybe we're just trying too hard
Perhaps our excessive efforts are counterproductive,
When really, it's closer than it is too far
when in reality, the solution might be within reach rather than distant.
'Cause I'm in too deep, and I'm trying to keep
Because I've become deeply involved, and I'm struggling to maintain my footing,
Up above in my head, instead of going under
staying mentally afloat rather than succumbing to despair.
'Cause I'm in too deep, and I'm trying to keep
Because I've become too immersed, and I'm striving to hold on,
Up above in my head, instead of going under
maintaining clarity rather than sinking into confusion and hopelessness.
Instead of going under
Rather than losing myself in the depths of despair.
Seems like each time I'm with you, I lose my mind
Each encounter with you feels mentally overwhelming and disorienting.
Because I'm bending over backwards to relate
I find myself making extreme efforts to connect and understand you.
It's one thing to complain, but when you're driving me insane
Voicing grievances is one matter, but your actions are pushing me to the brink of frustration.
Well then, I think it's time that we took a break
At this point, I believe we need to step back and reassess our relationship.
Maybe we're just trying too hard
Perhaps our relentless attempts to maintain this connection are excessive,
When really, it's closer than it is too far
when the resolution might actually be nearer than we realize.
'Cause I'm in too deep, and I'm trying to keep
Because I find myself engrossed in this situation, and I'm striving to remain grounded,
Up above in my head, instead of going under
keeping my thoughts organized instead of succumbing to chaos.
'Cause I'm in too deep, and I'm trying to keep
Because I’m heavily invested, and I’m aiming to sustain my mental stability,
Up above in my head, instead of going under
maintaining clarity rather than drowning in disarray.
Instead of going under (Instead of going under)
To avoid the pitfall of losing control and succumbing to situations.
I can't sit back and wonder why
I can no longer afford to merely speculate about the reasons behind our troubles.
It took so long for this to die
It has taken an extensive period for this relationship to deteriorate.
and I hate it when you fake it
I detest it when you pretend everything is fine despite the issues.
You can't hide it, you might as well embrace it
It's futile to conceal the truth; accepting it is a more honest approach.
So believe me, it's not easy
Trust me, navigating this situation is far from simple.
It seems that something's telling me
There's an intuition nudging me to acknowledge the reality of our circumstances.
I'm in too deep, and I'm trying to keep
I’m deeply involved in this, and I’m attempting to stay grounded,
Up above in my head, instead of going under
keeping my thoughts straight rather than succumbing to confusion.
'Cause I'm in too deep, and I'm trying to keep
Being heavily invested, I'm striving to maintain my balance,
Up above in my head, instead of going under
to remain mentally clear instead of slipping into chaos.
Instead of going under
To steer clear of sinking into emotional turmoil.
Instead of going under again
To avoid repeating the experience of falling into despair once more.
Instead of going under
To continuously evade the descent into hopelessness.
Instead of going under again
To remain vigilant and prevent repetition of past failures.
Instead of going under again
To strive not to revisit the state of distress we've experienced before.
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