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Real Affair
Tiana Major9 Lyrics
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Was caused by trying times and
I just reach for the green when I get in my feelings
There's a sad underlining, it's better than crying
Yes, I like my own space
But blowing cheese might get away (oh)
Oh, this ain't a real affair (affair)
Oh, you're just smoke and mirrors (smoke and mirrors)
When I'm with her, I know her smoke will clear
When I'm feeling, regret is
Better, forgetting
Tougher than voodoo
Man who knew, she's stronger than you (you)
Got me feeling so numb (feeling so numb)
I swear I'm in love, ooh
But she won't stay too long (won't stay too long)
And you're far from home (oh)
Oh, this ain't a real affair (affair)
Got me with her, 'cause you know that you weren't there
Oh, you're just smoke and mirrors (smoke and mirrors)
When I'm with her, I know her smoke will clear
(Affair)
(Smoke and mirrors)
The lyrics of Tiana Major9's song "Real Affair" explores the themes of infidelity, deceit, and escape. The singer reveals that she has become obsessed with "flying" as a means of escaping her tumultuous feelings, which is alluded to as the use of drugs ("reaching for the green"). She acknowledges the underlying sadness behind her actions, but finds it better than crying. Tiana also emphasizes her need for space, but suggests that her escapism might push away those closest to her.
The chorus of the song is a clear indictment of her partner's infidelity or lack of interest in the relationship. The phrase, "this ain't a real affair," shows that the relationship is not genuine or fulfilling. The smoke and mirrors analogy suggests that Tiana's partner is deceptive and not displaying their true self in the relationship. By contrast, the singer's "affair" with her escape mechanism is more sincere and clear, providing the release and comfort that she needs.
Overall, "Real Affair" is a poignant commentary on infidelity and the need for escape from distressing circumstances. The song uses a poignant metaphor, amazing vocals, and skillful songwriting to convey these emotions and ideas. It's a relatable song to anyone who has ever felt depravity in a relationship or needed to flee from reality occasionally.
Line by Line Meaning
This obsession with flying
My desire to escape reality and fly away from my problems
Was caused by trying times and
It stems from difficult experiences I've faced in the past
I just reach for the green when I get in my feelings
I smoke marijuana to cope with my emotions
There's a sad underlining, it's better than crying
There is a melancholic undertone to my actions, but it is preferable to breaking down in tears
Yes, I like my own space
I value my independence and alone time
But blowing cheese might get away (oh)
But smoking weed can help me escape reality for a little while
Oh, this ain't a real affair (affair)
My relationship with weed isn't a true, genuine connection
Got me with her, 'cause you know that you weren't there
I turned to weed because you were not emotionally available for me
Oh, you're just smoke and mirrors (smoke and mirrors)
You are an illusion, a facade that doesn't truly fulfill my emotional needs
When I'm with her, I know her smoke will clear
When I am high, my mind becomes more clear and I am able to see things in a new perspective
When I'm feeling, regret is
When I am feeling down and defeated,
Better, forgetting
it is easier to forget than to dwell on my regrets
Tougher than voodoo
It is incredibly difficult to move past my regrets
Man who knew, she's stronger than you (you)
It is surprising that weed is stronger at helping me cope than you are
Got me feeling so numb (feeling so numb)
Weed makes me feel emotionally detached and numb
I swear I'm in love, ooh
I genuinely believe that my relationship with weed is love
But she won't stay too long (won't stay too long)
But I know that the high will eventually fade and reality will set back in
And you're far from home (oh)
You are emotionally distant and not present in my life
Lyrics ยฉ Universal Music Publishing Group, Downtown Music Publishing, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Devon Wheatley, Jerome Williams, Ras Kassa Alexander, Richell Bonner, Tiana Thomas-Ambersley
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Abassi
This obsession with flying
Was caused by trying times and
I just reach for the green when I get in my feelings
There's a sad underlining, it's better than crying
Yes, I like my own space
But blowing cheese might get away (oh)
Oh, this ain't a real affair (affair)
Got me with her, 'cause you know that you weren't there
Oh, you're just smoke and mirrors (smoke and mirrors)
When I'm with her, I know her smoke will clear
When I'm feeling, regret is
Better, forgetting
Tougher than voodoo
Man who knew, she's stronger than you (you)
Got me feeling so numb (feeling so numb)
I swear I'm in love, ooh
But she won't stay too long (won't stay too long)
And you're far from home (oh)
Oh, this ain't a real affair (affair)
Got me with her, 'cause you know that you weren't there
Oh, you're just smoke and mirrors (smoke and mirrors)
When I'm with her, I know her smoke will clear
Mase Rhea
She sounds so much like Jazmine Sullivan (who I LOOOOVE). Definitely a beautiful voice and good bops โค๏ธ
Mase Rhea
@LaToya Hicks right !?
LaToya Hicks
If someone told me this was an old, unreleased Jazmine Sullivan song I would've believed them
Erica Champ
Between Tiana, Teyana, Jazmine, h.e.r. And Ari Lennox. Weโre finally getting R&b back
Athletes University
The rebirth of R&B began in 2020 ๐ฅ
jamison_ daniii
This needs WAY more attention than it has
Eluisa Andrews
UNDERRATED!!! Should have like 500M views ๐ ๐
Abassi
This obsession with flying
Was caused by trying times and
I just reach for the green when I get in my feelings
There's a sad underlining, it's better than crying
Yes, I like my own space
But blowing cheese might get away (oh)
Oh, this ain't a real affair (affair)
Got me with her, 'cause you know that you weren't there
Oh, you're just smoke and mirrors (smoke and mirrors)
When I'm with her, I know her smoke will clear
When I'm feeling, regret is
Better, forgetting
Tougher than voodoo
Man who knew, she's stronger than you (you)
Got me feeling so numb (feeling so numb)
I swear I'm in love, ooh
But she won't stay too long (won't stay too long)
And you're far from home (oh)
Oh, this ain't a real affair (affair)
Got me with her, 'cause you know that you weren't there
Oh, you're just smoke and mirrors (smoke and mirrors)
When I'm with her, I know her smoke will clear
Anjelica Pickles
correction. she doesnโt say โbut blowing cheese might get awayโ she says โthe blunt, sheโs my getaway.โ hence the song is about using weed as her escape from a toxic relationship. :)
PreacherLawson
My JAM!!! ๐๐พ