Use Me
Tina Dickow Lyrics


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So you've messed it up
Don't know when to stop
Said more than enough

I've touched you where it hurts
And I know I'm not the first
But please don't make it worse
Don't be so hard on yourself
Take it out on someone else
Say my name anyway you please
Use me

Look me in the eye
I'd love to see you smile
And I know how hard you try

Don't be so hard on yourself
Take it out on someone else
Say my name anyway you please

In the morning
You'll see a different side
In the morning
A softer light
In the morning
It will all look right
And you won't have to hide

Don't be so hard on yourself
Take it out on someone else
Say my name anyway you please
Don't be so hard on yourself
Take it out on someone else




Say my name anyway you please
Use me

Overall Meaning

The song "Use Me" by Tina Dickow is a plea to a struggling lover to let go of their self-blame and use the singer instead as a way to ease their pain. In the first verse, the singer acknowledges that the lover has messed up, but urges them not to dwell on it and make it worse. The second verse affirms the singer's desire to see the lover's smile and encourages them to take out their frustrations on someone else instead of being too hard on themselves. The repetition of the lines "Say my name anyway you please" and "Use me" reinforces the singer's willingness to be a vessel for the lover's pain.


The chorus of "Don't be so hard on yourself / Take it out on someone else" is both empathetic and practical in its advice. The singer understands that the lover is struggling and hurting, but also knows that they need to find some way to release those feelings in a healthy way. The repeated use of the phrase "in the morning" suggests that the singer sees a brighter future for the lover, and that they will be able to move past their current struggles. All in all, "Use Me" is a tender and compassionate song about offering oneself up as a support system for someone in need.


Line by Line Meaning

So you've messed it up
You've made a mistake or error


Don't know when to stop
You are unsure of when to end whatever you are doing


Said more than enough
You've said too much already


I've touched you where it hurts
I've hit a sensitive area that causes emotional pain or distress


And I know I'm not the first
I am aware that others have hurt you before in a similar way


But please don't make it worse
Don't aggravate or worsen the situation even more


Don't be so hard on yourself
Don't criticize or judge yourself too harshly


Take it out on someone else
Direct your anger or frustration towards someone other than yourself


Say my name anyway you please
Address me in whatever manner you like or prefer


Use me
Utilize me for whatever purpose or need you have


Look me in the eye
Make eye contact with me


I'd love to see you smile
I want to see you happy and content


And I know how hard you try
I understand that you are making an effort to improve


In the morning
When the day starts or when you wake up


You'll see a different side
You'll see things from a different perspective


A softer light
A gentler, more positive outlook


It will all look right
Things will seem to fall into place or make sense


And you won't have to hide
You won't need to conceal or bury your feelings




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Comments from YouTube:

alabamaslammer2222

So beautiful it hurts! Gotta love it and gotta love her to bits!

Jan Hansen

great musik, for when you wake up .... and discover, that the globe is a scam

Kapai Mana

48+ thousand views and only one comment...thats weird.

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