Between 2007 and 2011, Tinashe was a member of the girl group the Stunners. Following their disbandment, she released the positively-reviewed self-recorded mixtapes In Case We Die (2012) and Reverie (2012). Following their success, Tinashe signed with RCA Records and released her third mixtape, Black Water (2013). Her debut single, "2 On" (featuring Schoolboy Q; produced by Mustard), reached number one on the Rhythmic airplay chart, and peaked at number 24 on the Billboard Hot 100.[4] Her debut studio album, Aquarius (2014), was noted by music critics as one of the most "solid" debuts by a new female artist in years. The album garnered her nominations for Soul Train and BET Awards.[5] Her collaboration with Snakehips and Chance the Rapper, "All My Friends", won the Ivor Novello Award for Best Contemporary Song in 2016.[6] The same year, Tinashe appeared on Britney Spears' single "Slumber Party", which topped Billboard's Dance Club Songs chart. Tinashe's second studio album, Nightride (2016), reached number eight on the Top R&B/Hip-Hop Albums chart in the US. Joyride (2018), her third studio album, peaked at number 58 on the Billboard 200 chart and reached number six on the UK R&B Albums chart. After departing RCA, Tinashe independently released the albums Songs for You (2019), 333 (2021) and BB/Ang3l (2023).
Know Better
Tinashe Lyrics
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(Bongo by the way)
Sitting here with my thoughts in a bottle
Every time I take a sip, I'm reminded of you
Like how you been?
Wait a minute, what am I doing?
It feels different when you're not around
Never thought that this would be us
I feel a way, I feel a way, baby
I was fighting but you gave up
Now you feel a way, you feel a way
And I
Wanna love you but I know better, better
Wanna kiss you but I know better
I know better baby
Wanna kiss you but I know better
Got me telling all my secrets
Got me in and out my feeling's tonight
Who was wrong, who was right?
Doesn't matter
It'll fade over time
It was what I tell myself
Hit decline on my line when you call now
I'm distant, it's different with you, oh whoa
All those nights I cried over us
Where were you then? Where were you then? Baby
I don't wanna feel that again
I'm still afraid, I'm still afraid
And I
Wanna love you but I know better, better
Wanna kiss you but I know better
I know better baby
Wanna kiss you but I know better
Got me telling all my secrets
Got me in and out my feeling's tonight
Wanna love you but I know better, better
Wanna kiss you but I know better
I know better baby
Wanna kiss you but I know better
Got me telling all my secrets
Got me in and out my feeling's tonight
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, oh baby
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, oh baby
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
Got me telling all my secrets
Got me in and out my feelings tonight
(Telling all my secrets
In and out my feelings tonight)
Somewhere over the horizon
Sun is rising on you with no me
I would put my pride aside
If you could promise to be worth the wait
Hoping that you think about us
Sometimes I'm still leaning on the lonely
Another broken heart, another day
When I fall in love, I guess I'm always gonna stay
Living like a ghost, all haunted
All I want is to feel like the old me
Fade away a little slower
I go over every word you told me
If it was our last then why did I feel
I'm in Heaven when you hold me
Another broken heart, another day
When I fall in love, I guess I always find a way
Still feels like
I could fall to pieces
When I hear your name
Hoping just a little
That you feel the same, anyway
Honestly
What's another break up
To a girl like me?
I could find another lover easily
And you know it, tell me
Did you notice?
I've been doing just fine
It's like you're never here and the tears have all dried
Did you notice? Did you notice me?
Did you notice?
I've been doing okay
Don't even think about you every single day
Did you notice me?
Still feels like
I could fall to pieces
When I hear your name
Hoping just a little
That you feel the same, anyway, oh
Honestly
What's another break up
To a girl like me?
I could find another lover easily
And you know it, tell me
Did you notice?
I've been doing just fine
It's like you're never here and the tears have all dried
Did you notice? Did you notice me?
Did you notice?
I've been doing okay
Still think about you every single night and day
Did you notice me?
In Delany Harter's song, "Know Better", the artist is grappling with her feelings for someone who she knows isn't good for her. The lyrics are introspective and depict a sense of longing for the person, despite understanding that the relationship would ultimately be harmful. The opening lines of the song, "Sitting here with my thoughts in a bottle, Every time I take a sip, I'm reminded of you" expresses how the artist's every thought seems to lead back to the other person.
Later in the song, there is a line that says, "Where were you then? Where were you then? Baby I don't wanna feel that again, I'm still afraid." This speaks to the artist's past experiences with the person and how it has left her hesitant to engage in a relationship again. Despite this, there is still a longing and desire to be with the person, leading to the lines, "Wanna love you but I know better, better, Wanna kiss you but I know better."
Overall, "Know Better" is a song about grappling with the complexities of love and understanding that sometimes, despite our feelings, we know what is best for us.
Line by Line Meaning
Sitting here with my thoughts in a bottle
I am alone with my thoughts, trapped in a symbolic bottle
Every time I take a sip, I'm reminded of you
Whenever I indulge in that which relaxes me, you come to mind
Like how you been?
How have you been, my love?
Wait a minute, what am I doing?
I'm questioning my actions
It feels different when you're not around
Life is different without you by my side
Never thought that this would be us
I never imagined that we would be where we are
I feel a way, I feel a way, baby
I have mixed emotions, my love
I was fighting but you gave up
I was fighting for our relationship, but you let it go
Now you feel a way, you feel a way
You now have mixed emotions towards me
Wanna love you but I know better, better
I want to love you, but I know it's not the best decision
Wanna kiss you but I know better
I have the urge to kiss you, but I know it's not the right choice
I know better baby
I know better than to give in to my desires
Got me telling all my secrets
You make me feel comfortable enough to share my deepest secrets
Got me in and out my feeling's tonight
You've got me emotional and unsure of how to feel
Who was wrong, who was right?
It doesn't matter who was to blame
It'll fade over time
The pain and emotions will eventually dissipate
It was what I tell myself
I'm just lying to myself
Hit decline on my line when you call now
I ignore your calls now
I'm distant, it's different with you, oh whoa
I keep my distance from you, things have changed
All those nights I cried over us
I spent many nights in tears over our relationship
Where were you then? Where were you then? Baby
Where were you during those difficult times, sweetheart?
I don't wanna feel that again
I don't want to go through that pain again
I'm still afraid, I'm still afraid
I'm still scared of getting hurt
Wanna love you but I know better, better
I want to love you, but I know it's not the best decision
Wanna kiss you but I know better
I have the urge to kiss you, but I know it's not the right choice
Got me telling all my secrets
You make me feel comfortable enough to share my deepest secrets
Got me in and out my feeling's tonight
You've got me emotional and unsure how to feel
Somewhere over the horizon
In a place beyond reach
Sun is rising on you with no me
The sun rises on you without me by your side
I would put my pride aside
I'm willing to put my ego aside
If you could promise to be worth the wait
If only you could guarantee you're worth waiting for
Hoping that you think about us
I hope you still think about our relationship
Sometimes I'm still leaning on the lonely
Sometimes I'm still alone and feeling sad
Another broken heart, another day
I've had my heart broken before and it could happen again
When I fall in love, I guess I'm always gonna stay
When I fall in love, I tend to commit for the long haul
Living like a ghost, all haunted
Living in a state of loneliness and sadness
All I want is to feel like the old me
I just want to feel like the happy, carefree person I used to be
Fade away a little slower
I wish this pain and sadness would fade more slowly
I go over every word you told me
I replay every conversation we've had in my head
If it was our last then why did I feel
If that was truly our last moment, then why did it feel like more?
I'm in Heaven when you hold me
I feel like I'm in paradise when you hold me close
Still feels like
I still have the same feeling
I could fall to pieces
I could still crumble emotionally
When I hear your name
Your name triggers my emotions
Hoping just a little
I still have a small hope for reconciliation
That you feel the same, anyway
Maybe you still feel the same, despite the circumstances
Honestly
To be honest
What's another breakup
Ending a relationship wouldn't be much of a change for me
To a girl like me?
For someone like me, it's not a big deal
I could find another lover easily
It wouldn't be hard for me to find someone new
And you know it, tell me
You know it's true, admit it
Did you notice?
Have you seen?
I've been doing just fine
I've been getting by without you
It's like you're never here and the tears have all dried
It's as if you were never here and I'm not crying anymore
Did you notice me?
Did you see how I've been doing without you?
Don't even think about you every single day
I don't think about you every day, anymore
Still think about you every single night and day
I still think about you every moment of the day and night
Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Tinashe Kachingwe
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
Vaibhav Singh
[Intro]
Bongo by the way
[Verse 1]
Sitting here with my thoughts in a bottle
Every time I take a sip, I'm reminded of you
Like how you been
Wait a minute, what am I doing?
It feels different when you're not around
[Pre-Chorus 1]
Never thought that this would be us
I fell away, I fell away, baby
I was fighting but you gave up
Now you fell away, you fell away
And I
[Chorus]
Wanna love you but I know better, better
Wanna kiss you but I know better
I know better baby
Wanna kiss you but I know better
Got me telling all my secrets
Got me in and out my feeling's tonight
[Verse 2]
Who was wrong, who was right
Doesn't matter, it will fade over time
It was what I'll tell myself
Hit decline on my line when you call now
I'm distant, t's different with you, whoah
[Pre-Chorus 2]
All those nights cried over us
Where were you then, where were you then, baby
I don't wanna feel that again
I'm still afraid, I'm still afraid
And I
[Chorus]
Wanna love you but I know better, better
Wanna kiss you but I know better
I know better baby
Wanna kiss you but I know better
Got me telling all my secrets
Got me in and out my feeling's tonight
Wanna love you but I know better, better
Wanna kiss you but I know better
I know better baby
Wanna kiss you but I know better
Got me telling all my secrets
Got me in and out my feeling's tonight
[Outro]
Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh baby
Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh baby
Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh baby
Got me telling all my secrets
Got me in and out my feelings tonight
Telling all my secrets
In and out my feelings tonight
Part II: Did You Notice?
[Verse]
Somewhere over the horizon
Sun is rising on you with no me
I would put my pride aside
If you could promise to be worth-waited
Hoping that you think about us
Sometimes I'm still leaning on the lonely
Another broken heart, another day
When I fall in love, I guess I'm always gonna stay
Living like a ghost on haunted
All I want is to feel like the old me
Fade away a little slower
I go over every word you told me
If it was all last then why did I feel
I'm in heaven when you hold me
Another broken heart, another day
When I fall in love, I guess I always find a way
[Pre-Chorus]
Still feels like I could fall in pieces when I hear your name
Hoping just a little that you feel the same, anyway
Hard to see what's another break up to a girl like me
I could find another lover easily and you know it
Tell me
[Chorus]
Did you notice?
I've been doing just fine
As I could never hear and tears all dried
Did you notice?
Did you notice me?
Did you notice?
I've been doing okay
Don't even think about you every single day
Did you notice me?
[Pre-Chorus]
Still feels like I could fall in pieces when I hear your name
Hoping just a little that you feel the same, anyway
Hard to see what's another break up to a girl like me
I could find another lover easily and you know it
Tell me
[Chorus]
Did you notice?
I've been doing just fine
As I could never hear and tears all dried
Did you notice?
Did you notice me?
Did you notice?
I've been doing okay
Still think about you every single night and day
Did you notice me?
Stocking Anarchy
Know Better"
["Know Better"]
Bongo by the way
Sitting here with my thoughts in a bottle
Every time I take a sip, I'm reminded of you
Like how you been
Wait a minute, what am I doing?
It feels different when you're not around
Never thought that this would be us
I fell away, I fell away, baby
I was fighting but you gave up
Now you fell away, you fell away
And I
Wanna love you but I know better, better
Wanna kiss you but I know better
I know better baby
Wanna kiss you but I know better
Got me telling all my secrets
Got me in and out my feeling's tonight
Who was wrong, who was right
Doesn't matter, it will fade over time
It was what I'll tell myself
Hit decline on my line when you call now
I'm distant, t's different with you, whoah
All those nights cried over us
Where were you then, where were you then, baby
I don't wanna feel that again
I'm still afraid, I'm still afraid
And I
Wanna love you but I know better, better
Wanna kiss you but I know better
I know better baby
Wanna kiss you but I know better
Got me telling all my secrets
Got me in and out my feeling's tonight
Wanna love you but I know better, better
Wanna kiss you but I know better
I know better baby
Wanna kiss you but I know better
Got me telling all my secrets
Got me in and out my feeling's tonight
Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh baby
Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh baby
Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh baby
Got me telling all my secrets
Got me in and out my feelings tonight
Telling all my secrets
In and out my feelings tonight
["Did You Notice?"]
Somewhere over the horizon
Sun is rising on you with no me
I would put my pride aside
If you could promise to be worth-waited
Hoping that you think about us
Sometimes I'm still leaning on the lonely
Another broken heart, another day
When I fall in love, I guess I'm always gonna stay
Living like a ghost on haunted
All I want is to feel like the old me
Fade away a little slower
I go over every word you told me
If it was all last then why did I feel
I'm in heaven when you hold me
Another broken heart, another day
When I fall in love, I guess I always find a way
Still feels like I could fall in pieces when I hear your name
Hoping just a little that you feel the same, anyway
Honestly what's another break up to a girl like me
I could find another lover easily and you know it
Tell me
Did you notice?
I've been doing just fine
As I could never hear and tears all dried
Did you notice?
Did you notice me?
Did you notice?
I've been doing okay
Don't even think about you every single day
Did you notice me?
Still feels like I could fall in pieces when I hear your name
Hoping just a little that you feel the same, anyway
Honestly what's another break up to a girl like me
I could find another lover easily and you know it
Tell me
Did you notice?
I've been doing just fine
As I could never hear and tears all dried
Did you notice?
Did you notice me?
Did you notice?
I've been doing okay
Still think about you every single night and day
Did you notice me?
jane doe
[Part I: Know Better]
[Intro]
Bongo turn it up
Bongo 볼륨 올려
Bongo by the way
길가에 Bongo
[Verse 1]
Sitting here with my thoughts in a bottle
병에 내 생각을 담은 채 여기 앉아
Every time I take a sip, I'm reminded of you
술을 마실 때마다 네가 생각나
Like, how you been?
어떻게 지냈어?
Wait a minute, what am I doing?
잠깐만, 내가 뭐 하는 거지?
It feels different when you're not around
네가 곁에 없으면 느낌이 달라
[Pre-Chorus]
Never thought that this would be us
이게 우리가 될 줄이야
I feel a way, I feel a way, baby
뭔가 느껴, 뭔가 느껴, 베이비
I was fighting, but you gave up
난 싸우고 있었지만, 넌 포기했지
Now you feel a way, you feel a way
이제 넌 뭔가 느껴, 뭔가 느껴
And I
그리고 난
[Chorus]
Wanna love you, but I know better, better
널 사랑하고 싶지만, 이미 잘 알지, 알지
Wanna kiss you, but I know better
키스하고 싶지만, 이미 잘 알지
I know better, baby
이미 잘 알지, 베이비
Miss you, but I know better
네가 보고 싶지만, 이미 잘 알지
Got me telling all my secrets
내 비밀들을 전부 털어놓게 돼
Got me in and out my feelings tonight
오늘밤은 감정에 빠졌다가 나왔다가
[Verse 2]
Who was wrong? Who was right? Doesn't matter
누가 틀렸지? 누가 옳았지? 상관 없어
"It'll fade over time" is what I'll tell myself
"시간 지나면 사라질 거야"라고 스스로에게 말해
Hit decline on my line when you call now
이젠 네가 전화 오면 거절 버튼을 눌러
I'm distant, it's different with you, oh-ooh-ah
난 멀리 떨어져, 너랑은 다르지, oh-ooh-ah
[Pre-Chorus]
All those nights I cried over us (Cried over us)
우리 때문에 울었던 밤들 (울었던 밤들)
Where were you then? (Where were you then?)
그때 넌 어디 있었어? (그때 넌 어디 있었어?)
Where were you then, baby? (Oh woah)
그때 넌 어디 있었어, 베이비? (Oh woah)
I don't wanna feel that again (Feel that again)
다시 그런 기분은 느끼고 싶지 않아 (싶지 않아)
I'm still afraid, I'm still afraid
여전히 겁이 나, 여전히 겁이 나
And I
그리고 난
[Chorus]x2
[Outro]
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, oh baby (Baby)
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, oh baby (Yeah)
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
Got me telling all my secrets
내 비밀들을 전부 털어놓게 돼
Got me in and out my feelings tonight (Ooh, oh, hey)
오늘밤은 감정에 빠졌다가 나왔다가 (Ooh, oh, hey)
(Telling all my secrets)
(비밀들을 전부 털어놔)
(In and out my feelings tonight)
(감정에 빠졌다가 나왔다가)
[Part II: Did You Notice?]
[Verse]
Somewhere over the horizon
지평선 쪽 어딘가
Sun is rising on you with no me
나 없는 네 앞에 해가 떠오르고 있어
I would put my pride aside
기다릴만한 가치가 있다는 걸
If you could promise to be worth the wait
약속해줄 수 있다면, 자존심은 옆으로 치울 거야
Hoping that you think about us
네가 우리 생각을 하고 있길 바라
Sometimes, I'm still leaning on the lonely
가끔은, 여전히 외로움에 기대
Another broken heart, another day
또 다시 깨진 심장, 또 다른 하루
When I fall in love, I guess I'm always gonna stay
사랑에 빠지면, 계속 남아있게 될 거 같아
Living like a ghost, I'm haunted
유령처럼 살아, 난 그 유령에 시달려
All I want is to feel like the old me
나는 그저 옛날 나처럼 되고 싶어
Fade away a little slower
조금 더 천천히 사라져
I go over every word you told me
네가 했던 말을 전부 곱씹어봐
If it was all lies, then why did I feel
전부 거짓말이었다면, 왜 네가 나를
I'm in heaven when you hold me
안았을 때 천국에 오른 것 같은 기분이었을까
Another broken heart, another day
또 다시 깨진 심장, 또 다른 하루
When I fall in love, I guess I always find a way
사랑에 빠지면, 어떻게든 길을 찾아내고 말 거 같아
[Pre-Chorus]
Still feels like I could fall to pieces when I hear your name
여전히 네 이름을 들으면 조각 나 무너질 거 같아
Hoping just a little that you feel the same, anyway
너도 같은 기분이길 조금은 바라지, 어쨌든
Honestly, what's another break up to a girl like me?
솔직히, 나 같은 여자애한테 이별 한 번이 뭐겠어?
I could find another lover easily and you know it
쉽게 애인은 한 명 더 찾을 수 있어, 알잖아
Tell me
말해봐
[Chorus]
Did you notice I've been doing just fine?
나 잘 지내고 있는 거 알아챘어?
It's like you're never here and the tears have all dried
넌 여기 있던 적도 없고 눈물도 다 마른 거 같아
Did you notice, did you notice me?
나를 알아봤어, 알아봤어?
Did you notice I've been doing okay?
내가 잘 지내고 있는 것도 알아챘어?
Don't even think about you every single day
매일 너에 대해 생각하는 것도 아냐
Did you notice me? Oh
나를 알아봤어? Oh
[Bridge]
Ooh, ah
Ooh, oh
Ooh, ah
[Pre-Chorus]
[Chorus]
Did you notice I've been doing just fine?
나 잘 지내고 있는 거 알아챘어?
It's like you're never here and the tears have all dried
넌 여기 있던 적도 없고 눈물도 다 마른 거 같아
Did you notice, did you notice me?
나를 알아봤어, 알아봤어?
Did you notice I've been doing okay?
내가 잘 지내고 있는 것도 알아챘어?
Still think about you every single night and day
여전히 매일 밤 매일 낮 너를 생각해
Did you notice me?
나를 알아봤어?
Terry Smith
Intro]
Bongo by the way
[Verse 1]
Sitting here with my thoughts in a bottle
Every time I take a sip, I’m reminded of you
Like how you been
Wait a minute, what am I doing?
It feels different when you’re not around
[Pre-Chorus 1]
Never thought that this would be us
I fell away, I fell away, baby
I was fighting but you gave up
Now you fell away, you fell away
And I
[Chorus]
Wanna love you but I know better, better
Wanna kiss you but I know better
I know better baby
Wanna kiss you but I know better
Got me telling all my secrets
Got me in and out my feeling’s tonight
[Verse 2]
Who was wrong, who was right
Doesn’t matter, it will fade over time
It was what I’ll tell myself
Hit decline on my line when you call now
I’m distant, t’s different with you, whoah
[Pre-Chorus 2]
All those nights cried over us
Where were you then, where were you then, baby
I don’t wanna feel that again
I’m still afraid, I’m still afraid
And I
[Chorus]
Wanna love you but I know better, better
Wanna kiss you but I know better
I know better baby
Wanna kiss you but I know better
Got me telling all my secrets
Got me in and out my feeling’s tonight
Wanna love you but I know better, better
Wanna kiss you but I know better
I know better baby
Wanna kiss you but I know better
Got me telling all my secrets
Got me in and out my feeling’s tonight
[Outro]
Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh baby
Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh baby
Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh baby
Got me telling all my secrets
Got me in and out my feelings tonight
Telling all my secrets
In and out my feelings tonight
Part II: Did You Notice?
[Verse]
Somewhere over the horizon
Sun is rising on you with no me
I would put my pride aside
If you could promise to be worth-waited
Hoping that you think about us
Sometimes I’m still leaning on the lonely
Another broken heart, another day
When I fall in love, I guess I’m always gonna stay
Living like a ghost on haunted
All I want is to feel like the old me
Fade away a little slower
I go over every word you told me
If it was all last then why did I feel
I’m in heaven when you hold me
Another broken heart, another day
When I fall in love, I guess I always find a way
[Pre-Chorus]
Still feels like I could fall in pieces when I hear your name
Hoping just a little that you feel the same, anyway
Honestly what’s another break up to a girl like me
I could find another lover easily and you know it
Tell me
[Chorus]
Did you notice?
I’ve been doing just fine
As I could never hear and tears all dried
Did you notice?
Did you notice me?
Did you notice?
I’ve been doing okay
Don’t even think about you every single day
Did you notice me?
[Pre-Chorus]
Still feels like I could fall in pieces when I hear your name
Hoping just a little that you feel the same, anyway
Honestly what’s another break up to a girl like me
I could find another lover easily and you know it
Tell me
[Chorus]
Did you notice?
I’ve been doing just fine
As I could never hear and tears all dried
Did you notice?
Did you notice me?
Did you notice?
I’ve been doing okay
Still think about you every single night and day
Did you notice me?
Lindsay Monroe
The second part of this song is not just the highlight of this song, but it's a highlight of the entire album.
Fueg 20
Exactlyyy
whatwe Talkingbout
YESSSSSSS !!!!!! i didnt appreciate it till the 3rd listen i almost slapped myself for taking that long SHE DID THAT
Gabriel McPhillips
for sure. so good
Kaela Renee'
Thank you😍💃🏾🤟🏾
India Gibbs
Lindsay Monroe facts
*Ang*
Tinashe’s ballads are slept on
Kewi
They really are. I like how she has 1 or 2 of them in the album and she ends the album with one. It's so beautiful! 💖
Janus Brandsma
Yes! She really pours her heart out in these ballads
Mistress Bayonetta
What are all her ballads? This, and fires and flames. I can't remember more