She's Gone
Tindersticks Lyrics


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She's gone
And it's quiet now
Took her mother with her

Left town
Took her mother's eye
Stole her mother's heart
It's a compromise

We nurture that part and she's gone
Says she can walk now
Says she can walk now
Thinks she can walk

Seen her walking
She totters and falls
And when I'm not looking
Leans onto the wall
And she'll hold on to me only when she wants
And she'll fall and be up again
It's part of the fun

But she's gone
Thinks she can walk now
Thinks she can walk now
Thinks she can walk

She's gone
And it's quiet now
Took her mother with her
Left town
Took her mother's eye
Stole her mother's heart
It's a compromise

We nurture that part and she's gone
And it's quiet now




Took her mother with her
Left town

Overall Meaning

The opening verse of Tindersticks’ “She’s Gone” describes a scene of desolation and silence that follows the departure of an important person. The use of the past tense carries the implication that the singer already knows the person is gone and there is little chance of bringing her back. The subsequent lines develop the story, revealing that the departed person is a young girl who left town and took her mother with her. The girl’s actions are puzzling and melancholic because of the collateral damage it causes to her mother, symbolized by the phrases “took her mother’s eye” and “stole her mother’s heart.” However, the song hints at something more complex and ambiguous since the last two lines of the verse proclaim that “it’s a compromise/We nurture that part and she’s gone.” This suggests that the mother and others around her may have enabled and facilitated the girl’s departure.


The second and third verses revolve around the girl’s newfound ability to walk, which seems to be a pivotal aspect of her leaving. However, the lines “And she’ll hold on to me only when she wants/And she’ll fall and be up again/It’s part of the fun” suggest a sadomasochistic dynamic that explains the girl’s departure as an act of rebellion against her own limitations and dependency. By insisting on walking, she asserts her independence but does so in a haphazard and vulnerable way that relies on manipulating others, causing concern and even injury.


In conclusion, “She’s Gone” is a multidimensional song that explores themes of loss, rebellion, manipulation, and dependency. Its lyrics paint a vivid image of a young, troubled girl whose departure has profound and ambiguous consequences for those she left behind.


Line by Line Meaning

She's gone
She has left, and is no longer here.


And it's quiet now
Without her, there is now silence and stillness.


Took her mother with her
When she left, she took her mother along as well.


Left town
She departed from the place where she used to reside.


Took her mother's eye
She took something valuable and important from her mother.


Stole her mother's heart
She has deeply affected her mother emotionally and caused her pain.


It's a compromise
This is a difficult and uneasy situation for everyone involved.


We nurture that part and she's gone
Despite our attempts to support her, she has still decided to leave.


Says she can walk now
She claims to be able to move independently on her own two feet now.


Thinks she can walk
She believes she can walk, although this may not be entirely true yet.


Seen her walking
We have observed her trying to walk.


She totters and falls
She struggles to maintain balance and often ends up on the ground.


And when I'm not looking
When I'm not paying attention or observing her,


Leans onto the wall
She uses the wall to support herself as she tries to walk.


And she'll hold on to me only when she wants
She will only seek my help when she feels she needs it.


And she'll fall and be up again
She experiences setbacks but is willing to keep trying.


It's part of the fun
The process of trying and failing is enjoyable for her, even if it is frustrating.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC
Written by: DAVID PEVERETT, RODERICK PRICE

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Comments from YouTube:

Kraft Werk

Remember listening to this gem like 25 years ago and realising how good this band is.

cartílago

Esplendido, como todo el álbum.

Howard

This song makes me feel the time slipping through my fingers with my children.

Laurent Carty

This song reminds me of my wife, deeply...

Mojo Filter

Dope slo-mo..

Ismail OZAY

pure and perfect with dickon again!

Winslow Leach

Superbe

Patricia Delicia

Gotta tell L I love her and if I can do anything

Patricia Delicia

And struggling. Born in April a year apart. Girl won't stop crying when her mum is gone. Back to work. Tell me about it

Frank Brenner

I am surprised Tarantino hasn't used them yet.

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