Trying to Find a Home
Tindersticks Lyrics


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Still trying to find a reason
Still trying to find a home
Just some place to spread my things in
A place from where I can run
Came from so far so silent
You saw the stars above
Your smiling faces cheer up (?)
Take what we never had

[Chorus]
The lowered sun
Brings another memory
I held in my head
So I can see
Every color you were wearing
Every color in your eyes
Came from far so silent
You saw the stars above
Your smiling faces cheer up (?)
Take what we never had
And I hear you whisper
Where are you?
And I see my hand
Upon your skin
I can feel me searching for you
Still trying to find a home
And there'll come a time
When everything's so tough (?)
Everything's apart
Trying to find a home




We're so near (?)
We're so apart

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "Trying to Find a Home" by Tindersticks are a reflection of the singer's self-discovery journey to find a place where they belong. The song's first two lines, "Still trying to find a reason, still trying to find a home" signify the singer's existential crisis and their longing for a sense of meaning and a place where they can establish roots. The next few lines, "Just some place to spread my things in, a place from where I can run" is a curious juxtaposition. The singer wants a sense of permanence, but they also want to be able to leave whenever they need to. These lines can be interpreted as a reflection of the singer's internal conflict – wanting the comfort of a home but also wanting the freedom to move around.


"Came from so far so silent, you saw the stars above, your smiling faces cheer up - take what we never had" suggests that the singer has experienced a sense of displacement or lack in their life, but they are now in the company of others who cheer them up. This line may also imply a feeling of solidarity with the people around them who may be sharing the same experience of trying to find their place in the world.


The chorus expresses a sense of yearning as the singer longs to find the person who they have lost touch with. "And I hear you whisper, where are you? And I see my hand, upon your skin, I can feel me searching for you" suggests that the singer has a deep longing for someone who is no longer with them. The chorus concludes with the lines "Still trying to find a home, and there'll come a time when everything's so tough, everything's apart, trying to find a home, we're so near, we're so apart." Here, the singer realizes that the search for a home and a sense of belonging is not an easy one, and there may be times when everything feels difficult and falls apart. However, the singer has hope that they are not alone in their search and will eventually find a place where they belong.


Line by Line Meaning

Still trying to find a reason
I am still searching for a purpose or a justification for my existence.


Still trying to find a home
I am still trying to find a place where I belong and where I can be comfortable and safe.


Just some place to spread my things in
I just need a simple place to call my own and to feel settled in, where I can unpack my belongings and relax.


A place from where I can run
Although I want a home, I also want to have the ability to wander and to escape if I need to, without any permanent ties holding me down.


Came from so far so silent
My journey to find a home has been long and quiet, perhaps lonely and full of uncertainty.


You saw the stars above
Someone else (possibly the listener) witnessed my journey and saw the beauty and awe of the world around us.


Your smiling faces cheer up (?)
The sight of other people being happy and friendly gave me hope and lifted my spirits.


Take what we never had
We should cherish and appreciate what we have in the present, instead of striving for things that we have never experienced or owned.


The lowered sun
The setting sun represents the end of something, perhaps a day, a memory or a period of time.


Brings another memory
The sight of the sunset triggers another recollection or feeling in me, reminding me of something from the past.


I held in my head
The memory I recall is something that I have stored in my mind, and it continues to impact my thoughts and emotions now.


So I can see every color you were wearing
The memory I have is visual and sensory, capturing the specific hues of what someone was dressed in at a certain moment.


Every color in your eyes
I also remember the colors of someone's eyes, perhaps reflecting their emotions, personality or depth.


And I hear you whisper Where are you?
The memory involves hearing someone speak, asking me where I am and perhaps feeling alone or lost.


And I see my hand Upon your skin
The memory also involves a physical connection, where I touch or hold someone's skin, indicating intimacy or tenderness.


I can feel me searching for you
The memory and the sensory experience make me yearn for that person again, and I long to find them once more.


And there'll come a time When everything's so tough (?) Everything's apart
Despite my desire for a home and a connection with someone, there will be moments in the future where things will be difficult and chaotic, when things fall apart.


Trying to find a home
The search for a home and belonging is a recurring theme and a constant challenge in my life.


We're so near (?) We're so apart
Although we may feel close to someone, there is always a distance between us, and we may never truly find the comfort and connection that we crave.




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Written by: ALISTAIR MACAULEY, DAVID BOULTER, DICKON JAMES HINCHLIFFE, STUART ASHTON STAPLES

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