Jam
Toad The Wet Sprocket Lyrics


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One more time he says good-night
Turns out the door and off the light
Cursing low as if she didn't know
One more time he'd comfort her
As if a word could break through her
She's so quiet and he's sick of it

Too long, too late this time
Too far, too great in my mind

One more time a run-around
Nothing meant by anyone
Fine with them, such a quite din
Says he wants to leave a while
She just sits and tries to smile
"That's ok, it was boring anyway"

Too long, too late this time
Too far, too great in my mind

Says she needs a worshiper
Someone who'll do anything at all for her
Wishful thinker
He don't need this schizo bull




Each one misses by so far
They don't see it come, but who ever does

Overall Meaning

In interpreting the lyrics of Toad The Wet Sprocket's song Jam, it seems that the song is about a dysfunctional relationship between two people who are having difficulty communicating with each other. One partner seems to be silently withdrawn and lacking in responsiveness while the other is attempting to comfort and speak to her. Furthermore, it seems that the other partner is experiencing frustration and resentment towards the relationship.


The repeated phrase "one more time" conveys a sense of frustration, as if the partner is at their wits' end for trying to get through to their emotionally unavailable partner. The line "cursing low as if she didn't know" speaks to the internalized anger and resentment that is beginning to grow in him. It could be interpreted that he is lamenting the fact that she does not express what she is feeling inside, and this lack of communication is leaving him in a state of uncertainty and confusion. The line "too long, too late this time / too far, too great in my mind" paints a picture of a relationship that is past its expiration date. The troubles are too numerous and run too deep, and it has led to a point where it might be impossible to fix the problems between the two.


Line by Line Meaning

One more time he says good-night
He bids farewell once more


Turns out the door and off the light
He shuts off the lights as he leaves


Cursing low as if she didn't know
He swears under his breath, assuming she is unaware


One more time he'd comfort her
He would try to console her once again


As if a word could break through her
He believes that his words could help her, but they can't


She's so quiet and he's sick of it
He is tired of her silence


Too long, too late this time
It has been too much time and too late to change things


Too far, too great in my mind
It is too far gone to fix in his thoughts


One more time a run-around
He goes through the same thing again


Nothing meant by anyone
No one has any sincere intentions


Fine with them, such a quite din
They're content with the meaningless noise around them


Says he wants to leave a while
He wants to leave for some time


She just sits and tries to smile
She remains seated and attempts to smile


"That's ok, it was boring anyway"
She claims that it was uneventful and dismisses it


Says she needs a worshiper
She wants someone to worship her


Someone who'll do anything at all for her
She desires a person who will do everything for her


Wishful thinker
She is a dreamer with unrealistic expectations


He don't need this schizo bull
He does not want to deal with her delusional issue


Each one misses by so far
Each person fails by a significant amount


They don't see it come, but who ever does
They are not prepared for the outcome, but who is?




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: Todd Nichols, Dean Dinning, Randy Guss, Glen Phillips

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