If Only For Memories
Toh Kay Lyrics


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When you were born you were not alone
Nothing was carved into the stone quite yet but don't forget
You heard someone say, "It won't get better than this!"
That was the sound of your father
As he held you up to your mother
No one will ever know, a love as pure as the one that you felt right then

They held you up, they held you up
And everybody else they fell to the wayside
This is the start of the beginning
The prologue to the tale that you're spinning
A million synonyms will never come close to describe the feeling

Don't ever leave, 'cause if you do dear, I guarantee that you'll regret the day you did
And you'll miss all the simple things
And you'll see everything you ever loved start fading 'till there's nothing left, oh oh

And I believe that every broken bone is meant to be
And when it heals it will be stronger than it was before
And I see the things that I pretend that I don't see
And I keep them in my head love, if only for memories

So now you're young and you feel alone
Despite friends family and all the good things now surrounding you
You can't help thinking, "Oh there's gotta be some more to do"
When all the things that you cherish
Turn into burdens then there is
No other path to take, you know what you got to do but you don't know how

They'll hold you back, they'll hold you down
And you kinda feel bad but you know that you gotta get out
This is your pain your dilemma
Do you stay in the town where they raised ya
Or will you sail away
Pull the anchor and go heading for the come what may

You have to leave
'Cause if you don't dear
You'll never see the things you read about in books
You saw the films and you were hooked
But everything you want won't come to you
You realize now that you gotta go see this through

And I believe that every broken bone is meant to be
And when it heals it will be stronger than it was before
And I see the things that I pretend that I don't see
And I keep them in my head love, if only for memories

So now you're all raised, on your own
Two souls, to put yourself at home
You finally settled down
You've seen the world but your heart never left this town
They have the eyes of your mother
The kind of crooked teeth of their father
No one will ever know, a love as pure as the love that you feel for them

You'll hold them up, you'll hold them up
And everybody else should fall to the wayside
There is no end no beginning
On this merry-go-round we call living
Someday you will return, every single ounce of the love you were given

Someday they'll go
And when they leave home
You will be grateful for the lesson that you learned
You had to travel half the world
To realize what you knew all along
That everything will end up where it belongs

And I believe that every broken bone is meant to be
And when it heals it will be stronger than it was before




And I see the things that I pretend that I don't see
And I keep them in my head love, if only for memories

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of “If Only for Memories” by Toh Kay talks about the different stages of life, from birth to adulthood, and how every individual has their own unique journey. The song starts with the birth of an individual, and the love and warmth they feel from their parents at the beginning of their life. The lyrics later shift to the struggles and doubts that arise in one's adolescence, and the difficult decisions one must make in order to pursue their own path. In adulthood, the lyrics speak about how the love and warmth felt in the beginning of life is reciprocated when becoming a parent, and how the lessons learned through life experiences make everything fall into place.


The song is a reflection of the journey of life, and how every individual faces their own unique struggles, making their own mistakes and taking their own path, but eventually returning to where they belong. The lyrics talk about nostalgia and the importance of memories that keep one grounded and make one realize that everything will eventually fall into place.


Line by Line Meaning

When you were born you were not alone
You were born into a world full of love and potential.


Nothing was carved into the stone quite yet but don't forget
Your future is unwritten and full of possibility. Don't forget that.


You heard someone say, "It won't get better than this!"
In that moment, everything was perfect and you felt loved and safe.


That was the sound of your father
Your father was the source of that pure, perfect love.


As he held you up to your mother
Your parents' love for each other was just as strong as their love for you.


No one will ever know, a love as pure as the one that you felt right then
That moment of pure love and connection with your parents is one that you will always cherish and that no one else can truly understand.


They held you up, they held you up
Your parents were there for you, supporting you, from the very beginning.


And everybody else they fell to the wayside
In that moment, your parents were the whole world for you.


This is the start of the beginning
Your birth was the starting point of your own unique story and journey.


The prologue to the tale that you're spinning
Your life story is just beginning to unfold, with countless possibilities and potential endings.


A million synonyms will never come close to describe the feeling
The love and connection you felt in that moment is indescribable and unparalleled.


Don't ever leave, 'cause if you do dear, I guarantee that you'll regret the day you did
If you leave the people and things you love behind, you'll always regret it.


And you'll miss all the simple things
The little moments and experiences that make life beautiful and worthwhile will pass you by.


And you'll see everything you ever loved start fading 'till there's nothing left, oh oh
Without the people and things you love, life will seem dull and unfulfilling.


And I believe that every broken bone is meant to be
Every challenge and difficulty you face has a purpose in shaping you into who you are meant to be.


And when it heals it will be stronger than it was before
After overcoming obstacles, you will emerge stronger and better equipped to handle future challenges.


And I see the things that I pretend that I don't see
There are things in life that we try to ignore or avoid, but they still impact us in ways we can't always see.


And I keep them in my head love, if only for memories
Even if we can't fully process or understand certain experiences, we hold onto them as part of our life story.


So now you're young and you feel alone
As you grow older, you may become more aware of the loneliness and challenges of life.


Despite friends family and all the good things now surrounding you
Even with the support of loved ones and positive aspects of life, it can still feel overwhelming and isolating at times.


You can't help thinking, "Oh there's gotta be some more to do"
You may feel like there's a larger purpose or calling waiting for you in life, but you're not sure what it is or how to find it.


When all the things that you cherish
Even the things you hold most dear can sometimes become a burden or a source of stress and anxiety.


Turn into burdens then there is
When this happens, it can feel like there is no clear path forward or escape from the situation.


No other path to take, you know what you got to do but you don't know how
You may have a sense of what you need to do to find a way out, but figuring out the details and logistics can be a challenge.


They'll hold you back, they'll hold you down
People and circumstances can often keep us from pursuing our dreams and making changes in our lives.


And you kinda feel bad but you know that you gotta get out
Leaving behind the people and things you care about can be difficult, but sometimes it is necessary for growth and fulfillment.


This is your pain your dilemma
No one else can fully understand the pain and difficulty of the situation you are in.


Do you stay in the town where they raised ya
One of the options you may face is staying in the familiar and comfortable surroundings where you grew up.


Or will you sail away
Another option is venturing out into the unknown and taking risks in pursuit of something greater.


Pull the anchor and go heading for the come what may
To pursue your dreams and find fulfillment, you sometimes have to let go of the things weighing you down and embrace uncertainty and risk.


You have to leave
Sometimes leaving behind what's comfortable and familiar is necessary in order to pursue growth and happiness.


'Cause if you don't dear
If you stay stagnant and refuse to take risks, you'll never find the fulfillment you're seeking.


You'll never see the things you read about in books
You won't experience the adventure, growth, and fulfillment that comes from taking risks and pursuing dreams.


You saw the films and you were hooked
You have an idea of what fulfillment and adventure look like, but it's up to you to make it happen in your own life.


But everything you want won't come to you
You have to actively seek out and work towards the things you want in life, they won't just appear on their own.


You realize now that you gotta go see this through
You understand that pursuing your dreams and taking risks is the only way to find the fulfillment and adventure you seek.


So now you're all raised, on your own
You've grown up and are now independent, responsible for your own choices and destiny.


Two souls, to put yourself at home
You have found love and family, creating a home for yourself.


You finally settled down
After a journey of self-discovery and adventure, you have found stability and peace.


You've seen the world but your heart never left this town
Even after pursuing adventure and growth, you still have a deep love and connection to the place you call home.


They have the eyes of your mother
You see echoes of those you love and cherish in your own children.


The kind of crooked teeth of their father
You see the traits and characteristics of your loved ones reflected in your children, bringing you happiness and comfort.


No one will ever know, a love as pure as the love that you feel for them
The love you feel for your children is indescribable and unparalleled, a unique bond and connection.


You'll hold them up, you'll hold them up
You will be there to support and love your children, just as your own parents were there for you.


And everybody else should fall to the wayside
Your love and devotion to your family is the most important thing in your life, and other things pale in comparison.


There is no end no beginning
Family love is a constant, never-ending journey that lasts a lifetime.


On this merry-go-round we call living
Life is full of ups and downs, but the love of family brings a constant source of joy and comfort.


Someday you will return, every single ounce of the love you were given
One day, you'll be able to repay the love and support you received from your parents, by being there for your own children.


Someday they'll go
Your children will grow up and leave the nest, starting their own journey in life.


And when they leave home
When your children leave, it will be difficult but it's a necessary part of their growth and independence.


You will be grateful for the lesson that you learned
The love and experiences you shared with your children will always be treasured, teaching you important lessons about love, life, and family.


You had to travel half the world
Your journey to find love and family wasn't easy, but it was worth it.


To realize what you knew all along
You had to go through the ups and downs of life to fully understand the importance of love and family.


That everything will end up where it belongs
Despite the challenges and uncertainties of life, everything eventually falls into place, including the love and family you cherish.




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Gabe T.

When you were born you were not alone
Nothing was carved into the stone quite yet but don't forget
You heard someone say, "It won't get better than this!"
That was the sound of your father
As he held you up to your mother
No one will ever know, a love as pure as the one that you felt right then

They held you up, they held you up
And everybody else they fell to the wayside
This is the start of the beginning
The prologue to the tale that you're spinning
A million synonyms will never come close to describe the feeling

Don't ever leave, 'cause if you do dear, I guarantee that you'll regret the day you did
And you'll miss all the simple things
And you'll see everything you ever loved start fading 'till there's nothing left, oh oh

And I believe that every broken bone is meant to be
And when it heals it will be stronger than it was before
And I see the things that I pretend that I don't see
And I keep them in my head love, if only for memories


So now you're young and you feel alone
Despite friends family and all the good things now surrounding you
You can't help thinking, "Oh there's gotta be some more to do"
When all the things that you cherish
Turn into burdens then there is
No other path to take, you know what you got to do but you don't know how

They'll hold you back, they'll hold you down
And you kinda feel bad but you know that you gotta get out
This is your pain your dilemma
Do you stay in the town where they raised ya
Or will you sail away
Pull the anchor and go heading for the come what may

You have to leave
'Cause if you don't dear
You'll never see the things you read about in books
You saw the films and you were hooked
But everything you want won't come to you
You realize now that you gotta go see this through

And I believe that every broken bone is meant to be
And when it heals it will be stronger than it was before
And I see the things that I pretend that I don't see
And I keep them in my head love, if only for memories

So now you're all raised, on your own
Two souls, to put yourself at home
You finally settled down
You've seen the world but your heart never left this town
They have the eyes of your mother
The kind of crooked teeth of their father
No one will ever know, a love as pure as the love that you feel for them

You'll hold them up, you'll hold them up
And everybody else should fall to the wayside
There is no end no beginning
On this merry-go-round we call living
Someday you will return, every single ounce of the love you were given

Someday they'll go
And when they leave home
You will be grateful for the lesson that you learned
You had to travel half the world
To realize what you knew all along
That everything will end up where it belongs

And I believe that every broken bone is meant to be
And when it heals it will be stronger than it was before
And I see the things that I pretend that I don't see
And I keep them in my head love, if only for memories



TJ Miller

I want to answer why the third verse was left off the street light version. This my opinion of course, but it comes from my experience playing punk rock and writing songs.

Look at the play time. This version is nearly 6 minutes long and that's cutting a bridge with some solid horn section work that makes streetlight, streetlight.

An 8 minute song would be fine for some but thats really pushing it for most punk centric fan bases.

They cut the last verse cause while it does tie it up nicely its the only verse they could cut and still have a story. And the parenthood phase of life isn't really on brand again with a punk centric fan base.

Thomas worked this out perfectly in my mind.. Younger streetlight light fans will relate to the streetlight version and keep the pace moving. Those who may be a little older and more open to an acoustic version or really digging deep in the catalog will get a hidden gem of a beautiful third verse. Genius.



All comments from YouTube:

Josh Gordon

It still baffles me that they didn't include the third verse in the Streetlight version of this song. That verse brings the whole song full circle, and just feels incomplete without it.

Fabio Bracht

EXACTLY

Trudy Morgan-Cole

Agreed! The song doesn't work without the third verse (at least, it's not the same song).

felipe

Accurate

Topkapi 93

I was just about to say this! That third verse makes this song even more amazing. Combine the instrumentation from the Streetlight version, and the lyrics from this one, and you'd have an amazing song.

Gannon

Im hoping they include it in the new recording

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TODD Hurley

Had our first child yesterday... I can't help but feel for this song so much harder already. This song is that much more meaningful already.

Michael Siegler

Congratulations! I hope all is well. Show that kid the world!

Tomas Wallyveira

;)

felipe

Congratulations! Cheers from rio de janeiro :)

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