I Don't Wanna Grow Up
Tom Waits Lyrics


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Well, when I'm lyin' in my bed at night
I don't want to grow up
Nothin' ever seems to turn out right
I don't want to grow up
How do you move in a world of fog
That's always changing things?
Makes me wish that I could be a dog
Well, when I see the price that you pay
I don't want to grow up
I don't ever want to be that way
I don't want to grow up

Seems like folks turn into things they they'd never want
The only thing to live for is today

I'm gonna put a hole in my T.V. set
I don't want to grow up
Open up the medicine chest
And I don't want to grow up
I don't want to have to shout it out
I don't want my hair to fall out
I don't want to be filled with doubt
I don't want to be a good boy scout
I don't want to have to learn to count
I don't want to have the biggest amount
I don't want to grow up

Well, when I see my parents fight
I don't want to grow up
They all go out and drinking all night
And I don't want to grow up
I'd rather say here in my room
Nothin' out there but sad and gloom
I don't want to live in a big old tomb on Grand Street, hoo

When I see the five o'clock news
I don't want to grow up
Comb their hair and shine their shoes
I don't want to grow up
Stay around in my old hometown
I don't want to put no money down
I don't want to get me a big old loan
Work them fingers to the bone
I don't want to float a broom
Fall in love and get married then boom




How the hell did I get here so soon?
I don't want to grow up

Overall Meaning

Tom Waits's song "I Don't Want to Grow Up" is a lament about the inevitability of growing up and the disillusionment that comes with it. The singer expresses his desire to remain a child forever, avoiding the disappointments, hardships, and responsibilities that come with adulthood. The song begins with the singer lying in bed, feeling hopeless about the world and his place in it. He wishes he could be a dog, free from the burdens and complexities of human life. The second verse suggests that people become jaded and lose their sense of wonder as they age. The singer doesn't want to be like them or end up like his parents, who are depicted as drunken and irresponsible.


The next verse is particularly interesting in that the singer expresses his frustration with society's expectations and norms. He wants to rebel against them and break free from the confines of adulthood. He threatens to put a hole in his TV set and open the medicine chest, actions that would be considered reckless and destructive. He also rejects the idea of being a "good boy scout," learning to count, or accumulating wealth. He doesn't want to be consumed by materialism or conform to societal expectations.


The final verse further emphasizes the singer's desire to remain a child. He wants to stay in his hometown, avoid taking on debt or loans, and avoid falling into the mundane routine of adulthood. He ends the song with the same sentiment he began it with: "I don't want to grow up." In a way, this could be seen as a rejection of the American Dream, the idea that success and fulfillment can only be achieved through hard work, sacrifice, and conformity.


Line by Line Meaning

Well, when I'm lyin' in my bed at night
At night, when I'm lying in my bed, I don't want to age or grow old.


Nothin' ever seems to turn out right
Growing up does not seem appealing because things do not always end up the way I want them to be.


How do you move in a world of fog
This world, with its ever-changing norms, is difficult to navigate as it is unclear how to respond to different situations.


That's always changing things?
The world is constantly changing, and there is no constant to rely on.


Makes me wish that I could be a dog
I often wish to be a dog that lives in the moment, because it can be difficult to enjoy life when one is preoccupied with growing older.


Well, when I see the price that you pay
Witnessing others' struggles and hardships due to adulthood convinces me that staying young is key.


I don't ever want to be that way
I do not wish to ever end up the way many adults seem - unhappy and unfulfilled.


Seems like folks turn into things they they'd never want
Often when people grow up, they adopt undesirable traits that they wouldn't have wanted before.


The only thing to live for is today
Living in the moment is the only thing that truly counts.


I'm gonna put a hole in my T.V. set
I would rather destroy my television than watch messages that encourage me to become an adult.


Open up the medicine chest
I would prefer to resort to distraction, such as pills, than have to grow up.


And I don't want to grow up
Above all else, growing up and becoming an adult is the last thing I want.


I don't want to have to shout it out
I don't want to be required to vocally express my thoughts and feelings.


I don't want my hair to fall out
I do not want to age physically and lose my hair.


I don't want to be filled with doubt
I don't want to have any uncertainties in my mind that could deter me from living life to the fullest.


I don't want to be a good boy scout
I don't want to be a model citizen that adheres to society's expectations.


I don't want to have to learn to count
I don't want to be responsible and have to budget my finances or keep track of my expenses.


I don't want to have the biggest amount
I don't want to be preoccupied with obtaining more money and wealth.


Well, when I see my parents fight
Seeing the adults in my life, like my parents, argue and fight further confirms my desires to remain young.


They all go out and drinking all night
They go out and consume alcohol, which is supposedly a pastime for adults, but it creates negative experiences.


I'd rather say here in my room
I would be happier staying in my room where I can tune out the unpleasantness of what adults do.


Nothin' out there but sad and gloom
I anticipate that the world outside is a negative and depressing place.


I don't want to live in a big old tomb on Grand Street, hoo
Living in New York City in a cramped and crowded apartment sounds unappealing.


When I see the five o'clock news
Seeing the daily news further reinforces the negative perspective of adulthood.


Comb their hair and shine their shoes
The actions of businessmen imply that they are superficial individuals who care more about their appearance than their true selves.


Stay around in my old hometown
I would be happiest staying in my childhood city, where the tempos of life are slower.


I don't want to put no money down
I do not wish to be held responsible for significant financial commitments.


I don't want to get me a big old loan
I do not wish to acquire large sums of debt through loans, as it creates stress, anxiety, and obligations.


Work them fingers to the bone
Having to work excessively hard to pay off loans and debts seems like a daunting and unpleasant task.


I don't want to float a broom
I do not wish to have a menial job in which I'm relegated to janitorial duties like sweeping floors.


Fall in love and get married then boom
The fleeting love lives of adults further confirm my reluctance towards growing up.


How the hell did I get here so soon?
How on earth did I suddenly end up feeling like I grew up so quickly?




Lyrics © JALMA MUSIC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: KATHLEEN BRENNAN, THOMAS ALAN WAITS

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@crittheory

Lyrics... When I'm lyin' in my bed at night
I don't wanna grow up
Nothin' ever seems to turn out right
I don't wanna grow up
How do you move in a world of fog
That's always changing things
Makes me wish that I could be a dog
When I see the price that you pay
I don't wanna grow up
I don't ever wanna be that way
I don't wanna grow up

Seems like folks turn into things
That they'd never want
The only thing to live for
Is today...
I'm gonna put a hole in my TV set
I don't wanna grow up
Open up the medicine chest
And I don't wanna grow up
I don't wanna have to shout it out
I don't want my hair to fall out
I don't wanna be filled with doubt
I don't wanna be a good boy scout
I don't wanna have to learn to count
I don't wanna have the biggest amount
I don't wanna grow up

Well when I see my parents fight
I don't wanna grow up
They all go out and drinking all night
And I don't wanna grow up
I'd rather stay here in my room
Nothin' out there but sad and gloom
I don't wanna live in a big old Tomb
On Grand Street

When I see the 5 o'clock news
I don't wanna grow up
Comb their hair and shine their shoes
I don't wanna grow up
Stay around in my old hometown
I don't wanna put no money down
I don't wanna get me a big old loan
Work them fingers to the bone
I don't wanna float a broom
Fall in love and get married then boom
How the hell did I get here so soon
I don't wanna grow up



@patorabioso

When I'm lyin' in my bed at night
I don't wanna grow up
Nothin' ever seems to turn out right
I don't wanna grow up
How do you move in a world of fog
That's always changing things
Makes me wish that I could be a dog
When I see the price that you pay
I don't wanna grow up
I don't ever wanna be that way
I don't wanna grow up

Seems like folks turn into things
that they'd never want
The only thing to live for
Is today...
I'm gonna put a hole in my TV set
I don't wanna grow up
Open up the medicine chest
And I don't wanna grow up
I don't wanna have to shout it out
I don't want my hair to fall out
I don't wanna be filled with doubt
I don't wanna be a good boy scout
I don't wanna have to learn to count
I don't wanna have the biggest amount
I don't wanna grow up


Well when I see my parents fight
I don't wanna grow up
They all go out and drinking all night
And I don't wanna grow up
I'd rather stay here in my room
Nothin' out there but sad and gloom
I don't wanna live in a big old tomb
On Grand Street

When I see the 5 o'clock news
I don't wanna grow up
Comb their hair and shine their shoes
I don't wanna grow up
Stay around in my old hometown
I don't wanna put no money down
I don't wanna get me a big old loan
Work them fingers to the bone
I don't wanna float a broom
Fall in love and get married then boom
How the hell did it get here so soon
I don't wanna grow up



@lorenzo6mm

I am the slime oozing out From your tv set

I am gross and perverted
Im obsessed n deranged
I have existed for years
But very little had changed
I am the tool of the government
And industry too
For I am destined to rule
And regulate you

I may be vile and pernicious
But you can't look away
I make you think Im delicious
With the stuff that I say
I am the best you can get
Have you guessed me yet?
I am the slime oozing out
From your tv set

You will obey me while I lead you
And eat the garbage that I feed you
Until the day that we don't need you
Don't got for help...no one will heed you
Your mind is totally controlled
It has been stuffed into my mold
And you will do as you are told
Until the rights to you are sold

That's right, folks..
Don't touch that dial

Well, I am the slime from your video
Oozing along on your living room floor

I am the slime from your video
Cant stop the slime, people, look it me go

Frank Zappa



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All comments from YouTube:

@joep9172

I just turned 63 and I still haven't grown up I still do the things I've always done..So if you think you are OLD REMEMBER YOU ARE WHO YOU ARE & YOU ALWAYS WILL BE YOUNG AT HEART.. YOUR OLE FRIEND..

@DemonWarp65

I played this song when I turned 30. Then 40. And now, here I am at 50. How the hell did I get here so soon? Tom is a goddamn genius.

@Mike_Toulon

I'm 3 years behind you.... Seems like my 20s were just a few short years ago. Almost feels like time speeds up as we age

@TheBrooklynbodine

Posting 12-7-22. I'll be 60 next June 10. Where DID the time go?! Happy 73rd to Tom Waits and many more! Thanks for part of the lyrics "How the hell did I get here so soon?" I never knew what he was saying before.

@FELIX-my1pu

It honestly seems like after 30 time just starts moving at warp speed.

@lzr9272

Haha same, coming up on 47 goin on 18

@xx4248

Uh it's not his song lol

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@neildennis7294

Tom Waits always sounds like a drunk performing on open mic night at 1am...and I love it.

@johnbarrett7936

He makes it work better than any drunk I've ever heard

@KthuLew

The magic is that Waits didn't have to, but chose to sound like this.

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