I Never Talk to Strangers feat
Tom Waits Lyrics


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Bartender, I'd like a Manhattan please

Stop me if you've heard this one
But I feel as though we've met before
Perhaps I am mistaken
But it's just that I remind you of
Someone you used to care about
Oh, but that was long ago
Now tell me, do you really think I'd fall for that old line
I was not born just yesterday
Besides, I never talk to strangers anyway

Hell, I ain't a bad guy when you get to know me
I just thought there ain't no harm
Hey, yeah, just try minding your own business, bud
Who asked you to annoy me
With your sad, sad repartee?
Besides I never talk to strangers anyway

Your life's a dime-store novel
This town is full of guys like you
And you're looking for someone to take the place of her
You must be reading my mail
And you're bitter 'cause he left you
That's why you're drinkin' in this bar
Well, only suckers fall in love with perfect strangers

It always takes one to know one, stranger
Maybe we're just wiser now
Yeah, and been around that block so many times
That we don't notice
That we're all just perfect strangers
As long as we ignore
That we all begin as strangers
Just before we find
We really aren't strangers anymore





Aw, you don't look like such a chump (aw, hey baby)

Overall Meaning

The song "I Never Talk to Strangers" by Tom Waits featuring Bette Midler is a conversation between two strangers who find themselves in a bar. The female character orders a Manhattan and the male character, the bartender, recognizes her from somewhere but he is not sure. She denies ever meeting him and emphasizes that she doesn't talk to strangers. The male character then tries to flirt with the female character, but she sees right through his act and shuts him down. The male character continues to try and win her over by accusing her of being bitter and looking for someone to replace her ex-lover. The female character then turns the tables on him and suggests that they both may just be perfect strangers, regardless of their past experiences.


The lyrics showcase the human tendency to judge and stereotype others based on their past experiences. The main themes of the song are loneliness, the transient nature of human relationships, and the difficulty of some people to form meaningful connections. Through the conversation between the two characters, Tom Waits and Bette Midler deliver a powerful message about the importance of empathy and understanding in creating genuine connections with other people.


Line by Line Meaning

Bartender, I'd like a Manhattan please
The singer is ordering a Manhattan cocktail from the bartender.


Stop me if you've heard this one
The singer is introducing themselves in a joking manner.


But I feel as though we've met before
The singer feels like they have met the person they are speaking to before.


Perhaps I am mistaken
The artist acknowledges that they may be incorrect about their assumption.


But it's just that I remind you of
The artist believes that they resemble someone that the other person knows.


Someone you used to care about
The singer thinks that the other person may have had feelings for the person they resemble.


Oh, but that was long ago
The singer acknowledges that the relationship between the other person and the person they resemble was in the past.


Now tell me, do you really think I'd fall for that old line
The artist questions the other person's intentions and motives.


I was not born just yesterday
The artist is implying that they are not easily fooled or manipulated.


Besides, I never talk to strangers anyway
The artist is saying that they generally do not engage in conversations with strangers.


Hell, I ain't a bad guy when you get to know me
The singer wants to convey that they are not a bad person.


I just thought there ain't no harm
The artist believed that there was no harm in talking to the other person.


Hey, yeah, just try minding your own business, bud
The singer is annoyed with the other person and tells them to mind their own business.


Who asked you to annoy me
The singer is questioning why the other person is bothering them.


With your sad, sad repartee?
The singer is criticizing the other person's conversation topics.


Your life's a dime-store novel
The artist is saying that the other person's life is like a cheap, cliche novel.


This town is full of guys like you
The artist is saying that there are many men like the other person in their town.


And you're looking for someone to take the place of her
The singer believes that the other person is trying to replace someone they lost.


You must be reading my mail
The singer is saying that the other person is too familiar with their personal life.


And you're bitter 'cause he left you
The artist believes that the other person is bitter about being left by someone they loved.


That's why you're drinkin' in this bar
The artist is implying that the other person is drinking to cope with their emotional pain.


Well, only suckers fall in love with perfect strangers
The artist is saying that it is foolish to fall in love with someone you do not know well.


It always takes one to know one, stranger
The singer is implying that they are just like the other person.


Maybe we're just wiser now
The artist is suggesting that they have grown and learned from their experiences.


Yeah, and been around that block so many times
The singer is implying that they have experienced many similar situations in their life.


That we don't notice
The singer is saying that sometimes people do not realize they have things in common.


That we're all just perfect strangers
The singer is saying that everyone starts off as strangers, even if they have things in common.


As long as we ignore
The artist is suggesting that people sometimes overlook similarities.


That we all begin as strangers
The artist is saying that everyone starts off as strangers when meeting someone new.


Just before we find
The singer is saying that people often start off as strangers and then eventually form a connection.


We really aren't strangers anymore
The singer is suggesting that they and the other person have formed a connection.


Aw, you don't look like such a chump (aw, hey baby)
The artist is complimenting the other person.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management
Written by: THOMAS ALAN WAITS

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@minespatch

A adorable song.

@indifference1358

Beautiful

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@pamelaadamany9646

perfection

@snufkin2245

Thank you hozier for introducing me to this lovely man

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Un capolavoro!❤❤❤

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@serenabaratiri7585

Capovoloro!

@JamesBlevins0

Tom Waits: Vocals, Piano. Bette Midler: Vocals.
Jim Hughart: Bass. Frank Vicari: Tenor Sax.
Bob Alcivar: Arranger, Conductor.

Produced and Engineered by Bones Howe.

Assistant Engineer: Geoff Howe

@beatlecost

With the amazing Bette Midler of course.

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