That's How It Goes
Tommy Dorsey Lyrics


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That's how it goes when you're in love with someone,
And someone's not in love with you.
It seems your heart and soul defy each frustrated desire
Of not seeing you, nothing I can do.
That's how it goes when you're in need of someone,
Who understands the way you feel,
But that's a dream that never will come true,
For that's life, that's how it goes.




Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Tommy Dorsey & His Orchestra's song That’s How It Goes encapsulate the melancholic reality of unrequited love. The first stanza highlights the agony of loving someone who does not share the same feelings. The phrase 'heart and soul defy each frustrated desire' paints a picture of a tortured soul whose emotions are in conflict with their wishes, leading to disappointment and despair. The line 'nothing I can do' reinforces the helplessness and hopelessness of the situation, where one feels powerless to change the other person's heart.


The second stanza speaks of the need for emotional connection and understanding. The sense of isolation and longing for someone who can empathize with one's emotions is palpable. 'But that's a dream that never will come true' is a poignant reminder of the harsh reality that sometimes, despite our hopes and dreams, things do not work out in the way we had envisioned. The final line 'For that's life, that’s how it goes' is an acceptance of the bitter truth that love and life do not always conform to our desires and that we must make peace with the cards we are dealt.


Overall, the lyrics of That’s How It Goes are a testament to the universality of pain and heartbreak, and a reminder that we all experience the highs and lows of love in our own unique ways.


Line by Line Meaning

That's how it goes when you're in love with someone,
When you're deeply attached to someone, irrespective of how they feel about you, the realities of life dictate the course of your heart.


And someone's not in love with you.
If the feeling is not reciprocated, then you have no choice but to accept your heartache.


It seems your heart and soul defy each frustrated desire
Despite your heart wanting to move on, your soul keeps returning to the same desire and hence adding to your frustration.


Of not seeing you, nothing I can do.
Even if you wish to see that person, the reality is that the circumstances are beyond your control and there is nothing you can do about it.


That's how it goes when you're in need of someone,
When you desperately require someone who can sympathize with your emotions, chances are that you may not find such people as easily as you'd like to.


Who understands the way you feel,
All you seek is a person who can empathize with your emotions and offer support accordingly.


But that's a dream that never will come true,
Unfortunately, such support and understanding may not always be readily available and you may have to make peace with the fact that you may not find the kind of support you need.


For that's life, that's how it goes.
At the end of the day, life has its twists and turns, and while we may not always understand or accept them, we have to come to terms with them because that's how life moves forward.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: PERCY FAITH, AL J. NEIBURG

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on A HIGH HAT, A PICOLO AND A CANE

Who stole my gal away with a minor stay?

A high hat, a piccolo, and a cane!

Who made my honey say my love gave her a pain?

A high hat, a piccolo, and a cane!

A high salutin', crap shootin', piccolo tootin' high brow! (x2)

He played a little bell and raised a literal hell, then her head went 'round and 'round.

Whoah!

She thought I was okay, at least that thought betrayed.

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