If You Could Only See
Tonic Lyrics


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If you could only see the way she loves me
Then maybe you would understand
Why I feel this way about our love
And what I must do
If you could only see how blue her eyes can be when she says
When she says she loves me

Well you got your reasons
And you got your lies
And you got your manipulations
They cut me down to size

Sayin' you love but you don't
You keep your love but you won't

If you could only see the way she loves me
Then maybe you would understand
Why I feel this way about our love
And what I must do
If you could only see how blue her eyes can be when she says
When she says she loves me

Seems the road less traveled
Shows happiness unraveled
And you gotta take a little dirt
To keep what you love
That's what you gotta do

Sayin' you love but you don't
You keep your love but you won't
Stretching out your arms for something that's just not there
You're sayin' you love where you stand
Give your heart when you can

If you could only see the way she loves me
Then maybe you would understand
Why I feel this way about our love
And what I must do
If you could only see how blue her eyes can be when she says
When she says she loves me

You're sayin' you love but you don't
You keep your love but you won't
(But she won't)
You're sayin' you love where you stand
Give your heart when you can

If you could only see the way she loves me
Then maybe you would understand
Why I feel this way about our love
And what I must do




If you could only see how blue her eyes can be when she says
When she says she loves me

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Tonic’s song “If You Could Only See” depict a man who wishes others could see how his significant other loves him. He believes that if they could witness her love, they would comprehend his devotion towards their relationship. He acknowledges that his partner’s eyes turn blue when she utters the words “I love you,” indicating a deep emotional connection. On the other hand, the man addresses someone who is not honest about their love for him. He mentions that this person has made him feel small through manipulative and dishonest behavior. Tonic suggests that it is essential to work hard to secure the things that one loves, even if it means going through tough times. The song concludes with a plea from the man to let go of insincere love and embrace unconditional love.


The song speaks to an audience who has experienced a love that is unrequited, false, or misunderstood by others. It expresses the frustration that comes with feeling like others cannot see the beauty in a relationship that may not look conventional. The lyrics highlight the importance of authentic love for oneself and the need to let go of disingenuous love. The song’s message is ultimately one of hope and the idea that there is always the possibility of finding genuine love.


Line by Line Meaning

If you could only see the way she loves me
The singer wishes that people could see the immense love his partner has for him.


Then maybe you would understand
If people could witness the love for themselves, they could better understand the singer's feelings.


Why I feel this way about our love
The singer's emotions toward his relationship stem from the love he shares with his partner.


And what I must do
Because of his deep love for his partner, the singer feels compelled to take certain actions.


If you could only see how blue her eyes can be when she says
When the singer's partner confesses her love, her eyes fill with emotion, reflecting the depth of her feelings.


When she says she loves me
The singer's partner regularly confesses her love to him, which further reinforces his love for her.


Well you got your reasons
The singer acknowledges that people have valid reasons for their actions.


And you got your lies
However, some people resort to deception in their relationships instead of honesty.


And you got your manipulations
Furthermore, some people use manipulation as a means of controlling their partners.


They cut me down to size
These negative dynamics in relationships negatively affect the singer, making him feel small and unimportant.


Sayin' you love but you don't
Some people claim to love their partners, but their actions don't reflect their words.


You keep your love but you won't
These people hold onto their love, but they don't extend it to their partners in a meaningful way.


Seems the road less traveled
Choosing a path in a relationship that veers away from negative dynamics can be difficult.


Shows happiness unraveled
However, choosing this path often leads to greater happiness and stability in the long run.


And you gotta take a little dirt
Making this choice requires some sacrifice and hardship.


To keep what you love
However, the singer understands the importance of making this sacrifice to maintain his relationship with his partner.


That's what you gotta do
Maintaining a healthy relationship requires hard work and sacrifice.


Stretching out your arms for something that's just not there
Holding onto something that doesn't truly exist in a relationship is futile and ultimately causes heartache.


You're sayin' you love where you stand
Some people are content to stay in an unfulfilling relationship and profess their love despite the lack of genuine emotion.


Give your heart when you can
The singer advises people to love genuinely and wholeheartedly, but also recognizes that it can be difficult depending on the circumstances.


You keep your love but you won't
Again, some people hold onto their love but don't express it in a meaningful way.


(But she won't)
This line is likely referring to the singer's partner and suggests that she does not fall into this category of people.


If you could only see how blue her eyes can be when she says
The singer emphasizes the depth of his partner's emotions when she expresses her love for him.


When she says she loves me
The regularity and authenticity of his partner's love for him is a significant factor in the singer's unwavering devotion to her.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Emerson Hart

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@AmandaHugandKiss411

My condolences to those posting and sharing this same type of experience.

There's something about the last ride or road trip with a close friend and singing a specific song,

completely unaware that this will be the last time you'll ever see them....

And the power that song has, to the memory of the friend you lost.

Bittersweet.


David 1992
Disarm Smashing Pumpkins



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Deeply underappreciated song

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