That's The Way
Tony Lucca Lyrics


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I don't know how I'm gonna tell you
I can't play with you no more
I don't know how I'm gonna do what mama told me
My friend, the boy next door

I can't believe what people saying
You're don't let your hair hang down
I'm satisfied to sit here working all day long
You're on the darker side of town

And when I'm out I see you walking
Why don't your eyes see me?
Could it be you've found another game to play
What did mama say to me?

That's the way, oh, that's the way it ought to be
Yeah, yeah, mama say, that's the way it ought to stay

And yesterday I saw you standing by the river
And weren't those tears that filled your eyes?
And all the fish that lay in dirty water dying
Had they got you hypnotized?

Yesterday I saw you kissing tiny flowers
But all that lives is born to die
And so I say to you that nothing really matters
And all you do is stand and cry

I don't know what to say about it
When all you ears have turned away
But now's the time to look and look again at what you see
Is that the way it ought to stay?





That's the way, that's the way it ought to be, yeah
Mama said, mama said that's the way it's ought to stay

Overall Meaning

The song "That's The Way" by Tony Lucca narrates the struggles of a man trying to come to terms with the fact that he can no longer play with his childhood friend. The singer does not know how to tell his friend, who is also his neighbor, but he feels he has to do so because his mother has asked him to. The singer also speaks of the societal pressure that comes with the expectations placed on his friend, such as not letting one's hair hang down. The singer of the song finds contentment in working and staying away from the darker side of town. The singer seems to question the motives of his friend, who he sees walking around but doesn't acknowledge him. The chorus of the song reflects on the way things should be, according to the singer's mother.


The second verse of the song speaks of the different ways the two friends seem to be coping with their incompatibilities. The singer talks of seeing his friend crying by the river, and he seems to be concerned that his friend might be hypnotized by the fish that lay dying in the dirty water. The singer also mentions how he saw his friend kissing tiny flowers, but he points out that everything that is born eventually dies. The song concludes with the singer asking the listener to introspect and examine whether things are the way they ought to be.


Line by Line Meaning

I don't know how I'm gonna tell you
I am uncertain about how I will communicate this to you


I can't play with you no more
I must stop engaging in activities with you


I don't know how I'm gonna do what mama told me
I do not know how I will carry out the instructions that were given to me by my mother


My friend, the boy next door
I am referring to my male neighbor who is also my friend


I can't believe what people saying
I find it difficult to accept what others are claiming to be true


You're don't let your hair hang down
You are not allowing yourself to have fun or let loose


I'm satisfied to sit here working all day long
I am content with spending my days working constantly


You're on the darker side of town
You reside in an area that is associated with negative activities or reputation


And when I'm out I see you walking
When I am out in public, I notice you walking


Why don't your eyes see me?
I am wondering why you do not notice or acknowledge my presence


Could it be you've found another game to play
Perhaps you have moved on to another activity or person


What did mama say to me?
I am recalling the advice or instructions that my mother gave me


That's the way, oh, that's the way it ought to be
It is suggested that the current situation is the correct or ideal way it should be


Yeah, yeah, mama say, that's the way it ought to stay
My mother is indicating that the situation should remain unchanged


And yesterday I saw you standing by the river
I observed you standing near the river yesterday


And weren't those tears that filled your eyes?
Did I notice tears in your eyes?


And all the fish that lay in dirty water dying
I saw fish in the polluted water that were dying


Had they got you hypnotized?
Did the fish or the environment have a hypnotic effect on you?


Yesterday I saw you kissing tiny flowers
I saw you kissing small flowers yesterday


But all that lives is born to die
Everything that lives will eventually die


And so I say to you that nothing really matters
I am expressing that ultimately nothing has true significance or importance


And all you do is stand and cry
All I observe you doing is standing and weeping


I don't know what to say about it
I am unsure of how to respond


When all you ears have turned away
When everyone else has stopped listening


But now's the time to look and look again at what you see
This is an opportunity to take another look at the situation


Is that the way it ought to stay?
Is the current state the way things should remain?


That's the way, that's the way it ought to be, yeah
It is suggested again that the current situation is correct or ideal


Mama said, mama said that's the way it's ought to stay
As previously stated, my mother believes things should not change




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