Come to Terms
Torres Lyrics


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These lives are so contrived
And out of focus
But if I can derive some happiness from this
Then I'll have made it out alive

'Cause people always change
But ain't always changing for the better
And just because the two of us
Will both grow old in time
Don't mean we should grow old together
So I'll be sure to turn my back
On everything you said you'd do
I'm gonna come to terms
Before I have to

Been keeping all my time In my back pocket
Taking from it only what I need to be
Whoever I'm supposed to be
But when I look at you I get so lonely
I used to just adore you
But now you bore me

'Cause people always change
But ain't always changing for the better
And just because the two of us
Will both grow old in time
Don't mean we should grow old together
So I'll be sure to turn my back
On everything you said you'd do
I'm gonna come to terms
Before I have to

I'll never know If looking out the window




Is what brings me to my knees
Or if it's what's inside that's killing me

Overall Meaning

In Torres's song Come to Terms, the singer reflects on the complexity of relationships and the process of accepting their inevitable end. She begins by acknowledging the artificiality of modern life, which can often leave us feeling disconnected and out of focus. However, she finds solace in the possibility of finding happiness in fleeting moments. The chorus addresses the idea that people change, but not always for the better, and just because two people may grow old together doesn't mean they should. Ultimately, she decides to turn her back on the promises that were made, accepting that it's time to come to terms with the end of the relationship.


The second verse explores the theme of identity, as Torres sings about keeping her time in her back pocket and taking only what she needs to be who she's supposed to be. She then turns her attention to the person who's causing her loneliness and boredom. She acknowledges that people change, and in this case, they've grown apart. The repeated line "I'm gonna come to terms before I have to" highlights the importance of finding closure before it's too late.


Line by Line Meaning

These lives are so contrived
These existences are so artificial


And out of focus
And lacking clarity


But if I can derive some happiness from this
But if I can find some joy in this situation


Then I'll have made it out alive
Then I will have survived


'Cause people always change
Because human beings are always evolving


But ain't always changing for the better
But their changes are not always positive


And just because the two of us
And just because both of us


Will both grow old in time
Will age as time passes


Don't mean we should grow old together
Does not mean we should spend our lives together


So I'll be sure to turn my back
So I will make sure to leave behind


On everything you said you'd do
Everything you promised to do


I'm gonna come to terms
I am going to accept and deal with


Before I have to
Before it is too late


Been keeping all my time In my back pocket
I have been storing all my time away


Taking from it only what I need to be
Only using what I need to be who I am


Whoever I'm supposed to be
Whoever I am meant to become


But when I look at you I get so lonely
But when I see you, I feel very alone


I used to just adore you
I used to deeply love you


But now you bore me
But now I find you dull and uninteresting


I'll never know If looking out the window
I will never understand if staring out the window


Is what brings me to my knees
Is what makes me feel so powerless


Or if it's what's inside that's killing me
Or if it is internal factors causing my pain




Lyrics © Mute Song Limited
Written by: MACKENZIE RUTH SCOTT

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