Who Do You Love
Townes Van Zandt Lyrics

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I never know, what you're gonna do
You're always so far away

Down below, you used to tell the truth
Now, you're lookin' for something to say
You give me those eyes
And then look away

Do you want me down on my knees?
Are you livin' a lie?
Is this some kind of game
Baby, won't you tell me please?

Give me one good reason to stay
When you won't come right out and say

Who do you love? What makes you happen
What do you need for satisfaction
Who do you love? I need an answer
Is it just about a good time, good time
Who do you love?

I wish you'd lie or tell me the truth
So I can decide for myself
Maybe you've tried what we used to do
With somebody, somewhere else

Give me one reason to stay
When you won't come right out and say

Overall Meaning

The song Who Do You Love by Townes Van Zandt is a melancholic ballad that speaks about a relationship where one person is unsure of the other's feelings towards them. The opening lines of the song set this mood immediately as the singer says, "I never know what you're gonna do, You're always so far away." The distance and emotional unavailability are recurring themes throughout the song, as the singer desperately tries to seek an answer to the question, "Who do you love?"

The second verse of the song hints at the singer's suspicion that their lover may be living a lie or simply playing a game with them. The line, "Are you living a lie? Is this some kind of game? Baby, won't you tell me please?" is a cry for honesty and openness. It's evident that the singer wants to understand the nature of their relationship as they plead, "Give me one good reason to stay, When you won't come right out and say."

The chorus of the song reveals the mood of despair and confusion that the singer is experiencing. They ask, "Who do you love? What makes you happen? What do you need for satisfaction? Who do you love? I need an answer, is it just about a good time?" They're tired of second-guessing their lover's true intentions and are asking for clarity.

Overall, the song speaks about the complexities of human relationships, the need for honesty, and the importance of clear communication. It's a reminder that love is not a game but a serious commitment that requires transparency and care from both parties involved.

Line by Line Meaning

I never know, what you're gonna do
I can never predict your actions

You're always so far away
You are emotionally distant

Down below, you used to tell the truth
In the past, you were honest with me

Now, you're lookin' for something to say
Now, you struggle to communicate with me

You give me those eyes
You give me a certain look or expression

And then look away
But then you turn away or avoid eye contact

Do you want me down on my knees?
Do you want to dominate or control me?

Are you livin' a lie?
Are you being dishonest?

Is this some kind of game
Are you playing with my emotions?

Baby, won't you tell me please?
Can you please be honest with me?

Give me one good reason to stay
Tell me why I should stay in this relationship