My Dear
Traffic Jam Lyrics


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It’s been such a long time
I’m out of my mind
And never could I find
Someone who compares with you girl
You know that it’s true
There’s a lot that I’ve been through

I know it sounds funny
Through all these songs I’ve arranged
Still feelings have not changed
My Dear

Do you sometimes remember
Look back at the time
When you were mine
And though I sometimes wonder
What you might do now
I’m sure that somehow

You get along and
You’ll find your way
And you will always stay
My Dear

I know I shouldn’t bother
About things that might have been
And I should begin
To see the whole story
From love and delight
To the tears and the fights

And so I think it must have
Been bound to end

But still I’m glad to be your friend
My Dear

Overall Meaning

In the song "My Dear" by Traffic Jam, the singer starts by expressing a deep sense of longing and nostalgia. They reminisce about a past relationship, highlighting the absence they feel in their life since the person they address as "My Dear" has been gone for a significant amount of time. The singer acknowledges the difficulty in finding someone who can compare to the special connection they shared with this person, emphasizing the uniqueness and irreplaceable nature of the bond they once had.


As the lyrics progress, the singer admits to still holding on to their feelings despite the passage of time and despite having composed numerous songs presumably about their lost love. The repetition of "My Dear" throughout the song conveys a sense of intimacy and affection, indicating that this person holds a special place in the singer's heart that hasn't faded even with the passing of time.


The singer reflects on memories shared with this person, wondering if they ever think back on those moments they once shared together. The mention of wondering about the other person's current life shows a sense of curiosity and perhaps a lingering attachment to the past. Despite this, the singer expresses a sense of resignation and acceptance, believing that the person they once loved will find their way and continue on their own path.


In the final verses, the singer acknowledges the inevitability of the relationship's end and the importance of moving forward. They recognize that dwelling on what could have been is futile and that it's essential to come to terms with both the joys and challenges that characterized their love story. The mention of being glad to still be friends with this person suggests a mature understanding of the evolution of relationships and the significance of maintaining a meaningful connection, even if it's no longer romantic in nature. Overall, "My Dear" captures a bittersweet reflection on lost love, acceptance of the past, and the enduring bond between two individuals who once shared a deep connection.


Line by Line Meaning

It’s been such a long time
A considerable amount of time has passed since we were together


I’m out of my mind
I am experiencing extreme emotions and thoughts


And never could I find
I have never come across another person who compares with you


Someone who compares with you girl
No one else can match up to you, my dear


You know that it’s true
You are aware that this is the reality


There’s a lot that I’ve been through
I have faced numerous challenges and experiences


I know it sounds funny
It may seem strange to hear this


Through all these songs I’ve arranged
Despite composing various songs


Still feelings have not changed
My emotions towards you have remained constant


My Dear
My beloved one


Do you sometimes remember
Do you occasionally recall


Look back at the time
Reflect on the past moments


When you were mine
When we were in a relationship


And though I sometimes wonder
Despite occasionally questioning


What you might do now
What your current actions may be


I’m sure that somehow
I am confident in some way


You get along and
You are managing well and


You’ll find your way
You will discover your own path


And you will always stay
And you will forever remain


I know I shouldn’t bother
I understand that I should not concern myself


About things that might have been
With regard to what could have happened


And I should begin
I should start


To see the whole story
To view the complete narrative


From love and delight
Beginning with love and happiness


To the tears and the fights
And ending with tears and conflicts


And so I think it must have
Therefore, I believe it was inevitable


Been bound to end
That our relationship was destined to conclude


But still I’m glad to be your friend
Nonetheless, I am happy to remain your friend


My Dear
My beloved one




Lyrics © Music Hub O/B/O GEMA
Written by: Christopher Tucker, Robert Müller

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