In Between The Heartaches
Trijntje Oosterhuis Lyrics


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In between the heartaches
You hold me here in your arms
And say you love me
In between the heartaches
The way you kiss I can tell
You're thinking of me
I know you love me
And I that makes up
For all of the heartaches
And the sadness
And the tears

Everyone keeps asking me
Why I stay with you
The way you hurt me
They can see
How many times
I'm alone and blue
When you desert me

You and come and go
Without a letter
And they all say
That I should get up and go
They don't know
They don't know that

In between the heartaches
You hold me here in your arms
And say you love me
In between the heartaches
The way you kiss I can tell
You thinking of me
I know you love me

And that makes up
For all the heartaches
And the sadness
And the tears





They don't ever see us
In between the heartaches

Overall Meaning

The song In Between The Heartaches by Trijntje Oosterhuis is a powerful ballad that tells the story of a woman who is caught in a tumultuous relationship. Despite the constant heartaches and sadness, she chooses to stay in the relationship because in those moments in between the heartaches, when he holds her in his arms and says he loves her, she feels loved and cherished. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of the woman's struggle as she tries to reconcile her love for her partner with the pain he causes her.


The first verse describes how her partner holds her in his arms and tells her he loves her in the moments in between the heartaches. This gives her hope and makes her feel loved despite the pain he causes her. The second verse talks about how other people question her decision to stay with him, citing the way he hurts her and desert her. The woman acknowledges that she knows he hurts her and makes her feel lonely sometimes, but they don't see the moments when he holds her and makes her feel loved.


The chorus repeats the idea of being held in his arms in between the heartaches, and how his love makes up for all the pain and sadness she experiences. It's a powerful message about how even in difficult situations, love and vulnerability can help people stay together.


Line by Line Meaning

In between the heartaches
Despite the difficulties we face, there are moments of love and connection


You hold me here in your arms
You provide comfort and support in moments of pain


And say you love me
You verbalize your feelings and commitment to me


The way you kiss I can tell
Your physical affection demonstrates your love and dedication


You're thinking of me
You have me on your mind and care about my well-being


I know you love me
I feel secure and reassured in your love for me


And that makes up
These moments of love and connection compensate for


For all the heartaches
The pain and sadness we experience


And the sadness
The difficult emotions we face


And the tears
The physical manifestation of our emotional pain


They don't ever see us
Others are not privy to these moments of love and connection




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