It Isn't Over
Trijntje Oosterhuis Lyrics


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So now here we are
We've drifted apart
I know your hurting just
Like I do
Nights of anger and pain
Distance and blame
How words hurt so deep
And said so easily
How could this happen so silently
'Cause love has made a stranger of you and of me

When was the last time
That you looked into my eyes
That we kissed and made love all night
Tell me that it isn't over
When was the last time
I took you in my arms and cried
This is not the time to say goodbye
Tell me that it isn't over

How does it feel
Now that it's real
We said we needed time
But time ain't healing
Days pass into years
Dreams turn to fears
And the strangers moved on
No longer hiding
We share the love that we feel for our son
So I will always be a part of your life when you're gone

When was the last time
That you looked into my eyes
That we kissed and made love all night
Tell me that it isn't over
When was the last time
I took you in my arms and cried
This is not the time to say goodbye
Tell me that it isn't over

I still believe in me and you
Before we break our worlds in two
I know in my heart I can change you can change
Can't we just start it again

This could be the last time
That you look into my eyes
That we kiss and make love all night
Tell me that it isn't over
This could be the last time
I take you in my arms and cry




That is when we both will realize
Tell me that it isn't over

Overall Meaning

The song 'It Isn't Over' by Trijntje Oosterhuis is a heartfelt ballad exploring the complexities of a struggling relationship. The song is about two people who have grown apart over time, exchanging words that have hurt them deeply, leading to feelings of distance and blame. The lyrics are relatable to anyone who has ever experienced a relationship that has begun to falter. The opening lines of the song suggest that the two lovers have grown distant and the singer is trying to hold onto the relationship, asking "tell me that it isn't over."


The chorus is a plea for the relationship to continue; the singer is asking when was the last time they looked into each other's eyes, kissed and made love all night? She is asking her partner why they should say goodbye when they have so much history and love between them. The song is ultimately about love and hope; the singer is urging her partner to look past their issues and see the worth they hold in each other. The song suggests that relationships, like people, can change and evolve, and while love may change, it doesn't always have to end.


Line by Line Meaning

So now here we are
We find ourselves in this situation now


We've drifted apart
We have grown distant from each other


I know your hurting just
I understand that you are in pain


Like I do
Just like I am


Nights of anger and pain
Times of frustration and suffering


Distance and blame
Separation and accusations


How words hurt so deep
How much damage words can do


And said so easily
Even when spoken casually


How could this happen so silently
How did we come to this without really noticing?


'Cause love has made a stranger of you and of me
Our love has caused us to become strangers to each other


When was the last time
It's been a while since


That you looked into my eyes
You truly saw me


That we kissed and made love all night
We were intimate with each other


Tell me that it isn't over
Please assure me that this is not the end


I took you in my arms and cried
I held you close and wept


This is not the time to say goodbye
I don't want to end things now


How does it feel
How are you experiencing this?


Now that it's real
Now that it is actually happening


We said we needed time
We agreed to take some time apart


But time ain't healing
But this break is not helping us heal


Days pass into years
Time goes by quickly


Dreams turn to fears
Our hopes have turned into worries


And the strangers moved on
And we have become strangers to each other


No longer hiding
No longer pretending that everything is okay


We share the love that we feel for our son
Our love for our child is a bond we share


So I will always be a part of your life when you're gone
Even if we separate, I will always be a part of your life


I still believe in me and you
I still have hope for us


Before we break our worlds in two
Before we completely destroy everything between us


I know in my heart I can change you can change
I believe that we can both make positive changes


Can't we just start it again
Can't we begin anew?


This could be the last time
This might be our final opportunity


That is when we both will realize
That will be the moment of truth for us




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