Boys Don't Cry
Ulrik Munther Lyrics


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Have you ever done something you can't change?
Something you can never rearange?
I have, I have.
Have you ever felt so sad you can hardly stand?
Lying on the ground head in your hands?
I have, I have.
I can feel it all down deep inside.
But oh, I want to let these feeling rise.

But boys don't cry.
But boys don't cry.
I know it will be fine
But boys don't cry.

Have you ever tried to smile and hide your pain,
Even though you're not okey.
I have, I have.
Have you ever been caught in the poring rain,
Wondering if anything can ever be the same, again.Yeah.

You try to bee proud of who you are,
But still you got to let those teardrops fall, away.

Oh wait,
But boys don't cry.
But Boys don't cry.
I know it will be fine
But boys don't cry.

Boys don't cry,
Boys don't cry,

Boys don't cry,
Boys don't cry.

Have you ever done something you can't change,
Something you can never rearange,
I have, I have.

Have you ever been so sad you can hardly stand,
Lying on the ground had in your hands?
I have, I have.





Boys don't cry,
Boys don't cry.

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Ulrik Munther's song "Boys Don't Cry" describe the struggle of hiding one's emotions and pain in order to conform to society's expectations of masculinity. The song addresses the idea of hiding one's true feelings, despite them being hard to ignore. Munther describes his personal experience of doing something he can't change and feeling sad to the point of being unable to stand. He can feel these emotions deep inside him and wants to express them, yet he feels like he can't because "boys don't cry." He explains how he tries to "be proud of who [he is]" and hide his pain but knows that he must let the "teardrops fall away" in order to heal. However, he is still held back by the societal expectation that "boys don't cry."


The message of Munther's song is a significant commentary on toxic masculinity and the societal expectations that men are not allowed to express their emotions or be vulnerable. The repetition of the phrase "boys don't cry" throughout the song reinforces the notion that men must suppress their emotions and pain and conform to a stoic, unemotional ideal. Munther's lyrics invite listeners to challenge these societal expectations and encourage vulnerability and emotional honesty.


Line by Line Meaning

Have you ever done something you can't change?
Have you ever made a mistake or taken an irreversible action in life that cannot be rectified?


Something you can never rearange?
Something that can never be altered or modified even if one wishes to do so?


I have, I have.
The singer confirms that he has done something he cannot change and cannot rearange.


Have you ever felt so sad you can hardly stand?
Have you ever experienced immense emotional pain that renders unable to function normally or stand properly?


Lying on the ground head in your hands?
Being overwhelmed by sadness to the point of dropping to the ground and cradling your head.


I have, I have.
The singer confirms that he has indeed felt such immense sadness and hopelessness.


I can feel it all down deep inside.
The emotional pain is not on the surface but inside and deeply rooted.


But oh, I want to let these feeling rise.
Despite social norms that prevent him from expressing his emotions freely, he wants to let his true feelings come to the surface.


But boys don't cry.
Though the artist wants to express his emotions, he recognizes that societal expectations dictate that men are not allowed to be emotional.


I know it will be fine
The artist understands that things will eventually work out or get better even though he cannot show his emotions.


Have you ever tried to smile and hide your pain,
Have you ever put up a façade of happiness and internalized pain so that people couldn't tell what you were going through?


Even though you're not okey.
Even if everything isn't alright beneath the surface, one tries to maintain a cheerful disposition to avoid judgement.


Have you ever been caught in the poring rain,
Have you ever been caught in a torrential downpour, feeling miserable and unable to avoid the situation?


Wondering if anything can ever be the same, again.Yeah.
Questioning if life can ever be the same after experiencing tragedy or misfortune.


You try to bee proud of who you are,
One tries to be confident and proud of oneself despite society's expectations and/or personal struggles.


But still you got to let those teardrops fall, away.
Despite societal norms of emotional stoicism in men, it is important to let tears flow and process emotions healthily.


But boys don't cry.
Reiterating that societal expectations mandate that men are not allowed to express their emotions freely.


Boys don't cry,
Societal expectations that men should be emotionally stoic.


Boys don't cry.
Societal expectations that men should not cry and internalize their emotions.


Boys don't cry,
Societal messaging that expressing emotions is a sign of weakness in men.


Boys don't cry.
Reiterating the expectations and social pressures faced by men to suppress their emotions.




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