Silly Boy
Utopia Lyrics


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In the days when I was young I never had to cry
If I wanted a lover I did not have to try
But I must have set my expectations far too high
Guess I'm just a silly boy

I guess I'm just a silly boy
There are some things about love that I don't understand
When you promise your heart you do the best you can
But no matter how I try behaving like a man

Seems I'm just a silly boy
I guess I'm just a silly boy
This is the last time I'll wait to stand in line
If you don't come see me I'm dropping the boom on you

'Cause when you lose me
Then everyone will see what a silly girl can do
Don't you tell me that it's over
Don't you make a sound

'Til I get to the river or someplace I can drown
'Cause I put my faith upon you and you let me down




Guess I'm just a silly boy
I guess I'm just a silly boy

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to "Silly Boy" by Utopia are about a person who is reflecting on their past relationships and trying to make sense of why they haven't been successful in love. The singer starts off by recalling their youth, during which time they were able to attract lovers easily without having to put in much effort. However, as they got older, they realized that finding love was not as easy as they initially thought. They admit to having set their expectations high, and now they feel like a "silly boy" for thinking that love would come easy.


The singer goes on to say that they don't fully understand love, despite trying their best to be a good partner. They feel like they are failing at being a man and are still just a "silly boy." They then threaten to leave the relationship if their partner does not start putting in more effort. The singer claims that they have put their faith in this person but feel let down by them. They conclude the song by once again admitting to being a "silly boy."


Line by Line Meaning

In the days when I was young I never had to cry
During my childhood, I was never in a situation where I had to express deep sadness or pain.


If I wanted a lover I did not have to try
Finding romantic partners was easy for me and required little effort.


But I must have set my expectations far too high
Perhaps I had unrealistic hopes and desires for my romantic relationships.


Guess I'm just a silly boy
I now realize that I may have been foolish or naïve in my romantic pursuits.


There are some things about love that I don't understand
Love is complex and there are aspects of it that are still unclear to me.


When you promise your heart you do the best you can
In romantic relationships, when you commit to someone emotionally, you try your best to make things work.


But no matter how I try behaving like a man
Even when I try to act mature and responsible in relationships, it doesn't always lead to success.


Seems I'm just a silly boy
Despite my efforts, I still feel like I lack the knowledge or experience to fully understand love and relationships.


This is the last time I'll wait to stand in line
I am no longer willing to put in effort and wait around for someone who is not reciprocating my feelings.


If you don't come see me I'm dropping the boom on you
If you don't make an effort to see me, I will take action against you.


'Cause when you lose me
By losing me as a romantic partner, you will see the consequences of your actions.


Then everyone will see what a silly girl can do
My reaction to being hurt may surprise others who view me as vulnerable or weak.


Don't you tell me that it's over
Do not announce the end of our relationship to me without my consent or agreement.


Don't you make a sound
I do not wish to hear your reasons or excuses for breaking up with me.


'Til I get to the river or someplace I can drown
I am in such emotional pain that I would rather resort to extreme measures like drowning in a river than face the reality of a failed relationship.


'Cause I put my faith upon you and you let me down
I trusted and believed in you, but you disappointed me and my expectations.


Guess I'm just a silly boy
In retrospect, I realize that I was foolish or naive in terms of my expectations and trust in you.




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: JOHN WILCOX, KASIM SULTON, ROGER POWELL, TODD RUNDGREN

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