Sympathy
Vampire Weekend Lyrics


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Alone in someone's bedroom
She firmly took my hand
The isolation ended
I began to understand

In the ping-pong match of constant desire
I was never gonna get ahead
'Cause I was looking in the mirror

Now we've got that sympathy
What I'm to you
You are to me
Let's go

Judaeo-Christianity
I'd never heard the words
Enemies for centuries
Until there was a third

In the ping-pong match of constant desire
I was never gonna get ahead
'Cause I was looking in the mirror

Now we've got that sympathy
What I'm to you
You are to me
Let's go

Diego Garcia
Surrounded by the waves
Lonely in the ocean
But in every other way
It was full of love
And the warmest fellow-feeling

Now we've got that sympathy
What I'm to you
You are to me
Let's go

I didn't have your sympathy
But I knew where to start
Explaining to you patiently
That the one who broke my heart
Would have broken yours
And thrown the pieces in the river

Now we've got that sympathy
What I'm to you
You are to me
Let's go

Let's go

Desperate for an enemy
But too afraid to kill
Use the pain of someone else
And triumph for their will
And spill the blood
Of the arrogant mosquitoes

Now we've got that sympathy
What I'm to you




You are to me
Let's go

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "Sympathy" by Vampire Weekend explore different aspects of relationships and human desires. The song begins with the singer being in someone's bedroom feeling isolated until the person takes their hand and the isolation ends, indicating the importance of connection and empathy. The first verse mentions the "ping-pong match of constant desire" and how the singer was never going to get ahead because they were always looking in the mirror, which could mean they were too focused on themselves to truly connect with someone else.


The second verse contains a reference to "Judaeo-Christianity" and how the singer had never heard the words until there was a third enemy. This could refer to how the rivalry between Judaism and Christianity goes back centuries, but when a third party enters, they can join together in unity against the common enemy. The third verse talks about Diego Garcia, an island in the Indian Ocean that was used as a US military base, and how it was full of love and warm fellow-feeling despite being surrounded by the waves and being isolated.


The fourth verse seems to contrast the warmth of the previous verse by mentioning a desire for an enemy but being too afraid to kill, and using someone else's pain to triumph. The song ends with a repetition of the chorus, emphasizing the importance of empathy and understanding in relationships.


Line by Line Meaning

Alone in someone's bedroom
Being without any company in a particular room belonging to someone else


She firmly took my hand
She held my hand with a strong grip


The isolation ended
The state of being alone came to an end


I began to understand
I started to comprehend the situation


In the ping-pong match of constant desire
In the lively, competitive game of constant wanting


I was never gonna get ahead
I could never win or get what I want


'Cause I was looking in the mirror
Because I was too focused on myself and my own desires


Now we've got that sympathy
At present, we possess the ability to understand and feel for each other


What I'm to you
The way you perceive me


You are to me
The way I perceive you


Let's go
An invitation to move on from the past and take action


Judaeo-Christianity
The aspects of both Judaism and Christianity


I'd never heard the words
I have not previously encountered these terms


Enemies for centuries
Individuals or groups that have been against each other for hundreds of years


Until there was a third
Except when there is another group involved


Diego Garcia
The name of a place


Surrounded by the waves
In an area surrounded by water


Lonely in the ocean
Being alone in an expanse of water


But in every other way
Despite this, in all other aspects


It was full of love
Filled with feelings of affection


And the warmest fellow-feeling
And the strongest feelings of community and compassion


I didn't have your sympathy
I did not possess your understanding and compassion


But I knew where to start
Despite this, I had an idea of where to begin


Explaining to you patiently
Clarifying something to you with patience


That the one who broke my heart
The person who caused me emotional pain


Would have broken yours
Would have caused you emotional pain as well


And thrown the pieces in the river
And would have discarded the broken pieces without any concern


Desperate for an enemy
Desiring an adversary


But too afraid to kill
But not brave enough to take a life


Use the pain of someone else
Exploit someone else's suffering


And triumph for their will
And succeed in accomplishing their goals


And spill the blood
And cause death and destruction


Of the arrogant mosquitoes
Of the obnoxious, bothersome pests




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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

nmwm

I think I take myself too serious
It's not that serious
Alone in someone's bedroom
She firmly took my hand
The isolation ended
I began to understand
In the ping-pong match of constant desire
I was never gonna get ahead
'Cause I was looking in the mirror
Now we've got that sympathy
What I'm to you
You are to me
Let's go
Judeo-Christianity
I'd never heard the words
Enemies for centuries
Until there was a third
In the ping-pong match of constant desire
I was never gonna get ahead
'Cause I was looking in the mirror
Now we've got that sympathy
What I'm to you
You are to me
Let's go
Diego García
Surrounded by the waves
Lonely in the ocean
But in every single way
It was full of love
In the warmth fed a feeling
Now we've got that sympathy
What I'm to you
You are to me
Let's go
I didn't have your sympathy
But I knew where to start
Explaining to you patiently
That the one who broke my heart
Would have broken yours
And thrown the pieces in the river
Now we've got that sympathy
What I'm to you
You are to me
Let's go
Desperate for an enemy
But too afraid to kill
Use the pain of someone else
And triumph for their will
And spill the blood
Of the arrogant mosquitoes
Now we've got that sympathy
What I'm to you
You are to me
Let's go



All comments from YouTube:

Cassie Bloomingdale

Not gonna lie this one slaps the hardest for me

Fabiana Moura

So true! This one is always on my workout playlist 😃

Zoe

You mean Claps👏👏

Char 🎵

sameee

Liam Mahony

Cassie Bloomingdale same

Ben Fliger

It slaps so hard it might even bang.

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Oscar M

This song is an instant classic

jangoagogo

@You can't see me duhhh these two songs sound similar that mean everyone else dum and i smard, haha vamper weaken bad

MinekEzQM

As a loose cover of "Long Train Running" - yes. That was a brilliant song.

William Snakespeare

Vampire weekend is a classic

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