If You Love Me
Van Morrison Lyrics


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If you love me
You will give your heart
Why should we be apart
If you love me

If you love me
You will know the truth
I wasn't born to lose
And I love you

Affinity and communication
That makes reality
Understanding is the first thing
It means so much to me

If I love you
I will find the key
If it's meant to be
'Cause I love you

Affinity and communication
That is reality
Understanding is the first thing
It means so much to me

If I love you
I will find the key




If it's meant to be
'Cause I love you

Overall Meaning

Van Morrison's song "If You Love Me" talks about the nature of intimacy, trust and the complexities of love. The first stanza of the song emphasizes the importance of commitment in a relationship where Van Morrison asks his lover to give their heart if they truly love him. He refuses to accept the idea of being apart and emphasizes that love should bring people together, not apart. The second stanza emphasizes the importance of truth in a relationship emphasizing that understanding is key. Van Morrison notes that affinity and communication are essential in building an intimate relationship that will lead to a deeper understanding of each other. The last couplet of both stanzas expresses a deep devotion to his lover, and the idea of his willingness to find the key to make things work shows the complexity of true love, which often requires struggle and sacrifice to make it work.


The repetition throughout the song highlights the importance of communication, trust, and the complexities of love. When he sings "If you love me" in the chorus, it can both be perceived as a question or a statement. It might imply that Van Morrison is asking his lover if they truly love him, or it could also mean that Van Morrison believes that true love requires a specific action as proof of love.


Line by Line Meaning

If you love me
This is the conditional statement for the rest of the song - the singer implies that if the person addressed truly loves them, then they would follow through with certain actions.


You will give your heart
The singer is saying that if the person addressed truly loves them, then they should open themselves up and be vulnerable with their feelings.


Why should we be apart
The singer is questioning why they should be apart if there is love between them.


If you love me
Repeating the conditional statement from the beginning of the song.


You will know the truth
The artist implies that if the person addressed truly loves them, then they would understand the artist's true intentions and feelings.


I wasn't born to lose
The singer asserts their self-worth and suggests that they are not meant to fail in matters of love.


And I love you
The singer affirms their love for the person addressed.


Affinity and communication
This line describes two key components in a successful relationship that the artist believes are important.


That makes reality
The artist is saying that these two components are essential in making a relationship work in the real world.


Understanding is the first thing
The artist places a high value on understanding each other in order for the relationship to thrive.


It means so much to me
The singer emphasizes how important understanding is to them in a relationship.


If I love you
The conditional statement shifts from the person addressed to the artist - if the artist loves the person addressed, they will take certain actions.


I will find the key
The singer is saying that they will figure out what it takes to make the love between them and the person addressed work.


If it's meant to be
The singer acknowledges that even if they take all the right actions, the relationship may not work out if it's not meant to be.


'Cause I love you
The singer reaffirms their love for the person addressed as the reason why they are willing to take certain actions in the relationship.




Lyrics Β© BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: VAN MORRISON

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After 21 years four girls four grand children and three great grand kids we are still in love with each other she is the most and only beautiful woman I have ever seen. I love you Cindy Lou DePriest

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@bencelinehaulussy8782

Obsessed with this song: a killer marriage of Van’s voice with BB’s magic guitar play

@stevelivingston3499

This is in my top two, maybe one, or behind Willie Nelson anything!

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So many memorable moments in this video πŸ™β€οΈ B.B. King together with Van Morrison.. just great! πŸ‘πŸŽ§

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It’s been raining 3 days straight. Waking up to more rain. I’m ready for some sunshine 🌞 Van Morning ❀

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