Finding Me
Vertical Horizon Lyrics


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I don't think you notice
When you see my face
I guess you're waiting
To spin me around again

Wheels I guess are turning
Somewhere inside my head
I know that this is
Deeper than you get

But you're coming back again
You don't mean to waste my time
But you're coming back so

[Chorus]
Don't tell me
How to be
'Cause I like some suffering
Don't ask me
What I need
I'm just fine
Here finding me
Me

I've already given
Up on getting through
I never question
Who I'm talking to

Oh so much for nothing
But nothing means so much
I know it's touching
But I've been out of touch

And it's all that I can do
I'm a sight for my sore eyes
But it's all I am so

[Chorus]

I don't think you notice
When I can't reach out
I guess you're waiting
On somebody else again

Oh so much for talking
It's all been said before
I'm hearing something
But I wish you'd just say more

But you're going off again
When I try to just hold on
But you're going off so





[Chorus]

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Vertical Horizon's song Finding Me depict a sense of self-discovery and self-appreciation in the midst of interpersonal struggles. The singer seems to address a person who keeps returning and leaving again, causing mixed signals and confusion. The singer appears aware that the other person does not understand the depth of their internal struggles and thoughts. The line "I know that this is deeper than you get" conveys this feeling of disconnection and highlights the challenge of making someone understand what is going on within oneself.


The chorus of the song has a theme of self-acceptance in spite of personal struggles. The lines "Don't tell me how to be 'cause I like some suffering" and "Don't ask me what I need, I'm just fine here, finding me" show that the singer is comfortable with their current situation and doesn't need someone else to tell them how to cope. It's almost as if the singer is saying that they are good at handling their own emotional pain, and they don't need someone else to guide them. The repetition of the phrase "finding me" reinforces the idea of the singer's self-search or self-discovery journey, as they navigate the ups and downs of their relationships and personal life while remaining focused on their inner self.


In the last verse, the singer seems frustrated with the ambiguous communication from the other person. The line "I'm hearing something, but I wish you'd just say more" shows that the singer is open to connecting with the other person, but their communication is not sufficient. The last part of the chorus repeats with emphasis, as if the singer is reaffirming to themselves that they don't need to rely on anyone else to find themselves, ultimately finding solace in themselves.


Line by Line Meaning

I don't think you notice
I don't believe you pay attention


When you see my face
When you look at me


I guess you're waiting
I assume you are looking forward


To spin me around again
To manipulate me again


Wheels I guess are turning
Metaphorical wheels are spinning in my head


Somewhere inside my head
Inside my mind


I know that this is
I know this is


Deeper than you get
More complex than you understand


But you're coming back again
You keep returning


You don't mean to waste my time
You don't intend to use my time inefficiently


But you're coming back so
But you keep returning


Don't tell me
Do not instruct me


How to be
How to behave


'Cause I like some suffering
Because I find some comfort in hardship


Don't ask me
Do not inquire from me


What I need
What I require


I'm just fine
I'm doing okay


Here finding me
Discovering myself here


Me
Myself


I've already given
I've already provided


Up on getting through
Given up on overcoming obstacles


I never question
I never doubt


Who I'm talking to
Who I'm conversing with


Oh so much for nothing
All that effort for no gain


But nothing means so much
But that means a lot


I know it's touching
I recognize it's moving


But I've been out of touch
But I've been disconnected


And it's all that I can do
This is the only thing I can do


I'm a sight for my sore eyes
I am visually pleasing to myself


But it's all I am so
But that is all I have left


When I can't reach out
When I am unable to contact you


On somebody else again
On someone else once more


Oh so much for talking
All that conversation for nothing


It's all been said before
Everything has already been expressed


I'm hearing something
I perceive a message


But I wish you'd just say more
But I wish you would elaborate


But you're going off again
But you are leaving once more


When I try to just hold on
When I try to hang on


But you're going off so
But you are leaving once more


Don't tell me
Do not instruct me


How to be
How to behave


I'm just fine
I'm doing okay


Here finding me
Discovering myself here


Me
Myself




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: MATT SCANNELL, MATTHEW B. SCANNELL

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