Tryin' to Get Over You
Vince Gill Lyrics


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You could have given me a million reasons why
But it wouldn't change a thing
You said it all when you said goodbye
And you took off your wedding ring

I've been tryin' to get over you
I've been spending time alone
I've been tryin' to get over you
But it'll take dyin' to get it done

All my friends keep tryin' to fix me up
They say I need somebody new
When it comes to love, I've all but given up
'Cause life don't mean nothin' without you

I've been tryin' to get over you
I've been spending time alone

I've been tryin' to get over you
But it'll take dyin' to get it done

Overall Meaning

Vince Gill's "Tryin' To Get Over You" recounts the story of a man struggling to move on from a broken relationship. The song's haunting lyrics reveal the depth of his despair and the extent to which he still longs for his old love. The opening verse sees him admitting that his former partner has left him without any clear reason, other than the fact that she's no longer wearing her wedding ring. Her departure has taken him completely by surprise, and he's left reeling, racked with pain and uncertainty.


Throughout the course of the song, Gill's protagonist wrestles with his inner demons, bravely attempting to put the pieces of his shattered heart back together. He tries to occupy himself with other things — spending time alone and trying to get over his ex — but he's unable to fully lift himself out of his depression. His friends try to help by setting him up on dates, but he can't imagine being with anyone else. The last line of the song reveals the true extent of his heartbreak, expressing the belief that he'll never be able to move on fully from his lost love, that he'll carry the pain of the breakup with him for the rest of his life.


Line by Line Meaning

You could have given me a million reasons why
Even though you could have explained why you ended things with me, it wouldn't have made a difference.


But it wouldn't change a thing
Regardless of your reasons, the outcome remains the same.


You said it all when you said goodbye
Your goodbye was the final word and explanation for why we had to end.


And you took off your wedding ring
Removing your wedding ring was a symbolic gesture of the finality and seriousness of the situation.


I've been tryin' to get over you
I have been making an effort to move on from you emotionally.


I've been spending time alone
I have been intentionally isolating myself to process my feelings and heal.


But it'll take dyin' to get it done
Despite my efforts, it feels impossible to fully let you go and move on from our relationship.


All my friends keep tryin' to fix me up
My friends are trying to help me move on by setting me up with other people.


They say I need somebody new
My friends believe that finding someone new is the best way for me to move on.


When it comes to love, I've all but given up
I have lost hope and no longer believe in the possibility of finding love again.


'Cause life don't mean nothin' without you
To me, life does not have the same value or joy without you in it.




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Vincent Grant Gill

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@louiserawle8999

One of the saddest and hauntingly beautiful songs ever written.Vince has a glorious voice.

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If you have to ask that ...duh!!!

@johnvetere

My first wife said we need to talk and I was a OTR truck driver just home and to hours later she was gone.

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@thebeautifulnamibian

It’s 2024, I’m 40 yrs old and have been aware of Vince Gill since my childhood. Music I grew up with. Nothing compares to golden classics like this. #OldGenerationRocks

@StephanieHolmes-j8g

I loveeeeeeeeeee Vince Gill. He has the most prettiest voice in the world

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