Will You Marry Me?
Vonda Shepard Lyrics


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I guess you sunk in, oh yeah you made it in
Now I'm fumbling somewhere deep within
Will I raise my glass or will you kick my ass?
Or will we fall down laughing, laughing?

I know love is pain, I know your life's insane
I want you anyway, I'll probably complain
Why would I subject myself to this kind of disaster?
A respectable ball and chain is all you're really after

But I'm tumbling inside this reeling feeling coming over me
Will you ever decide? So unrevealing, will you marry me?

Strange behavior from my savior
You yank me up and down just like a yo-yo
Do you love me? You're an anomaly
Or maybe you are just unbelievably ordinary

Why would I subject myself to this kind of disaster?
A respectable ball and chain is all you're really after

But I'm tumbling inside this reeling feeling coming over me
Will you ever decide? So unrevealing, will you marry me?




I'm tumbling inside, I'm happiest when you are next to me
But I'm still on the outside am I obsessed or will you marry me?

Overall Meaning

In Vonda Shepard's song "Will You Marry Me?" the singer is expressing her confusion and uncertainty about her relationship with someone. She feels deeply for this person, but at the same time, she recognizes that there are potential problems and challenges in their relationship. She wonders if this person will commit to her, or if they will continue to be indecisive and unpredictable. Ultimately, the singer is left wondering if she is "obsessed" with this person, or if she truly wants to marry them.


The first verse sets the scene for the song, with the singer acknowledging that the person she is singing about has "made it in" and "sunk in" to her life. However, she is unsure of how to respond to this person's presence in her life. She wonders if she should "raise [her] glass" in celebration, or if she should prepare herself for disappointment ("will you kick my ass?"). The last line of the verse - "or will we fall down laughing, laughing?" - suggests that the singer is still hopeful that things will work out, even if she is unsure of how to proceed.


In the second verse, the singer describes her partner's "strange behavior" and the mixed signals they send her. She wonders if this person really loves her or if they are just using her as a temporary distraction from their problems. Despite her doubts and reservations, however, the singer still feels a strong emotional connection to this person. She admits that she may complain about their relationship, but ultimately she wants to be with them.


Overall, "Will You Marry Me?" portrays the complexity and uncertainty that often come with romantic relationships. The singer is torn between her love for someone and her awareness of the potential risks and challenges involved in committing to that person. Through her lyrics, she invites the listener to share in her emotional journey and to empathize with the difficult choices she must make.


Line by Line Meaning

I guess you sunk in, oh yeah you made it in
You have made a strong impact on me and I can feel myself falling for you.


Now I'm fumbling somewhere deep within
I am struggling to understand how I feel and what I want in this situation.


Will I raise my glass or will you kick my ass?
I am unsure if we will celebrate or fight about our feelings for each other.


Or will we fall down laughing, laughing?
Perhaps we will simply laugh together and enjoy each other's company.


I know love is pain, I know your life's insane
I am aware that love can be difficult and that your life is complicated.


I want you anyway, I'll probably complain
Despite the challenges, I still want to pursue a relationship with you, even if I may express dissatisfaction at times.


Why would I subject myself to this kind of disaster?
I question why I would choose to pursue something that may be difficult or have negative consequences.


A respectable ball and chain is all you're really after
I worry that you may only be interested in a traditional, long-term commitment and that any other type of relationship with me may not be enough.


But I'm tumbling inside this reeling feeling coming over me
Despite my doubts, I can't ignore the strong emotions I am experiencing.


Will you ever decide? So unrevealing, will you marry me?
I am uncertain if you feel the same way or if you will ever make a decision about the future of our relationship.


Strange behavior from my savior
I am confused by your actions and can't predict how you will behave.


You yank me up and down just like a yo-yo
Your behavior towards me is inconsistent and unpredictable.


Do you love me? You're an anomaly
I wonder if you truly love me or if your feelings for me are unusual or unexpected.


Or maybe you are just unbelievably ordinary
Alternatively, you may simply be a normal person with complex emotions like anyone else.


I'm tumbling inside this reeling feeling coming over me
My emotions towards you are intense and consuming.


Will you ever decide? So unrevealing, will you marry me?
I am still unsure if you feel the same way or if you will ever make a decision about our future together.


I'm tumbling inside, I'm happiest when you are next to me
Despite my uncertainty, I know that being with you brings me joy and happiness.


But I'm still on the outside am I obsessed or will you marry me?
I fear that my strong emotions for you may make me seem obsessive and I am still unsure if we have a future together.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: MICHAEL CHRISTOPHER LANDAU, VONDA SHEPARD

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eenstah

omg this brings me waaay back

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Same 😁

Louise Parker

Me too

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