I Don't Know How To Tell Him
Wanda Jackson Lyrics


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I can tell him his toy gun won't kill Indians
And the towel around his neck don't make him strong
I can tell him there's no Easter bunny
But I don't know how to tell him that you're gone
He still looks for you every morning he's cried every night we've been alone
I can tell him there's no real Santa but I don't know how to tell him that you're gone

I can tell him his broomstick's not a pony
And wearin' daddy's boots don't make him grown
I can tell him there's no to ferry
But I don't know how to tell him that you're gone




Cause he still looks for you...
I don't know how to tell him that you're gone

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Wanda Jackson's song "I Don't Know How to Tell Him" convey the struggle of a parent who is trying to find the right words to tell their child that a loved one has passed away. The song begins with the singer explaining how they can tell their child that his toy gun won't kill any "Indians" and the fact that the towel around his neck doesn't make him strong. But, when the singer gets to the point where they have to reveal that the child's loved one is no longer around, they find themselves unable to do so. The child still looks for the departed loved one every morning, and cries every night when they are alone.


The use of metaphor in the song is powerful, and the parent tries to explain to the child that a broomstick is not a pony and wearing daddy's boots doesn't make him grown, but there is no gentle way to break the news that his loved one has passed away. The lyrics express the emotional journey of a parent struggling to deal with their child's grief while bearing their own grief.


The song is a poignant reflection on the difficulty of telling a child about the loss of a loved one, and the responsibility of a parent to comfort their child in times of sorrow. It is a beautifully written and performed song that speaks to anyone who has experienced the pain of losing a loved one.


Line by Line Meaning

I can tell him his toy gun won't kill Indians
I can inform him that his toy gun is only for playing and won't actually harm anyone


And the towel around his neck don't make him strong
Putting a towel around his neck doesn't give him any special powers


I can tell him there's no Easter bunny
I can let him know that the Easter bunny is not a real animal, just a character in stories


But I don't know how to tell him that you're gone
However, I am struggling to find a way to explain to him that you are no longer with us


He still looks for you every morning he's cried every night we've been alone
Despite not being able to find you, he searches for you every day, and we've spent countless lonely nights with him mourning your absence


I can tell him there's no real Santa but I don't know how to tell him that you're gone
I can explain to him that Santa is not a real person, but it's difficult for me to tell him that you are no longer here


I can tell him his broomstick's not a pony
I can let him know that his broomstick is simply a tool for cleaning and not a real horse


And wearin' daddy's boots don't make him grown
Wearing his father's boots doesn't make him mature or grown-up


I can tell him there's no to ferry
I can inform him that the Tooth Fairy is a fictional character and not a real fairy who takes teeth and leaves money


But I don't know how to tell him that you're gone
However, I'm at a loss when it comes to explaining your absence to him




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Written by: MARTIN

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