My Big Iron Skillet
Wanda Jackson Lyrics


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You are doing wrong again it's plain for all to see
And you think here at home is where I ought to be
There's gonna be some changes made when you get in tonight
Cause I'm gonna teach you wrong from right
With my big iron skillet in my hand
Gonna show you how a little woman quits a great big man
If you live through the fight we're gonna have when you get home
You'll wake up and find yourself alone
[ steel ]
You say you're sick and tired of me and that I look a mess
But it's never done on you this is my only dress
I have never met a man who's quite the likes of you
I don't know why I ever said I do




With my big iron skillet...
With my big iron skillet...

Overall Meaning

The song 'My Big Iron Skillet' by Wanda Jackson is a song that talks about domestic violence and the empowerment of women in taking a stand against domestic abuse. The lyrics suggest that the singer's partner is behaving badly and she is fed up with it. She is determined to use her big iron skillet as a means of defense and teach her partner the difference between right and wrong. Though her partner may be physically bigger and stronger, she is not afraid to fight back and will use her skillet as a weapon if necessary.


The lyrics also highlight the challenges that women face in abusive relationships, such as being unable to leave due to financial dependence, and the devaluation of their physical appearance by their partner. The singer is determined to break free from this cycle and take control of her life. The chorus of the song reinforces this idea of female empowerment, suggesting that the little woman can defeat a great big man if she fights back.


Overall, the song seeks to convey the importance of standing up against domestic violence and the power of women to take control of their lives and protect themselves from harm.


Line by Line Meaning

You are doing wrong again it's plain for all to see
You are behaving incorrectly and it is obvious to everyone.


And you think here at home is where I ought to be
You believe that I should be at home and submit to you.


There's gonna be some changes made when you get in tonight
When you arrive home, I will make sure that things change.


Cause I'm gonna teach you wrong from right
I am going to educate you on what is right and wrong.


With my big iron skillet in my hand
I will use my large frying pan as a weapon.


Gonna show you how a little woman quits a great big man
I will demonstrate how a small woman can defeat a large man.


If you live through the fight we're gonna have when you get home
Assuming you survive the battle that will take place on your arrival...


You'll wake up and find yourself alone
...you will come to and realize that you are alone.


You say you're sick and tired of me and that I look a mess
You claim to be fed up with me and that I am unattractive.


But it's never done on you this is my only dress
You don't seem to realize that this is my only garment.


I have never met a man who's quite the likes of you
I have never encountered someone like you before.


I don't know why I ever said I do
I am unsure why I agreed to marry you.


With my big iron skillet...
Once again, I will employ my formidable frying pan...


With my big iron skillet...
...to assert my dominance over you.




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Comments from YouTube:

Arlene Bowers

I did have this record album but have lost it over the years. Love Wanda and the girl can sing! Wish I had more.

Annie Driggs

This song was written by my Uncle Bob Creswell and Aunt Wilda Mae (Driggs) Creswell. I was just a young teenager at the time, but they took me with them when they met with Wanda and her husband at a little diner in Bristow, Oklahoma, to discuss the deal for recording. The song was released and was a big hit in 1969.

Kabob Hope

That's a wonderful story, Annie Diggs. Did your uncle and aunt get along?

ASP1RE

Who can dislike such an epic song? Love from Romania!

Daniel Burns

this song went to #20 on the country charts in 1969!!!

Arlene Bowers

Have always loved this song. Thanks for sharing it.

Lavanya Salagrama

<3 this! thank you so much for uploading this!

J.W. Gauntt

very welcome!

Roxas Sora

Good song 👍

Károlyné Szépvölgyi

Kedves Jack!
Csodálatos a videó film. Nagyon tetszett a művésznő és a dal is.
Köszönettel, Klára Szépvölgyi

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