Counterpart
Wander Lyrics


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In this world, we're all in search for a counterpart
But how can I decide what that is if I don't even know what I want?

Mother told me when you grow up you will understand
Love's true meaning, but here I am and I can't pretend
That I've seen even a glimpse of that famed allure
In my dreams, there's someone out there with a cure
Can I convince myself that you're out there somewhere
When my heart knows better?
Taking my chances in a reckless pursuit of love
I think I've found it, then I realize it's not enough
Another failure tells me I should have known not to hold faith in my feelings, they're always misleading me

So tell me, where will I go?

As amorous sparks pull me in
The thrill of the chase clouds my mind again
My caution has all been swept up by the wind
And I know I don't stand a chance

Cause when the fire dies
Affection suffers its cold demise
It happens every time
I'm stricken with feelings I can't keep alive

Can anybody here help me bury my doubt?
What if I find you and you don't even want me?





Where will I go?

Overall Meaning

The song "Counterpart" by Wander is about the search for love and the uncertainty that comes with it. The singer talks about the concept of a counterpart, which is the belief that there is someone out there who is perfect for each person. However, the singer faces the difficulty of not knowing what they want in a partner, which makes it difficult to find their counterpart.


The lyrics show the confusion and doubt that comes with trying to find love. The singer feels as though they have not experienced true love, despite being told by their mother that they will understand it when they grow up. The singer dreams of finding someone who can cure their loneliness and fill the void in their heart, but they struggle with believing this is possible.


The song also touches on the fear of rejection and the disappointment that comes with failed relationships. The singer feels as though they are always misled by their feelings and that their search for love is a reckless pursuit. They wonder where they will go and who will help them bury their doubt.


Overall, the song "Counterpart" is a heartfelt exploration of the search for love and the uncertainty that comes with it.


Line by Line Meaning

In this world, we're all in search for a counterpart
Everyone is looking for their soulmate in this world


But how can I decide what that is if I don't even know what I want?
I am unable to identify what I want in a soulmate


Mother told me when you grow up you will understand Love's true meaning, but here I am and I can't pretend That I've seen even a glimpse of that famed allure In my dreams, there's someone out there with a cure
Despite what my mother said, I still don't know what love really is and I dream of finally finding someone who can fix that for me


Can I convince myself that you're out there somewhere When my heart knows better?
I question if it's logical to believe that my soulmate exists when deep down, I know that it's not


Taking my chances in a reckless pursuit of love I think I've found it, then I realize it's not enough Another failure tells me I should have known not to hold faith in my feelings, they're always misleading me
I impulsively chase after love, but each time I think I've found it, I am disappointed once again and realize that my feelings always lead me astray


So tell me, where will I go?
I'm lost and unsure of what direction to take in my search for love


As amorous sparks pull me in The thrill of the chase clouds my mind again My caution has all been swept up by the wind And I know I don't stand a chance
The excitement of pursuing someone I have feelings for has me in a daze and I am no longer thinking logically – though I know deep down it's not going to work out


Cause when the fire dies Affection suffers its cold demise It happens every time I'm stricken with feelings I can't keep alive
Every time my initial infatuation disappears, my affection for the person dies off and we fall apart


Can anybody here help me bury my doubt? What if I find you and you don't even want me?
I want reassurance that I am not mistaken in my search for love and what if I finally meet someone and they don't reciprocate my feelings?


Where will I go?
I still don't know where exactly I am headed in my pursuit of love




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@brittanyhawke6672

In this world, we’re all in search for a counterpart but how can I decide what that is if I don’t even know what I want?

Mother told me...

Mother told me when you grow up you will understand, love’s true meaning but here I am and I can’t pretend. That I’ve seen even a glimpse of that famed allure, in my dreams, there’s someone out there with a cure.

Can I convince myself that you’re out there somewhere, when my heart knows better? Taking my chances in a reckless pursuit of love, I think I’ve found it, then I realize it’s not enough. Another failure tells me I should have known not to hold faith in my feelings, they’re always misleading me.

So tell me, where will I go?

As amorous sparks pull me in, the thrill of the chase clouds my mind again, my caution has all been swept up by the wind and I know I don’t stand a chance.

Cause when the fire dies, affection suffers it’s cold demise, it happens every time, I’m stricken with feelings I can’t keep alive.

Can anybody here help me bury my doubt? What if I find you and you don’t even want me?

Can I convince myself that you’re out there somewhere, when my heart knows better? Taking my chances in a reckless pursuit of love, I think I’ve found it, then I realize it’s not enough. Another failure tells me I should have known not to hold faith in my feelings, they’re always misleading me.

Where will I go?



All comments from YouTube:

@Moustache_D_Luffy

Lyrically, this is one of the most relatable songs in my entire library. It perfectly describes my current situation and my feelings about it

@wearetriumphant

Glad you like it!

@MEGAcookies100

Sometimes there are those bands that you listen to and you're just like "oh my.where have you been friend and why weren't you in my life". you guys are one of those bands.fantastic!

@ArsonWithWater

One of the best bands out now in my opinion. Straight out of Waldorf, Maryland.

@iSINGforSPLITtheSEAS

Thanks for the compliment! But nah we're from Frederick, not Waldorf.

@ALARGEK9

Jack Rentschler hey dude, I was wondering if you could give us insight on the music video. Seemed kinda vague and I don't exactly get it. Otherwise rad music guys.

@colinmumma

I really hope this band blows up. Best band of their kind to come along in years. 

@chYnaRIP

Colin Mumma sadly I don't think they blew up

@MyChemicalLove011

Colin Mumma I feel like they need to find another label that will definitely put them out there. They’re soooo good!! I don’t think they really have a song I don’t like ..

@Drinkyoghurt

I'm 5 years late but they're on my radar now. I'm so glad this genre is still alive.

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