It Gets Better
Wander Lyrics


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When did I start to feel this way? I wish I had cherished my time before I began aging
Feels like I'm living by mistake, I don't recall choosing this fate
So many nights I lie awake, confronting my endless collection of dissatisfactions
How many hours will it take before they can wither away?

"You're not alone!"
But in the cold they never know where I go
And so I guess I'll survive,
Cause I know the hardest part was never losing hope,
But rather letting go
And now I search far and wide,
To find those who truly know if there is any hope,
Far from a swinging rope

"Wait right here." That's what they told me. "It gets better."

It won't heal
And that's the irony
They're always trying to stitch me up
Been wrong all along

It's not real
I know it helps you sleep




But your karma won't fill my cup
Nor yours when I'm gone

Overall Meaning

In Wander's song "It Gets Better," the artist expresses the familiar feeling of being lost and dissatisfied with life. The opening lines, "When did I start to feel this way? I wish I had cherished my time before I began aging," sets the tone for the rest of the song. Wander is reflecting upon his life and how quickly time seems to have slipped away. He questions his choices that may have landed him where he is now and feels like he's living by mistake. This sentiment is relatable to anyone who feels like they're not living the life they want and are plagued by regrets.


The chorus of the song is uplifting in comparison to the verses. The words "And so I guess I'll survive, cause I know the hardest part was never losing hope, but rather letting go" speak to the importance of holding on to hope, even when things seem impossible. The lyrics express the idea that the hardest part of life is not losing hope but rather letting go of struggles and dissatisfactions. Wander is searching for those who can relate to his experiences and can offer hope to him.


The bridge of the song is the climax and turning point. It incorporates dialogue from someone who tells him to "wait right here" and that "it gets better." These words act as a mantra of hope in the midst of suffering. The last few lines "It's not real. I know it helps you sleep. But your karma won't fill my cup, Nor yours when I'm gone," speak to the idea that surface level words of comfort may not be enough to heal deep, emotional wounds. Wander suggests that true comfort is found when we truly connect to others and understand their pain and struggles.


Line by Line Meaning

When did I start to feel this way? I wish I had cherished my time before I began aging
Reflects regret as they wish they enjoyed their youth before becoming an adult and experiencing the problems that come with growing old


Feels like I'm living by mistake, I don't recall choosing this fate
Expresses feelings of being lost and confused about life, as if they never had the power to choose their own path


So many nights I lie awake, confronting my endless collection of dissatisfactions
Reveals the agony of dealing with endless unfulfilled desires, leading to sleepless nights


How many hours will it take before they can wither away?
Questions how long it will take for these dissatisfactions to disappear


"You're not alone!" But in the cold they never know where I go
Despite others trying to comfort them, they feel isolated and unable to express their true feelings to anyone


And so I guess I'll survive, Cause I know the hardest part was never losing hope, But rather letting go
Decides to soldier on because while having hope was hard, it's harder to let go and give up


And now I search far and wide, To find those who truly know if there is any hope, Far from a swinging rope
Emphasizes their efforts to find people who truly understand if things will get better, far from the temptation of suicide


"Wait right here." That's what they told me. "It gets better."
Highlights the comfort that they received from someone telling them that life gets better and their problems will soon be resolved


It won't heal, And that's the irony, They're always trying to stitch me up, Been wrong all along
Acknowledges the irony that while others try to fix their problems, the only thing that can heal them is time, and that the methods others use have been ineffective


It's not real, I know it helps you sleep, But your karma won't fill my cup, Nor yours when I'm gone
Rejects the notion that certain things others do for their benefit are of no real help in the grand scheme of things




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