Why Bother
Weezer Lyrics


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I know I should get next to you
You got a look that makes me think you're cool
But it's just sexual attraction
Not somethin' real so I'd rather keep wackin'

Why bother?
It's gonna hurt me
It's gonna kill when you desert me
This happened to me twice before
It won't happen to me anymore

I've known a lot of girls before
What's the harm in knowin' one more?
Maybe we could even get together
Maybe you could break my heart next summer

Why bother?
It's gonna hurt me
It's gonna kill when you desert me
This happened to me twice before
It won't happen to me anymore

It's a crying shame I'm all alone
Not with you, nor her, nor anyone
Won't you knock me on my head?
Crack it open, let me outta here

Why bother?
It's gonna hurt me
It's gonna kill when you desert me
This happened to me twice before
It won't happen to me anymore

(Why bother?)
Why bother? (It's gonna hurt me)
It's gonna hurt me (It's gonna kill when you desert me)
Why bother? (It's gonna hurt me)
Why bother? (Why bother?)
It's gonna hurt me (It's gonna hurt me)




Why bother?
It's gonna hurt me

Overall Meaning

Weezer's song "Why Bother?" is a reflection on the singer's fear of rejection and desire to avoid getting hurt from a potential relationship. The song's chorus repeats the phrase "why bother?" as the singer questions the worth of pursuing a relationship that will likely lead to pain. The singer acknowledges that they find the person attractive, but they ultimately decide that the risk of getting hurt is not worth the potential reward of a relationship.


The verse "I've known a lot of girls before, what's the harm in knowing one more?" hints at the singer's fear of commitment and history of failed relationships. The line "maybe you could break my heart next summer" acknowledges the inevitability of heartbreak and suggests that the singer is resigned to it happening again. The song's bridge "It's a crying shame I'm all alone, not with you, nor her, nor anyone" captures the singer's feelings of loneliness and the desire for connection, but their fear of getting hurt prevents them from pursuing it.


Overall, "Why Bother?" is a relatable reflection on the fear of vulnerability and the desire for connection in relationships, despite the fear of getting hurt.


Line by Line Meaning

I know I should get next to you
I am aware that I should be with you


You got a look that makes me think you're cool
Your appearance makes me think you're interesting


But it's just sexual attraction
However, my interest is only physical


Not somethin' real so I'd rather keep wackin'
It's not genuine, so I will continue to masturbate instead of pursuing you


Why bother?
Is it worth the effort?


It's gonna hurt me
It will cause me emotional pain


It's gonna kill when you desert me
The heartbreak of being abandoned is overwhelming


This happened to me twice before
I have been through this pain twice already


It won't happen to me anymore
I refuse to let it happen again


I've known a lot of girls before
I have dated many girls in the past


What's the harm in knowin' one more?
What's the harm in adding another to the list?


Maybe we could even get together
Perhaps we can begin a relationship


Maybe you could break my heart next summer
Maybe our relationship will end with heartbreak


It's a crying shame I'm all alone
I regret being single


Not with you, nor her, nor anyone
Not with anyone I have encountered


Won't you knock me on my head?
Can someone or something knock sense into me?


Crack it open, let me outta here
Can someone help me overcome this emotional isolation?




Lyrics © Wixen Music Publishing, DistroKid
Written by: RIVERS CUOMO

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