In my head
White Town Lyrics


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Should be enough to love someone
Just be happy they're alive
Do you have to know what they're doing
Like a job from nine to five

But the big bad wolf is coming
Singing 'he la la' what's new
He's going to blow our fragile house in
And run away with you
Oh won't you stay
Here for a day
In my head

And a walk is such a long way
When you have to get to her
An infinily of individual steps
Separates you from that girl

But the big bad wolf is coming
Singing 'he la la' what's new
He's going to blow our fragile house in
And run away with you
Oh won't you stay
Here for a day
In my head
All the things you tried to do
All those times you could never see it through
Everything you thought that you knew
Melted away
Left you no truth

Should be enough to love someone
Just be happy she's alive
Do you have to know that she hates you
Like a job from nine to five
And every time you talk to her
She seems to like you less
Was it all a misunderstanding
Just a big elaborate test

But the big bad wolf is coming
Singing 'he la la' what's new
He's going to blow our fragile house in
And run away with you
Oh won't you stay




Here for a day
In my head

Overall Meaning

In White Town's song "In My Head", the lyrics begin by touching on the theme of overthinking in relationships. The singer questions the need to know every detail about someone's life, suggesting it should be enough to simply love them and be happy that they are alive. The idea of a societal expectation to have a job and follow a set routine is also mentioned, further emphasizing the singer's aversion to being boxed-in.


However, this idyllic vision is quickly disrupted by the arrival of the "big bad wolf" singing "he la la" which implies a sense of carelessness and disregard. This metaphorical wolf could represent a competing party attempting to take the love interest away from the singer. The use of "our fragile house" highlights the singer's vulnerability and attachment to their relationship, as well as the fear that it may be easily destroyed by external factors.


As the song continues, it becomes apparent that the singer is physically far from the love interest and every step towards reaching them seems insurmountably difficult. Although the lyrics suggest a longing to have the love interest with them "for a day" in their head, the reality of the situation is that "all the things you tried to do, all those times you could never see it through, everything you thought that you knew, melted away, left you no truth".


The final verses revisit the questioning of the love interest's feelings towards the singer and whether it was all a misunderstanding or a test. The repetition of the "big bad wolf" singing "he la la" serves as a haunting reminder that the threat remains and could blow their delicate situation to pieces.


Line by Line Meaning

Should be enough to love someone
Loving someone should be sufficient


Just be happy they're alive
Feel content and blessed that they're alive


Do you have to know what they're doing
Is it necessary to know every detail about their life?


Like a job from nine to five
Just like a regular job with set hours


But the big bad wolf is coming
An ominous force is approaching


Singing 'he la la' what's new
Mocking and belittling the situation with a carefree song


He's going to blow our fragile house in
He will destroy our vulnerable structure (relationship)


And run away with you
Take away the one you love


Oh won't you stay
Please don't leave


Here for a day
Even for a brief moment


In my head
In the safety of my mind


And a walk is such a long way
The distance between us seems vast


When you have to get to her
When you need to reach and be with her


An infinity of individual steps
Countless steps separate us


Separates you from that girl
Keep us apart from the one I desire


All the things you tried to do
All your attempts and efforts


All those times you could never see it through
All thwarted through continuous failure


Everything you thought that you knew
Everything you assumed was the truth


Melted away
Faded and disappeared


Left you no truth
Devoid of reality


Just be happy she's alive
Find joy in her existence


Do you have to know that she hates you
Need to be aware if her feelings towards you are contemptuous?


And every time you talk to her
After every conversation with her


She seems to like you less
Her admiration for you diminishes over time


Was it all a misunderstanding
Maybe it was a misinterpretation of something


Just a big elaborate test
Nothing more than a complex experiment




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Written by: Jyoti Mishra

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