Distance
Why? Lyrics


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You wanted an effigy of me so true it bleeded
Each hair a filament of glass formed while heated
Assumed you'd see bright blooms and fruit trees
With the root things weeded
What your new scene needed
So that's what we did
What was unclean was played and sung
Then framed and hung till lame and numb
And then repeated
Cause that's when the fame will come
And the game is won
And your name is rung in every ear like a secret

I gotta keep my distance to withstand the silence of you missing
When you're not there to listen to listen to this nonsense
Keep my distance to withstand the silence of you missing
When you're not there

Now I'm pushing past 30
If I bow out as the years close in
Abandon my sound man and band and them
I'll give no blushing curtsey
To the proud shouts of close kin
I ground it into ground and then some, friends
Just drop a dusty curtain on the loud crowd when the show ends
And end the whole thing where no men found me
I'm so f*****g thirsty
In a cold cloud only of my own
And lonely worsens, surrounds me

I gotta keep my distance to withstand the silence of you missing
When you're not there to listen to listen to this nonsense
Keep my distance to withstand the silence of you missing
When you're not there

Men and women might yet quote his modicum of the truth
But never will they get right close to Jonathan Avram Wolf

Cause I gotta keep my distance to withstand the silence of you missing
When you're not there to listen to listen to this nonsense




Keep my distance to withstand the silence of you missing
When you're not there

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Why?'s song "Distance" explore how the desire for fame and success can compromise one's authenticity and creative vision. The first stanza describes the pressure to conform to a certain image or sound in order to achieve success in the music industry. The singer compares himself to an "effigy" that is crafted to meet these expectations, with every detail carefully designed to appeal to the audience. However, this image and sound is ultimately unsustainable and unfulfilling, as the performer becomes "lame and numb" from repeating the same messages and sounds in order to maintain their fame.


In the second stanza, the singer expresses a fear of aging and losing relevance as an artist. He acknowledges the sacrifices he has made in order to pursue his craft, but wonders if it is worth it in the end. He imagines bowing out of the music scene and walking away from his fans and supporters without a word of gratitude, feeling both isolated and unquenched. The final stanza reflects on the fleeting nature of fame and the impossibility of truly being known as an artist, even if people appreciate his work or acknowledge its truth.


Overall, the lyrics to "Distance" convey a sense of existential anxiety and ambivalence towards the music industry. The desire for success and recognition is weighed against the cost of compromise and the possibility of losing oneself in the process.


Line by Line Meaning

You wanted an effigy of me so true it bleeded
You desired a perfect representation of me, down to the smallest detail, even if it meant causing pain.


Each hair a filament of glass formed while heated
The effort to create this representation was meticulous and painful, like shaping glass.


Assumed you'd see bright blooms and fruit trees
You thought that this representation would bring positivity and growth into your life.


With the root things weeded
By removing negative elements, you hoped to create a better environment for this representation and yourself.


What your new scene needed
The ideal image you had in mind required this representation to exist in your life.


So that's what we did
You went to great lengths to make this perfect representation a reality.


What was unclean was played and sung
Even unsavory aspects of yourself were celebrated and emphasized in this representation.


Then framed and hung till lame and numb
This representation eventually became stagnant and lifeless, despite the effort put into creating it.


And then repeated
You continued to use this representation, even though it was no longer effective or meaningful.


Cause that's when the fame will come
You believed that by continuing to use this representation, you would become famous and successful.


And the game is won
You thought that by achieving fame, you would have successfully navigated the difficult journey of life.


And your name is rung in every ear like a secret
Once you attained fame, your name would be celebrated and whispered about by the masses.


I gotta keep my distance to withstand the silence of you missing
In order to cope with the absence of a loved one, I need to stay emotionally detached.


When you're not there to listen to listen to this nonsense
When you are not around, I am left to wallow in my own self-pity and trivial thoughts.


Now I'm pushing past 30
I am getting older and feeling the pressure to achieve things before it's too late.


If I bow out as the years close in
If I give up or fail to achieve my goals as I get older.


Abandon my sound man and band and them
If I quit my music career and leave my band behind.


I'll give no blushing curtsey
I will not feel embarrassed or ashamed for walking away from my career.


To the proud shouts of close kin
Even if my family is proud of me, it won't be enough to keep me going.


I ground it into ground and then some, friends
I have worked tirelessly to make my music career a success.


Just drop a dusty curtain on the loud crowd when the show ends
At the end of my career, I will quietly step away from the spotlight without fanfare.


And end the whole thing where no men found me
I will disappear from public view and live a quiet life away from the limelight.


I'm so f*****g thirsty
I am desperate for success and validation in my career.


In a cold cloud only of my own
I am alone with my thoughts and feelings, with no one to turn to for comfort.


And lonely worsens, surrounds me
I am becoming increasingly isolated and lonely, with no end in sight.


Men and women might yet quote his modicum of the truth
People may remember small pieces of the truth that I have tried to convey in my music.


But never will they get right close to Jonathan Avram Wolf
No one can truly understand me or the struggles I have faced in my life.




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