02. She's A Jar
Wilco Lyrics


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She's a jar
With a heavy lid
My pop quiz kid
A sleepy kisser
A pretty war
With feelings hid
She begs me not to miss her
She says forever
To light a fuse
We could use
A hand full of wheel
And a day off
And a bruised road
However you might feel
Tonight is real

When I forget how to talk, I sing
won't you please
Bring that flash to shine
And turn my eyes red
Unless they close
When you click
And my face gets sick
Stuck
Like a question unposed

Just climb aboard
The tracks of a trains arm
In my fragile family tree
And watch me floating inches above
The people under me

Please beware the quiet front yard
I warned you
Before there were water skies
I warned you not to drive
Dry your eyes, you poor devil

Are there really ones like these?
The ones I dream
Float like leaves
And freeze to spread skeleton wings
I passed through before I knew you

I believe it's just because
Daddy's payday is not enough
Oh, I believe it's all because
Daddy's payday is not enough

Just climb aboard
The tracks of a trains arm
In my fragile family tree
And watch me floating inches above
The people under me

She's a jar
With a heavy lid
My pop quiz kid
A sleepy kisser
A pretty war




With feelings hid
You know she begs me not to hit her

Overall Meaning

In Wilco's song "She's A Jar," the singer describes a relationship that is complicated and difficult to navigate. The object of his affection is described as a jar with a heavy lid, representing the emotional barriers that she puts up to protect herself. She is a pretty war, with feelings hidden away and begged the singer not to miss her. The song also speaks to the desire for connection and intimacy, but the fear that comes with vulnerability. There is a sense of uncertainty, as the singer wonders if the relationship is real or just a fleeting dream. The lyrics suggest that there are deeper issues at play, such as a dysfunctional family dynamic and the struggle to make ends meet.


Line by Line Meaning

She's a jar
She's mysterious and elusive, like a jar with a lid that's hard to open


With a heavy lid
She's guarded and hard to access


My pop quiz kid
She's always testing me and keeping me on my toes


A sleepy kisser
She's not a passionate lover, but more of a gentle, drowsy one


A pretty war
She's beautiful, but also complicated and often at odds with herself


With feelings hid
She keeps her emotions hidden, making it hard for me to understand her


She begs me not to miss her
She wants me to pay attention to her and not take her for granted


She says forever
She wants our love to last a lifetime


To light a fuse
To ignite our passion and start something new


We could use
We need


A hand full of wheel
Some control and direction in our lives


And a day off
Some time to relax and enjoy ourselves


And a bruised road
We're not afraid of taking risks and facing challenges


However you might feel
No matter what your emotions are, it's okay to feel that way


Tonight is real
Let's live in the moment and enjoy what we have right now


When I forget how to talk, I sing
Sometimes I'm at a loss for words, but music helps me express myself


Won't you please
I'm asking for your help


Bring that flash to shine
Bring some light into my life


And turn my eyes red
Make me feel emotional and vulnerable


Unless they close
Unless I shut down and become withdrawn


When you click
When we connect


And my face gets sick
I feel nauseous with excitement and anticipation


Stuck
Frozen in the moment, unable to move or speak


Like a question unposed
Like there's something important I need to say, but I don't know how to say it


Just climb aboard
Join me on this journey


The tracks of a train's arm
The rails of the train that's carrying us forward


In my fragile family tree
In my imperfect family history


And watch me floating inches above
Watch me rise above my family's problems and limitations


The people under me
My family members who haven't been able to overcome their difficulties


Please beware the quiet front yard
Be careful of the things that are hidden or not immediately obvious


I warned you
I told you


Before there were water skies
Before there were fun, exciting things to distract us from our problems


I warned you not to drive
I cautioned you against taking risks or doing anything rash


Dry your eyes, you poor devil
Stop crying, you unfortunate person


Are there really ones like these?
Are there really people who are as complicated and difficult to understand as she is?


The ones I dream
The people I imagine or fantasize about


Float like leaves
Seem weightless and carefree


And freeze to spread skeleton wings
And then suddenly become serious and intense


I passed through before I knew you
I've experienced these kinds of emotions before, but never with someone like you


I believe it's just because
I think it's simply because


Daddy's payday is not enough
My dad doesn't make enough money to provide for us




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Written by: JEFF TWEEDY, JAY BENNETT

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