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You and I, we might be strangers
However close we get sometimes
It's like we never met

But you and I, I think we can take it
All the good with the bad
Make something that no one else has but
You and I, you and I

Me and you, what can we do
When the words we use sometimes
Are misconstrued

Well, I won't guess, what's coming next
I can't ever tell you
The deepest well I've ever fallen into

Oh, I don't wanna know
Oh, I don't wanna know
Oh, I don't need to know
Everything about you

Oh, I don't wanna know
And you, don't need to know
That much about me

You and I, we might be strangers
However close we get sometimes
It's like we never met

But you and I, I think we can take it
All the good with the bad
Make something that no one else has but

You and I, you and I
You and I, you and I




You and I, you and I
You and I, you and I

Overall Meaning

In Wilco’s song “You and I,” the singers acknowledge that they may be strangers to each other, even when they are close physically. There is a sense of miscommunication - the words used are often misconstrued, and the singers are unable to guess what may come next. In the chorus, the singers argue that they don’t want to know everything about each other, and they don’t need to know too much about their own selves, either.


Line by Line Meaning

You and I, we might be strangers
We may not know each other very well


However close we get sometimes
Even if we become very close


It's like we never met
It still feels like we barely know each other


But you and I, I think we can take it
However, I believe we can handle challenges


All the good with the bad
Including both positive and negative aspects


Make something that no one else has but
We can create a unique relationship


Me and you, what can we do
What actions can we take as individuals?


When the words we use sometimes
At times, the phrases we choose


Are misconstrued
Can be misunderstood by the other person


Well, I won't guess, what's coming next
I won't try to predict what will happen next


I can't ever tell you
I can never accurately inform you


The deepest well I've ever fallen into
The deepest emotional state I have ever experienced


Oh, I don't wanna know
I'd rather not know and avoid that level of emotional intensity


Everything about you
Knowing every detail of your life


And you, don't need to know
You also do not need to have an exhaustive knowledge of mine


That much about me
Only a certain amount of personal information needs to be shared


You and I, you and I
Our relationship, regardless of its current status


You and I, you and I


You and I, you and I


You and I, you and I




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: NELS CLINE, MIKAEL JORGENSEN, GLENN KOTCHE, PAT SANSONE, JOHN CHADWICK STIRRATT, JEFFREY SCOTT TWEEDY

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@harveyjones1245

This is how I tell it
O' but it's long
One Sunday morning
O' One son is gone
Against the weather dawning
Over the sea
My father said what I had become
No one should be
Outside I look lived in
Like the bones in a shrine
How am I forgiven
O' I'll give it time
This I learned without warning
Holding my brow
In time we thought I would kill him
O' but I didn't know how
I said it's your God I don't believe in
No your Bible can't be true
Knocked down by the long lie
He cried I fear what waits for you
I can hear those bells
Spoken and gone
I feel relief I feel well
Now he knows he was wrong
Ring 'em cold for my father
Frozen underground
Jesus I wouldn't bother
He belongs to me now
Something sad keeps moving
So I wandered around
I fell in love with the burden
Holding me down
Bless my mind I miss
Being told how to live
What I learned without knowing
How much more I owe than I can give
This is how I tell it
O' but it's long
One Sunday morning
One son is gone
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Songwriters: Jeff Tweedy
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@CieaoMelano

This is how I tell it
Oh, but it's long
One Sunday morning
Oh, one son is gone

I can see where they're dawning
Over the sea
My father said what I had become
No-one should be

Outside I look lived in
Like the bones in a shrine
How am I forgiven?
Oh, I'll give it time

This, I learned without warning
Holding my brow
In time he thought I would kill him
Oh, but I didn't know how

I said it's your god I don't believe in
No, your Bible can't be true
Knocked down by the long life
He cried, 'I fear what waits for you'

I can hear those bells
Spoken and gone
I feel relief, I feel well
Now he knows he was wrong

I am cold for my father
Frozen underground
Jesus, I wouldn't bother
He belongs to me now

Something sad keeps moving
So I wandered around
I fell in love with the burden
Holding me down

Bless my mind, I miss
Being told how to live
What I learned without knowing
How much more that I owe that I can give

This is how I tell it
Oh, but it's long
One Sunday morning
One son is gone



@Samsasrenjet

This song is about a man coming to terms with his estranged father's death and the religious fanaticism that ruined their relationship.

The first verse prefaces the core narrative. "One son is gone" refers to the death of the narrator's father, who is someone's son. 

"Against the weather dawning...": The second verse begins the narrator's digression into the core narrative. It sets up the song with some foreboding imagery and establishes the narrator's father's disdain.

"Outside I look lived in...": Verse 3, lines i and ii, develop the narrator's emotional dishevelment. His condition is so poor that he has physically grown frail.

"How am I forgiven...": Verse 3, lines iii and iv, reveal a braveness within the narrator, who no longer needs God's forgiveness for atonement, just the time it takes for him to overcome any damage, by his own hard work.

"This I learned without warning...": Verse 4, lines i and ii is a phrase that references the narrator's spontaneous loss of faith. Out of nowhere, hatred for his entered the narrator. Toward the end of the core narrative, the narrator reuses this line very poetically.

"In time we thought I would kill him": Although immediately evidence for the narrator's vigorous hatred toward his father, this line also establishes some solidarity within the narrator's family. The "we" covers people the narrator and his father mutually know, so as I interpret it, it shows that the narrator had family in-tune with his spiteful emotions. I like this verse because it develops some additional subtext by espousing a gradient of fanaticism, and shows that typical religious families have members with variable religious commitment - This line also shows that the narrator's father is particularly angry, since he is apart from his family.

"O' but I didn't know how": This isn't a death metal song, so the narrator probably wouldn't kill his father. However, this line underscores the pain caused by ultimately loving someone but being in immense conflict with them all at once.

"I said it's your God I don't believe in...": As I see it, verse 5, lines i and ii eliminate any ambiguous interpretations of this song. The narrator is pretty clear; he told his dad he no longer shared his beliefs.

"Knocked down by the long lie": Religion is the offender in question, and the narrator has called it the long lie. His father was its victim.

"He cried I fear what waits for you": Classic doomsday fear-mongering on the father's part.

"I can hear those bells...": I doubt the narrator's hearing wedding bells.

"I feel relief I feel well...": By verse 6, lines iii and iv, the narrator is still conflicted about his father's death. His proclaimed relief could stem from many things. The narrator could be relieved in knowing that the animosity between him and his father was buried along with him; the narrator could be relieved smugly. Interpreting verse 6, line iv literally reveals a blatant paradox, but what it really means is that the narrator is confident his father isn't scolding him from the afterlife.

"Ring 'em cold for my father...": In verse 7, the narrator reclaims his father. In the words "ring 'em", I tonally hear something of a jovial farewell, with any hints of sarcasm rapidly fading. The narrator has decoupled his father from the religious fanaticism that wrenched them apart by poetically telling Jesus off.

"Something sad keeps moving...": Solace has not found the narrator by verse 8, lines i and ii, so he "wandered around." This sentiment should ring loud with the song's listeners, who must empathize with the confusion associated with grief. I personally get a vibe of drugs, sex, and self-destruction although those first two are nowhere to be found in the lyrics.

"I I fell in love with the burden...": The narrator has become consumed by his father's death, which by verse 8, lines iii and iv, has finally hit him face first. I imagine the narrator vehemently combating religious ideology, and/or perhaps mentally cycling through the vicissitudinous relationship with his father to a crippling extent.

"Bless my mind I miss...": By verse 9, lines i and ii, the narrator confesses his truth; he misses his father! Here, the narrator makes a huge concession to his father's ways in an ironic, but endearing tone. The cry for true relief, "bless my mind", is phrased piously despite the narrator's atheistic convictions. Longing for "being told how to live" is quite unlike the narrator. Nevertheless, these were his father's traits which he is now looking beyond.

"What I learned without knowing": The core narrative returns to this phrase, this time to tell us the narrator's love for his father. All throughout their ideological conflict, the narrator was clouded from all the good his father brought to life, now missing being told how to live - advice in a loving, paternal way. This phrase ties the narrator's relationship with his father together; although he was a harsh and didactic man, as we learned when this phrase first took meaning, the narrator's father is still his god damn father!

"How much more I owe than I can give": The narrator acknowledges how much of an impact his father has had on him, now expressing regret because he can no longer reciprocate.

Verse 10 is a repetition of the first verse. It ends the core narrative which is the narrator's meditation. By the lyric's end, much clarity has been accomplished, but the narrator's emotional rubble has yet to settle. Instrumentation completes the song's story.

First, the song lingers on a painful, monotonous bass segment. The mundane thuds audibly construct a rut. A guitar flourish and a piano key start a cautious transition back into the post-verse refrain. There is a different outlook to be had now; even though everything's the same, we are different. The bass begins to skip melodically with pleasant reverberation from keys and chords. The story about grief has ended, but from it continues a story of happiness.

I love you, grandpa.



All comments from YouTube:

@Wraedeohed

It's taken me years to find this song, and tonight I finally found it! Seriously cried through most of the song. So happy.

@justiniath

The only thing I don’t like about this song is that it isn’t longer. It’s just so addictive in its tone and pace. I feel so involved and I am constantly thinking about so many new things each time I listen to it.

@hostage3232

They opened with this song when i saw them live in Seattle this past tuesday. I had actually not heard this song before then. When he does the 'oooooh" part and its perfectly in tune with the strong bass (which was especially prevalent in the performance) it was more than perfect. I sat there in absolute awe in their amazing musical ability. WILCO never lets me down

@Rob954ever

As a longtime fan of Wilco,I can honestly say that this one of the few (if not,the ONLY) song in their catalog that captivates me solely on the merit of the beautiful music. I find myself getting lost in the sound of the gentle percussion and the delicate melody. I get lost in my thoughts and within this song. Truly gorgeous.

@Steve-uv9kb

+Robert P Really? Do you not like the lyrics? They are brilliant

@seanstrider2185

+Steve You missed his point.

@michaelmcabee4358

Yup, this one really sends me.

@Shlooomth

Wilco is absolutely magical. Props for the cloud footage, it matches the song well.
Whenever I'm sad I listen to Wilco and slowly everything gets better

@foundtheirhome

How many bands can come up with a song this great so deep into their careers? I love it. Instant classic from one of my favorite bands ever.

@TukkerKM

When my uncle died they played this on the funeral, 12 minutes of pure emotion. Boy , that was one sunday morning.

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