Don't You Honey Me
Wilco Lyrics


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Don't you honey me honey bee
A good time I'll set you free
Don't be too nice too nice to me
I've been stung and I've grown mean
Honestly I know what you want
And I can't satisfy you
Honestly it hurts me too
And I don't want to make you blue
Make you blue
I don't wanna make you blue
Don't sit next to me in a tree
K-I-S-S-I-N-G
Who's that bouncing on your knee
Could it be my baby bumble bee
Who's that bouncing on your knee
Give me back my baby bumble bee
Honestly I know what you need
And I just wanna be true
I love you too
And I don't wanna make you blue




Make you blue
I don't wanna make you blue

Overall Meaning

In Wilco's song "Don't You Honey Me," the singer warns their lover not to become too invested in the relationship, using the metaphor of a honey bee. The singer compares themselves to a bee that has become angry and bitter due to being stung before, which is a suggestion that they have been hurt previously and might lash out. Despite understanding what their lover desires, the singer is unable to meet those needs and, as a result, does not want to disappoint them. The singer admits their concern over the possibility of hurting their lover or causing sadness in the relationship, while still caring for them.


The chorus of the song's hook provides the name of the song and reflects the frustration of the singer with being overly affectionate, calling for a detachment and distance to the relationship that the lover may not be ready for. The relationship insecurity of the singer is further reinforced by the image of a baby bumble bee bouncing on their lover's knee, which could represent a potential child, further complicating the relationship.


Overall, "Don't You Honey Me" is a song that captures the complexity and ambiguity of relationships, where love and fear frequently intertwine. It suggests that it can be challenging to balance protecting oneself while still attempting to love another unconditionally.


Line by Line Meaning

Don't you honey me honey bee
Don't use affectionate terms to manipulate me


A good time I'll set you free
I will let you go if you're only interested in a casual relationship


Don't be too nice too nice to me
Don't try too hard to please me


I've been stung and I've grown mean
I've been hurt in the past and have become cautious


Honestly I know what you want
I understand your intentions


And I can't satisfy you
But I can't fulfill your desires


Honestly it hurts me too
I also feel upset about this


And I don't want to make you blue
And I don't want to hurt you


Make you blue
Cause you sadness


Don't sit next to me in a tree
Don't get too intimate with me


K-I-S-S-I-N-G
Don't even think about kissing me


Who's that bouncing on your knee
Who is this other person close to you?


Could it be my baby bumble bee
Is it the person I care about?


Who's that bouncing on your knee
Who is this other person close to you?


Give me back my baby bumble bee
I want the person I care about to be loyal to me


Honestly I know what you need
I understand what you need emotionally


And I just wanna be true
I want to be loyal to you


I love you too
I love you as well


And I don't wanna make you blue
And I don't want to cause you pain


Make you blue
Cause you sadness




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