I’m the Man Who Loves You
Wilco Lyrics


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All I can see is black and white
And white and pink with blades of blue
That lay between the words I think
On a page I was meaning to send her
You I couldn't tell if it bring my heart
The way I wanted when I started
Writing this letter to you
If I could you know I would
Just hold your hand and you'd understand
I'm the man who loves you

All I can be is a busy sea of
Spinning wheels and hands that feel
For stones to throw and feet that run but
They come back home, make no difference
Ever known, make no difference
Ever known to me

If I could you know I would
Just hold your hand and you'd understand
I'm the man who loves you

All I can see is black and white
And white and pink with blades of blue
That lay between the words I think
On a page I was meaning to send her
You I couldn't tell if it bring my heart
The way I wanted when I started
Writing this letter to you

If I could you know I would
Just hold your hand and you'd understand
If I could you know I would
Just hold your hand and you'd understand
If I could you know I would
Just hold your hand and you'd understand




I'm the man who loves you
I'm the man who loves you

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Wilco's song "I'm the Man Who Loves You" speak to the frustration and uncertainty that can come with trying to express love and devotion to another person. The singer struggles to articulate their emotions, and even the colors they envision (black, white, pink, and blue) seem muddled and unclear. They are unsure if their love will be reciprocated, and are left with only the hope that by holding the other person's hand, they will be able to communicate what their words cannot.


The line "All I can be is a busy sea of spinning wheels and hands that feel" conveys the overwhelming sensation of being consumed by one's own thoughts and emotions. The singer is caught up in a whirlwind of feelings, represented by the spinning wheels and hands, which makes it difficult for them to think clearly or move forward. The repetition of "make no difference ever known" emphasizes the feeling of futility that can accompany such intense emotions.


Overall, the song captures the intensity and uncertainty of love, and the way that it can leave us feeling both overwhelmed and powerless.


Line by Line Meaning

All I can see is black and white
I can't see the intricacies of life, only the stark contrasts.


And white and pink with blades of blue
The few things that I do perceive are hazy and blurred


That lay between the words I think
There's a lot of subtext to my thoughts that are hard to articulate


On a page I was meaning to send her
I was trying to communicate my feelings through a letter


You I couldn't tell if it bring my heart
I don't know if this will have the intended effect on you


The way I wanted when I started
I had good intentions when I began writing


Writing this letter to you
I am trying to convey my emotions through writing


If I could you know I would
If there was a way for me to express my feelings more directly, I would


Just hold your hand and you'd understand
If I could physically show you how much I care, you would see it


I'm the man who loves you
I deeply care about you and want you to know that


All I can be is a busy sea of
The only way I know how to live is in a hectic and chaotic manner


Spinning wheels and hands that feel
I'm always trying to get things done, but sometimes at the expense of being present in the moment


For stones to throw and feet that run but
I'm always on the lookout for things that might go wrong, even though they often don't


They come back home, make no difference
Despite my constant anxiety and worrying, everything ends up being okay in the end


Ever known, make no difference
My worries and anxieties have little impact on my life and relationships


Ever known to me
I am always trying to process my thoughts and feelings, but sometimes they are difficult to decipher




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc., BMG RIGHTS MANAGEMENT US, LLC
Written by: JAY BENNETT, JEFF TWEEDY, JEFFREY SCOTT TWEEDY

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