It's Not Supposed to Be That Way
Willie Nelson Lyrics


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It's not supposed to be that way
You're supposed to know I love you
But it don't matter anyway
If I can't be there to control you
Like the other little children why
You're gonna dream a dream or two
But be careful what you're dreamin'
Or soon your dreams'll be dreamin' you
It's not supposed to be that way
You're supposed to know I love you
But it don't matter anyway
If I can't be there to console you
When you go out to play this evenin'
Play with fire flies till they're gone
Then you rush to meet your lover
And play with real fire till the dawn
But it's not supposed to be that way
You're supposed to know I love you
But it don't matter anyway
If I can't be there to console you

When you go out to play this evenin'
Play with fire flies till they're gone
Then you rush to meet your lover
And play with real fire till the dawn
But it's not supposed to be that way
You're supposed to know I love you




But it don't matter anyway
If I can't be there to console you

Overall Meaning

In this song, Willie Nelson seems to be expressing his frustration and a sense of helplessness over a relationship where he cannot control or console his partner. The first verse emphasizes the lack of control he has over his partner's dreams or actions. The second verse paints a picture of his partner going out to play and engage in risky behavior with another person, while Nelson is left behind. The repeated chorus of "It's not supposed to be that way, you're supposed to know I love you, but it don't matter anyway if I can't be there to console you," highlights the longing for a deeper connection with his partner, one based on love and trust.


The lyrics suggest that there may be an underlying issue in the relationship, perhaps a lack of communication or trust. Despite his love for his partner, Nelson feels helpless in the situation, and his partner's actions are causing him pain. He wishes he could be there to control or console them, but instead, he's left alone with his thoughts.


Overall, "It's Not Supposed to Be That Way" is a bittersweet song about the challenges of love and relationships. It's a reminder that despite our best intentions, sometimes we cannot control the actions or emotions of the people we love.


Line by Line Meaning

It's not supposed to be that way
Things aren't meant to be like this


You're supposed to know I love you
You should already know that I love you


But it don't matter anyway
But it doesn't make a difference


If I can't be there to control you
If I can't be there to guide you


Like the other little children why
Just like all the other kids, why


You're gonna dream a dream or two
You'll dream a few dreams


But be careful what you're dreamin'
But be cautious of what you're dreaming


Or soon your dreams'll be dreamin' you
Or else your dreams will start controlling you


When you go out to play this evenin'
When you go out to have fun tonight


Play with fireflies till they're gone
Chase after fireflies until they disappear


Then you rush to meet your lover
Then you hurry to meet your significant other


And play with real fire till the dawn
And engage in risky behavior until the morning


But it's not supposed to be that way
But things should not be like this


You're supposed to know I love you
You're expected to know that I love you


But it don't matter anyway
But it still doesn't make a difference


If I can't be there to console you
If I am unable to comfort you




Lyrics ยฉ Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Willie Nelson

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Ruby Moorman

BeaUtifUl & heart touching Marianne Menon, thank you deeply as our Will/ie Nelson will always be # 1... You have exquisite taste on this song. Sweet funluvn hugs coming your way... A special gift "below & to our Willie Nelson. ๐ŸŽต ๐ŸŒท ๐ŸŒบ ๐ŸŒธ ๐Ÿ˜† ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ’ซ ๐ŸŒŸ ๐Ÿ’›

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~"Happy 420 Willie"~ I give this day of 4/20 celebration in 2018 just for you my friend... I hope life is treating you well all around bud, love ya & your always on my mind & how I wish I
could celebrate with ya, but always know, "I'm thinking of ya", always have & always Will/ie...
I'm also enjoying my medicinal medicines in my Willie's Reserve Vape Pen & I deeply thank you & I will always remember you are the best & I/So many appreciate & love you & thank you for being you, caring & sharing with so many people while living in such a fast paced world that we all reside in... ~"Big Smiles"~

Sweet funluvn hugs always bud! ๐Ÿ’ž ๐ŸŽต ๐ŸŒท ๐ŸŒบ ๐ŸŒธ ๐Ÿ˜† ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ’ซ ๐ŸŒŸ ๐Ÿ’›

~"Happy Fri'day & any other days ahead, enjoy your funluvn day to the fullest & many more ahead bud. ~"CHEERS"~

~โ™ฅ~ "Love, Hope, Peace, Joy, Laugh, Sing, Give, Live & Let Live" ~โ™ฅ~

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Willie's voice is too bad ass.

ccryderz43

Love Willie!!! No one will ever replace him!!!

Angie Siddall

I love Willie Nelson's lyrics and music. One of the best musicians and still around entertaining us.

Frank glen

Merry Christmas

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Juan Martinez

I can't stop listening this wonderful song!!!

Mara Karetsos

Excellent!!!
The best country MUSIC EVER!!!!
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Price Pittsburgh

"Like the other little children, You're gonna dream a dream or two. But be careful what you're dreamin', Or soon your dreams'll be dreamin' you". Best line ever

spider moth

Forever thanks Marianne for posting this song. Love it
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Jack Adams

Such a beautiful song by Willie.. for so long I never really had much desire to listen to Willie but once one gets to know him or his singing it is so easy to really enjoy his singing and personality Thank you for the share.. Jack

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