Mama Tried
Willie Nelson Lyrics


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The first thing I remember knowin'
Was a lonesome whistle blowin'
And a young'un's dream of growin up to ride

On a freight train leavin' town
Not knowin' where I'm bound
And no one could change my mind but Mama tried
A one and only rebel child
From a family meek and mild
My mama seemed to know what lay in store

In spite of all my Sunday learnin'
Towards the bad I kept on turnin'
'Til Mama couldn't hold me anymore

And I turned twenty-one in prison doin' life without parole
No one could steer me right but Mama tried, Mama tried
Mama tried to raise me better, but her pleading I denied
That leaves only me to blame, 'cause Mama tried

Dear old Daddy, rest his soul
Left my mom a heavy load
She tried so very hard to fill his shoes

Workin' hours without rest
Wanted me to have the best
She tried to raise me right but I refused

And I turned twenty-one in prison doin' life without parole
No one could steer me right but Mama tried, Mama tried




Mama tried to raise me better, but her pleading I denied
That leaves only me to blame, 'cause Mama tried

Overall Meaning

Willie Nelson's song "Mama Tried" tells a story about a young man who grows up with dreams of escaping from his hometown on a train but is constantly getting into trouble despite his mother's attempts to steer him in the right direction. The opening lines detail the singer's first memories, specifically the sound of a "lonesome whistle blowin'" and his desire to ride a freight train away from everything he knew. He was determined, and Mama tried to reason with him, but he was stubborn, and nothing could keep him down. Despite all of Mama's best efforts, the young man finds himself incarcerated, living a life sentence without parole.


The theme of the song is rebellion and disobedience in the face of guidance from a mother who meant well. It's a story about the trials of growing up, making decisions that have lasting consequences and seeking freedom versus security. Mama tried to raise the unredeemable young man better than she did, but he refused to obey or take heed of her sound advice, ending up locked up in jail. The song illustrates the agony that the mother had to endure as she watched her child waste his life away, clinging to the hope that maybe, just maybe, he will come to his senses later on.


Line by Line Meaning

The first thing I remember knowin'
Willie Nelson's nostalgic reminiscence of his childhood memories


Was a lonesome whistle blowin'
The sound of departing and arriving trains, evoking a sense of wanderlust for a young Willie


And a young'un's dream of growin' up to ride
Describing the youthful ambition of leaving home and experiencing the world on a freight train


On a freight train leavin' town
The symbol of freedom and escape from routine life


Not knowin' where I'm bound
Uncertainty and unpredictability of life on the road


And no one could change my mind but Mama tried
Despite his longing for adventure, Willie acknowledges his mother's efforts to dissuade him from pursuing his dreams.


A one and only rebel child
Describing himself as a nonconformist and an independent-minded individual.


From a family meek and mild
Contrasting his rebellious nature to the traditional, conservative values of his family.


My mama seemed to know what lay in store
Acknowledging his mother's foresight and intuition about his future mistakes.


In spite of all my Sunday learnin'
Referring to religious education and moral values he was taught as a child.


Towards the bad I kept on turnin'
Describing his choices that were contrary to the right path despite his upbringing.


'Til Mama couldn't hold me anymore
Despite her best efforts, Willie was beyond help, and his mother could no longer influence his decisions.


And I turned twenty-one in prison doin' life without parole
The consequence of his bad choices was a life sentence in prison.


No one could steer me right but Mama tried, Mama tried
Although he had gone astray, he recognizes his mother's unwavering attempts to guide him in the right direction.


Mama tried to raise me better, but her pleading I denied
Acknowledging his past behavior, which violated his mother's wishes and led to his downfall.


That leaves only me to blame, 'cause Mama tried
Asserting responsibility for his actions, despite his mother's efforts to set him on a better path.


Dear old Daddy, rest his soul
Referring to his deceased father.


Left my mom a heavy load
Expressing sorrow for the burden that his mother had to bear after his father's death.


She tried so very hard to fill his shoes
Describing his mother's efforts to take on the role of both parents and provide for her family.


Workin' hours without rest
Illustrating the extent to which his mother worked to support her family.


Wanted me to have the best
Revealing his mother's desire for him to have a better life than hers.


She tried to raise me right but I refused
Admitting to disobeying his mother's expectations and causing her grief as a result.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Merle Haggard

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@HussyHarryet

R.I.P Toby you legend. Devastated.

@boblozaintherealworld3577

my wife and I still just blown away.

@murphyr31

Me too, hit me nearly as hard as loosing Merle. It was like we lost Merle all over again. RIP fellas

@2beinteresting

Requiescat in pace, Toby! Who would've thought that the oldest of these three gentlemen would live the longest!

@Joeybydin

This one has hit me harder than any death ever has when it was somebody i had never met. I'm an Okie and it's just not the same around here with him gone. I really can't explain it. Only good thing about it is the local stations have been playing a lot more Toby than usual. Rip big guy!

@Joeybydin

​@@boblozaintherealworld3577up until the last few weeks i really thought he was going to be ok. Even knowing for years that he was aick, it still just shocked me when i woke up and found out.

@bryanjones3089

Love how Willy stayed in the background and let Merle and Toby have that special moment together
Great memory
Rip Toby
You and Merle are singing together again 😢

@commonsenseman6024

Rip Toby and Merle, true country legends. You were unapologetically real country, God bless

@rhondaboncutter5812

My father was a Merle fan, as a kid would play Merle's Records for him as he sat on the back porch drinking a beer! I always sat and sang with him! I miss my Dad!

@SweetJustice

Ditto, my Dad played Merle’s records while rocking in his rocking chair, smoking a Winston some of my first memories

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