Home In A Lighthouse
With the Punches Lyrics


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Deny the way things changed
Call it growing up
But that's a front
You forget just how real
Life can feel
Finding it pointless
To even say a word
If it's all in fear
Of what someone else might hear

Don't confuse the kindness in my eyes
For a weakness telling me to compromise
There's no bottle filled with answers
No universal standard written down
To save your life

But I bet this sounded better in your head
I'm losing interest in all your promises
It's a matter of fact
I was all alone
You were only looking out for yourself

I'll make my home inside this lighthouse
It's where I'll find my own answers to it all





I just can't pretend to be comfortable
With seeing the world through someone else's eyes

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of With the Punches's song Home In A Lighthouse speak about the struggles of growing up and accepting the changes that come along with it. The singer denies that change is always for the better, instead, it is a front that people put up to justify their behavior. While growing up, people forget to stay true to themselves and the realities of life, becoming fearful of what others might think. They find it pointless to speak and express themselves, becoming more reserved and introverted.


However, the singer refuses to compromise his beliefs and values. There is no set rule or guidebook to life, it's up to the individual to find their own path, and there is no one answer that fits all. The listener is warned not to confuse the kindness in the singer's eyes for weakness. The chorus of the song talks about finding one's own home inside a lighthouse where he can seek his own answers and not pretend to be comfortable seeing the world through someone else's eyes.


Overall, the lyrics speak about staying authentic and true to oneself as people grow and face changes in their lives. The singer emphasizes that it's crucial to stand firm while finding one's place in the world and the experience of facing struggles alone.


Line by Line Meaning

Deny the way things changed
I can't accept the changes that have happened


Call it growing up
Some might call it maturing but I don't agree


But that's a front
It's just a façade


You forget just how real
Sometimes you lose sight of what's really important


Life can feel
How intense feelings can be in reality


Finding it pointless
Thinking it's not worth the time or effort


To even say a word
Not even bothering to speak


If it's all in fear
When the only thing that stops you is apprehension


Of what someone else might hear
Afraid of how others might perceive what I say


Don't confuse the kindness in my eyes
My compassion shouldn't be mistaken for weakness


For a weakness telling me to compromise
I won't give in to what I disagree with to seem vulnerable


There's no bottle filled with answers
Solutions aren't always easy or tangible


No universal standard written down
What's best isn't always obvious or agreed upon


To save your life
To solve everything that's going awry


But I bet this sounded better in your head
Your plan may not have worked out as expected


I'm losing interest in all your promises
I'm becoming drained by your ceaseless propositions


It's a matter of fact
It's a simple reality


I was all alone
I had no one for help or support


You were only looking out for yourself
You didn't have my best interests in mind


I'll make my home inside this lighthouse
This beacon will be my hiding spot or home base


It's where I'll find my own answers to it all
I'll find my own understanding of everything here


I just can't pretend to be comfortable
I can't fake being at ease


With seeing the world through someone else's eyes
Looking at life from another person's perspective doesn't work for me




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