His & Hers
Wretch 32 Lyrics
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In this world where we grew
There's his and her point of view
His and her point of view
In this world where we grew
There's his and her point of view
His and her point of view
In this world where we grew
His and her point of view
In this world where we grew
Now here's his point of view
First of all I hate the way you talk to me
But I fucking can't stand when you're ignoring me
It's like everyday you want to go to war with me
You're crying over spilt milk and trying to wipe the floor with me
Everytime I ring you, your phone was in your bag
But every time I'm with you your phone is in your hand
Yeah I get annoyed and you'll say I'm paranoid
And I'll send another message like, "I'll never phone you back"
And why would you say, "Cool" to that if you ain't cool with that?
You make me feel like it was all a plan
Like there's a man up in your yard
And you're waiting for the chance to let a couple hours pass just to call me back
And you don't never sound the same when you're in the wrong
Kinda sound like you're staring down your intercom
Just waiting for him to leave, said you'd tell me if you did cheat
And I'm breaking what we could be so I'm guessing it's make believe
Still I don't believe you but I'll run with it
'Cause I'm out 'ere keeping up some fuckery
And just because I beat doesn't mean that you can beat
Because two fucks don't make a right and it could never tarnish me
Sometimes I wonder if I've ever rocked your world
You care about your lashes and you care about your girls
The one you're always chatting, but she always does your nails
Talking about your fashion, "It's gotta be YSL"
Even though I think the dress couldn't be shorter
Kinda makes me wonder, how the fuck were you brought up?
Hearing conversation about your love for the altar
Still I never listen 'cuh I've done it with all ya
At the end of the month I always give you money
And at the end of the night I always give you loving
Had to state a few things and you don't have to change nothing
It's just my point of view, I wouldn't tell you if it wasn't
His and her point of view
In this world where we grew
There's his and her point of view
His and her point of view
In this world where we grew
There's his and her point of view
His and her point of view
In this world where we grew
There's his and her point of view
His and her point of view
In this world where we grew
Now here's her point of view
I don't think that you respect me
I kinda think that you expect me to be here waiting for you coz its easier
Coz we've got a child together, went the extra mile together
But still there ain't a picture where we ever smile together
How many times do I have to say, how many times
I'm getting sick and I'm tired and I'm tired and I'm crying my eyes out, I don't know why
And then you've got the cheek to come and dry my eyes
Avoiding me don't mean jack now
The toilet seat can go back down
And you can back down
You say your upbringing made you never trust women
Well it's funny how we're both from that background
And I trust you with my life
And you've hit me twice
And both times I came back crying
I wish you knew the kitchen just like you know women
I wish you knew the dishes just like you know whippin'
Between us there's a big difference, I might reply to a DM but you go the distance
Said I want a baby you were scared, I could tell
But when you slept with that hoe you weren't protecting yourself
And that's disgusting, imagine if you gave me something
Probably just say your favorite word, say nothing
And don't try and lie because I know that it's true
It was one of your friends fucking telling on you
Plus the fact, I could fucking smell it on you
You treat me like I'd never do better than you
If you left me on the floor, that's a step up from you
I don't know why love made me settle for you
At the end of the day you know that you're my nigga
So at the end of the night I've always got you dinner
Had to state a few things even though you'll say I'm bitter
It's just my point of view, although you probably beg to differ
His and her point of view
In this world where we grew
There's his and her point of view
His and her point of view
In this world where we grew
There's his and her point of view
His and her point of view
In this world where we grew
There's his and her point of view
His and her point of view
In this world where we grew
There's his and her point of view
The song "His & Hers" by Wretch 32 revolves around the idea of relationships being based on different perspectives of males and females. The song starts with "his" perspective where he talks about feeling insecure. He hates the way the girl speaks to him but also gets annoyed when she ignores him, creating a conflict between them. He talks about trust issues and how he feels like he is being cheated on. He accuses her of being unfaithful and caring more about her own appearance and friends than their relationship. He ends by saying he runs around doing shady stuff but that doesn't give her the right to be unfaithful or tarnish his name.
On the other hand, the second verse is from "her" perspective, where she expresses her frustration and anger. She feels unsupported and unappreciated by her partner. She talks about their child and how it is not enough to sustain their relationship. She goes on to accuse him of domestic violence and cheating on her. She expresses disappointment in herself for settling for him and wishes she knew him the way he knew women. She ultimately ends on a note of acceptance that he is her partner and she will always have his back.
The song implies that relationships are not easy and communication is key. It is important for both partners to understand each other's perspectives and work on building a healthy relationship. The song also highlights toxic behavior such as being unfaithful or violent.
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His and her point of view
The situation is seen from two different perspectives: his and hers
In this world where we grew
The context in which their relationship developed
There's his and her point of view
Both of them see things differently
Now here's his point of view
The focus is on his perspective
First of all I hate the way you talk to me
He dislikes the way she communicates with him
But I fucking can't stand when you're ignoring me
Ignoring him makes him feel really angry
It's like everyday you want to go to war with me
She seems to be constantly picking fights with him
You're crying over spilt milk and trying to wipe the floor with me
She is overreacting to small issues and trying to make him feel bad about minor mistakes
Everytime I ring you, your phone was in your bag
She doesn't answer his calls and keeps her phone in her bag
But every time I'm with you your phone is in your hand
She is always on her phone when they're together
Yeah I get annoyed and you'll say I'm paranoid
She accuses him of being paranoid when he gets annoyed about her phone use
And I'll send another message like, "I'll never phone you back"
He threatens not to call her back in response to her behavior
And why would you say, "Cool" to that if you ain't cool with that?
He questions her response to his message, suggesting that she may not actually be okay with it
You make me feel like it was all a plan
He feels like she is intentionally trying to upset him
Like there's a man up in your yard and you're waiting for the chance to let a couple hours pass just to call me back
He suspects that she might be seeing someone else and deliberately waiting to call him back
And you don't never sound the same when you're in the wrong
She sounds like she's lying when she's done something wrong
Kinda sound like you're staring down your intercom
She sounds nervous and defensive
Just waiting for him to leave, said you'd tell me if you did cheat
She is waiting for someone to leave so that she can confess if she cheated
And I'm breaking what we could be so I'm guessing it's make believe
He is concerned that their relationship might not be real or authentic
Still I don't believe you but I'll run with it
He doesn't trust her but he is willing to give her the benefit of the doubt
'Cause I'm out 'ere keeping up some fuckery
He is also behaving badly and contributing to their problems
And just because I beat doesn't mean that you can beat
He acknowledges that he has made mistakes, but it doesn't excuse her behavior
Because two fucks don't make a right and it could never tarnish me
He knows that their bad behavior doesn't justify the other's actions and won't ruin him
Sometimes I wonder if I've ever rocked your world
He questions whether he has ever truly satisfied her
You care about your lashes and you care about your girls
She is more invested in her own appearance and her friends than their relationship
The one you're always chatting, but she always does your nails
She is close with a friend who does her nails
Talking about your fashion, "It's gotta be YSL"
She is preoccupied with high-end fashion brands
Even though I think the dress couldn't be shorter
He doesn't approve of her fashion choices
Kinda makes me wonder, how the fuck were you brought up?
He questions her upbringing and values
Hearing conversation about your love for the altar
She talks about her religious beliefs and commitment to marriage
Still I never listen 'cuh I've done it with all ya
He has heard these same claims from other women before and doesn't take them seriously
At the end of the month I always give you money
He supports her financially
And at the end of the night I always give you loving
He also provides emotional support
Had to state a few things and you don't have to change nothing
He shares his thoughts but doesn't expect her to change
It's just my point of view, I wouldn't tell you if it wasn't
He is just expressing his perspective and wouldn't share it if he didn't feel strongly about it
Now here's her point of view
The focus shifts to her perspective
I don't think that you respect me
She feels disrespected in their relationship
I kinda think that you expect me to be here waiting for you coz its easier
She believes he takes her for granted and expects her to always be there for him
Coz we've got a child together, went the extra mile together
Their commitment is due in part to their child but also their shared experiences
But still there ain't a picture where we ever smile together
They don't have any happy memories captured together
How many times do I have to say, how many times
She has expressed herself repeatedly and doesn't feel heard
I'm getting sick and I'm tired and I'm tired and I'm crying my eyes out, I don't know why
The stress of the relationship is making her emotionally unwell
And then you've got the cheek to come and dry my eyes
He tries to comfort her but she resents him for causing her pain in the first place
Avoiding me don't mean jack now
He can't fix things by avoiding her
The toilet seat can go back down
He is being asked to consider her needs at home
And you can back down
He should also consider not always asserting himself in disagreements
You say your upbringing made you never trust women
He has a trust issue because of his past experiences
Well it's funny how we're both from that background
She also comes from a similar background but doesn't share his same trust issues
And I trust you with my life
She puts a lot of faith in him and their relationship
And you've hit me twice
He has physically hurt her in the past
And both times I came back crying
She feels emotionally drained and abused, even if he hasn't hurt her recently
I wish you knew the kitchen just like you know women
She wishes he were better equipped to help out with household chores and cooking
I wish you knew the dishes just like you know whippin'
She wants him to understand that cleaning the house is just as important as their sex life
Between us there's a big difference, I might reply to a DM but you go the distance
She acknowledges that there are differences in their communication styles and effort put into the relationship
Said I want a baby you were scared, I could tell
She wanted to have a child, but he was hesitant and she could tell
But when you slept with that hoe you weren't protecting yourself
He slept with someone else without using protection, putting her at risk
And that's disgusting, imagine if you gave me something
She is rightfully upset that he would expose her to potential STIs
Probably just say your favorite word, say nothing
He tends to brush things under the rug and not address the real issues
And don't try and lie because I know that it's true
She is convinced that he slept with someone else and knows it's the truth
It was one of your friends fucking telling on you
Her suspicions were confirmed by one of his friends
Plus the fact, I could fucking smell it on you
She also had other evidence, such as the scent of another woman on him
You treat me like I'd never do better than you
He doesn't think highly of her and she feels undervalued
If you left me on the floor, that's a step up from you
She would be better off being left alone than being in a relationship with him
I don't know why love made me settle for you
She regrets getting involved with him and wishes she could have done better
At the end of the day you know that you're my nigga
She acknowledges that they are still together despite their issues
So at the end of the night I've always got you dinner
She takes care of him and cooks for him
Had to state a few things even though you'll say I'm bitter
She has to speak her truth even if he responds negatively
It's just my point of view, although you probably beg to differ
She shares her perspective, even though he may disagree with it
Lyrics Β© BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group, Peermusic Publishing
Written by: JERMAINE SINCLAIRE SCOTT, JEROME ANTONY JOSHUA WILLIAMS, KWAME ABAYOMI NUNYA KWEI-ARMAH, MOSES AYO SAMUELS, OLANIYI MICHAEL AKINKUNMI
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Sumaya Ali
"His & Hers (Perspectives)"
His and her point of view
In this world where we grew
There's his and her point of view
His and her point of view
In this world where we grew
There's his and her point of view
His and her point of view
In this world where we grew
There's his and her point of view
His and her point of view
In this world where we grew
Now here's his point of view
First of all I hate the way you talk to me
But I fucking can't stand when you're ignoring me
Its like everyday you want to go to war with me
You're crying over spilt milk and trying to wipe the floor with me
Everytime I ring you your phone was in your bag
But every time I'm with you your phone is in your hand
Yeah I get annoyed and you'll say I'm paranoid and I'll send another message like I'll never phone you back
And why would you say cool to that if you ain't cool with that?
You make me feel like it was all a plan
Like there's a man up in your yard and you're waiting for the chance to let a couple hours pass just to call me back
And you don't never sound the same when you're in the wrong
Kinda sound like you're staring down your intercom
Just waiting for him to leave, said you'd tell me if you did cheat and I'm breaking what we could be so I'm guessing its make believe
Still I don't believe you but I'll run with it
Cause I'm out ere keeping up some fuckery
And just because I beat doesn't mean that you can beat because two fucks don't make a right and it could never tarnish me
Sometimes I wonder if I've ever rocked your world
You care about your lashes and you care about your girls
The one your always chatting but she always does your nails
Talking about your fashion; "it's gotta be YSL"
Even though I think the dress couldn't be shorter
Kinda makes me wonder, how the fuck were you brought up?!
Hearing conversation about your love for the Alta
Still I never listen cause I've done it with all ya
At the end of the month I always give you money
And at the end of the night I always give you loving
Had to state a few things and you don't have to change nothing
Its just my point of view, I wouldn't tell you if it wasn't
His and her point of view
In this world where we grew
There's his and her point of view
His and her point of view
In this world where we grew
There's his and her point of view
His and her point of view
In this world where we grew
There's his and her point of view
His and her point of view
In this world where we grew
Now here's her point of view
I don't think that you respect me
I kinda think that you expect me to be here waiting for you cause its easier
Cause we've got a child together, went the extra mile together
But still there ain't a picture where we ever smile together
How many times do I have to say, how many times, I'm getting sick and I'm tired and I'm tired and I'm crying my eyes out, I don't know why
And then you've got the cheek to come and dry my eyes
Avoiding me don't mean jack now
The toilet seat can go back down
And you can back down
You say your upbringing made you never trust women
Well it's funny how we're both from that background
And I trust you with my life
And you've hit me twice
And both times I came back crying
I wish you knew the kitchen just like you know women
I wish you knew the dishes just like you know whippin'
Between us there's a big difference; I might reply to a DM but you go the distance
Said I want a baby you were scared, I could tell
But when you slept with that hoe you weren't protecting yourself
And that's disgusting! Imagine if you gave me something
Probably just say your favourite word; say nothing
And don't try and lie because I know that it's true
It was one of your friends fucking telling on you
Plus the fact, I could fucking smell it on you
You treat me like I'd never do better than you
If you left me on the floor, that's a step up from you
I don't know why love made me settle for you
At the end of the day you know that you're my nigga
So at the end of the night I've always got you dinner
Had to state a few things even though you'll say I'm bitter
It's just my point of view, although you probably beg to differ
His and her point of view
In this world where we grew
There's his and her point of view
His and her point of view
In this world where we grew
There's his and her point of view
His and her point of view
In this world where we grew
There's his and her point of view
His and her point of view
In this world where we grew
There's his and her point of view
Benjamin Stehr
Canβt help me but I understand,
Heβs in her point of few
In this world where we grew
This isnβt her point of few
Because, all he says is his interpretation of her behaviour.
So, heβs in her point of few.
When we get aware of, that we talk in interpretation, we should think of what is our unfulfilled need and what is the emotion which takes place in us.
Because this is all part of us, we have to take responsibility for our needs, emotion and interpretation. Instead of blaming it on the person in the outside.
Than we can ask if itβs possible to meet our need.
So if we donβt do anything of it, we start to interpret and judge what we see in the outside. We stay unconscious and disconnected from ourselves.
Unfortunately thatβs the unconscious behaviour, in the world where we grew.
And obviously the truth is, this isnβt her point of few.
So the lyrics must be,
Heβs in her point of few,
In this world where we grew,
This isnβt her point of few.
ohkay
The rap, the visuals, the acting everything wad just phenomenal man
Ray Thompson
ohkay Oscar-winning
Desmond Williamson
ohkay
T T
amazing ..well done.. everything that represent our days .. how much we change,or not at all .. !
krissi B
If I didn't know how well my dad, uses YouTube. I honestly think this was the authors profile picture π oh kay dad you got good taste in music
Tayce Morris
Perfection π―
Mikey Lynch
Probably one of Wretch's best songs ever, the story telling in this one is mad, such a fucking lyrical genuis.
Alexander George
100% bro or if we talking content his grm part 2 is next level
DjVegetables
Great song but the visuals are spectacular! Both actors killed it and they gave an incredible song life which elevated it to the next level. Wow! I've got goosebumps. Bravo Wretch. Bravo!
Katie watson
He should do the kids point of view next, think it would be an amazing follow up to show how the arguments between the parents effect the kid ππΌ