Big Day
XTC Lyrics


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It's your big day, your big day
So you want to tie the knot
Tie it tight, don't let it rot, the memory of this day
Are you deafened by the bells
Could be heaven, could be hell
In a cell for two
Big day come and big day go
Life goes on after the show
But will your love have the fire and glow
Like on the big day
Statistics they don't say a lot
But can you keep what you have got forever together
There's a lesson to be learnt
Many fingers have been burnt with the touch of gold
Love can come and love can go
What your chance is I don't know
But if you have love then let it show like on the big day
You're a new recruit
The big day
In your wedding suit
There's a lesson to be learnt
Many fingers have been burnt with the touch of gold
Big day come and big day go
What your chance is I don't know
But if you have love then let it show like on the big day
Yea you're looking fine
Big day
Sign on the dotted line
Big day
It's your wedding march today, big day
You're the new recruit
Big day
In your wedding suit
Big day
Yea you're looking fine
Big day
Sign on the dotted line
Big day
It's your wedding march today
Big day




Your big day
Big day

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of XTC's song "Big Day" refer to a celebration of a wedding. The song's refrain repeats the lines "It's your big day, your big day / So you want to tie the knot." The song acknowledges the joy of the occasion but also highlights the potential difficulties that exist in any relationship that requires commitment such as marriage. The lyrics advise the couple to tie the knot tight and not let it rot. The song's narrator suggests that love can be fleeting, and that many people have been burned by the touch of gold which is a reference to the common belief that material wealth can lead to the demise of relationships.


XTC uses various metaphors in the lyrics to suggest the uncertainties and unknowns of relationships. The line "Are you deafened by the bells" indicates that the overwhelming excitement of the occasion may cloud one's judgment. The phrase "Statistics they don't say a lot" suggests that the success of a relationship cannot be reduced to numbers. The song ends on an optimistic note, with the singer encouraging the couple to let their love show, "like on the big day."


Overall, XTC's "Big Day" is a reflective and cautionary song that celebrates the joy of a wedding while acknowledging the uncertainties of a committed relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

It's your big day, your big day
Today is the day you've been waiting for, the day you've dreamt of


So you want to tie the knot
You want to get married and tie the knot with your partner


Tie it tight, don't let it rot, the memory of this day
Make sure to hold onto this moment tightly and create memories that will last forever


Are you deafened by the bells
Are you overwhelmed by the rush of emotions and preparations for the wedding


Could be heaven, could be hell
This day could either turn out to be the best day of your life, or the worst


In a cell for two
You and your partner will be bound together, like prisoners in a cell


Big day come and big day go
Weddings are just one day, they come and go quickly


Life goes on after the show
Your life will continue after the wedding celebrations and you will have to come to terms with reality


But will your love have the fire and glow
Will the love between you and your partner remain strong and passionate after the wedding day


Like on the big day
Like the passion and excitement you feel on your wedding day


Statistics they don't say a lot
The odds and stats may not predict whether your marriage will succeed or fail


But can you keep what you have got forever together
Can you and your partner keep your love and marriage alive and strong for eternity


There's a lesson to be learnt
There's a message to be understood


Many fingers have been burnt with the touch of gold
Many people have been harmed or let down by expectations and dreams of love and marriage


Love can come and love can go
Love is unpredictable and can come and go unexpectedly


What your chance is I don't know
No one can predict the chances of your love and marriage succeeding or failing


But if you have love then let it show like on the big day
But if you truly love each other, then show that love and passion every day, not just on your wedding day


You're a new recruit
You and your partner are new to this and have just started your journey together


In your wedding suit
Wearing your best clothes for the most important day of your life


Yea you're looking fine
You both look amazing and stunning on your wedding day


Sign on the dotted line
To make the marriage official, sign on this line


It's your wedding march today
Today is the day you march down the aisle and get married


Your big day
This is your big day, make the most of it and cherish the memories forever




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management
Written by: COLIN MOULDING

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