Understanding
Xscape Lyrics


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What I need from you is understanding
How can we communicate
If you don't here what I say
What I need from you is understanding
So simple as 1,2,3
Understanding is what I need

You don't even know me
You just wanna do what you wanna do
That's not the way it should be no
You should listen to me, boy
I tried so very hard to make you understand
But the chooses you make
Baby they're all demands oh

I tried so very hard
To keep our love alive
But you don't wanna meet me half way
Then the understanding dies

There's no way that we can work it out
If we don't pull together
I don't mean to be demanding
I want some understanding
I wanna be with you

What I need from you is understanding
How can we communicate
If you don't here what I say
What I need from you is understanding
So simple as 1,2,3
Understanding is what I need

I listen to you baby
And I know the things your going through
I try to understand,
That's why i'm still with you baby
See everyday we're living
There's one thing that'll always be unsure
That's why I need you baby, pleading baby
Please let our love endure

I tried so very hard
To keep our love alive
But you don't wanna meet me half way
Then the understanding dies

There's no way that we can work it out
If we don't pull together
I don't mean to be demanding
I want some understanding
I wanna be with you

What I need from you is understanding
How can we communicate
If you don't here what I say
What I need from you is understanding
So simple as 1,2,3
Understanding is what I need

All I need , All I need
All need is understanding
How ow ow ow
If you don't here what I say
Can't you see baby

I tried so very hard
To keep our love alive
But you don't wanna meet me half way
Then the understanding dies

There's no way that we can work it out
If we don't pull together
I don't mean to be demanding
But I want some understanding
I wanna be with you

What I need from you is understanding
How can we communicate
If you don't here what I say
What I need from you is understanding




So simple as 1,2,3
Understanding is what I need

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to "Understanding" by Xscape highlight the importance of communication and understanding in a relationship. The song begins by emphasizing how crucial it is for partners to understand each other and communicate effectively for a relationship to work. The chorus repeats the same lines about the singer's need for understanding like it's as simple as 1, 2, 3, and without it, communication breaks down. The verses highlight the disconnect between the singer and her partner as she feels unheard and disregarded.


The lyrics reflect the frustration felt when one partner listens while the other disregards their wishes, and there's no way the relationship can survive unless there's an effort to work together. The song's emotional charge speaks to the listener, conveying the message that communication and compromise are necessary for a relationship to thrive. The pleading tone of the song demonstrates how invested the singer is in the relationship, and without understanding, everything she's worked hard to keep alive will fall away.


Line by Line Meaning

What I need from you is understanding
The singer wants to be heard and understood in their relationship.


How can we communicate
Without understanding, it is difficult to communicate effectively.


If you don't here what I say
The singer feels unheard and ignored in their relationship.


So simple as 1,2,3
The artist believes that understanding should be a simple and essential aspect of their relationship.


Understanding is what I need
The artist emphasizes the importance of understanding in their relationship and what they need to maintain it.


You don't even know me
The singer feels disconnected from their partner and unheard.


You just wanna do what you wanna do
The singer believes their partner is selfish and not willing to listen or compromise.


That's not the way it should be no
The artist feels that their partner's behavior is not acceptable in a healthy relationship.


You should listen to me, boy
The artist wants their partner to listen to them and understand their point of view.


I tried so very hard to make you understand
The artist has put effort into trying to communicate and make their partner understand their needs.


But the chooses you make
The singer refers to their partner's choices as selfish and inconsiderate.


Baby they're all demands oh
The artist sees their partner's behavior as demanding and not willing to compromise.


To keep our love alive
The singer strives to maintain a healthy and loving relationship.


Then the understanding dies
Without understanding, the relationship deteriorates and becomes unhealthy.


There's no way that we can work it out
Without understanding and compromise, the relationship cannot be successful.


If we don't pull together
Both partners must work together to maintain a healthy relationship.


I don't mean to be demanding
The artist emphasizes that they are not asking for too much, just basic understanding.


I want some understanding
The singer expresses their desire for their partner to understand and listen to them.


I wanna be with you
The singer wants to maintain their relationship with their partner, but only if there is mutual respect and understanding.


I listen to you baby
The artist tries to understand their partner and their struggles.


And I know the things your going through
The artist empathizes with their partner and is aware of their struggles and challenges.


See everyday we're living
The artist sees the importance of communication and understanding in their daily lives together.


That's why I need you baby, pleading baby
The singer is pleading with their partner to listen and understand them.


Please let our love endure
The artist wants their love to last and be based on mutual understanding and respect.


All I need , All I need
The most important thing that the singer needs is understanding from their partner.


How ow ow ow
The singer asks how they can achieve understanding from their partner.


Can't you see baby
The singer believes that their partner is not aware of their needs and struggles.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, THE ROYALTY NETWORK INC., Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: DAVID ANTHONY WILLIS, CHANELLE STEPHANIE NADINE GSTETTENBAUER, BRADY WATT

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Comments from YouTube:

@Est-fo9pt

Tamika and Tosha’s “I don’t mean to be demanding” and transitioning into Kandi’s high note was a epic!

@deonnadyson

Hell yes...

@carlwallace1129

Tamika scott was the most consistent with that medium high range

@undrathompson5877

@@carlwallace1129 11111111q

@nikkiegaza3446

Oh hunny my thoughts exactly. Yessssss Yessssss Yessssss beautiful to know someone feels this same exact thing

@carlwallace1129

@@nikkiegaza3446 they were a well oiled machine the way they flowed in that song and in the Who Can I Run To track on their Tracess of their Lipstick 3rd album. They really all Flowed. TAMIKA SCOTT really be holding the mid vocals together eventhough she could easily be the Lead vocalist if it wasn't for Kandi and their management

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@thatauthormommychic2139

still playing this song in 2022, who's with me?

@noellafay

YouTube can't compare to the booming system I had in my Nissan in 1994! The bass on this song hit hard.

@thatauthormommychic2139

@@noellafay right?!! I still rock it in my Honda now, LOL!

@noellafay

Love it!

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