Second Time Around
Yo-Yo Ma Lyrics


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When she said, "Don't waste your words, they're just lies"

I cried she was deaf

And she worked on my face until breaking my eyes

And what else you got left
It was then that I got up to leave

But she said, "Don't forget

Everybody must give something back

For something they get"

I stood there and hummed, I tapped on her drum

I asked her how come

And she buttoned her boot and straightened her suit

Then she said, "Don't get cute"

So, I forced my hands in my pockets

And felt with my thumbs

And gallantly handed her

My very last piece of gum

She threw me outside, I stood in the dirt
Where everyone walked

And after finding that I forgotten my shirt

I went back and knocked

I waited in the hallway, she went to get it

And I tried to make sense

Out of that picture of you in your wheelchair

That leaned up against

Her Jamaican rum and when she did come

I asked her for some

She said, "No, dear", I said, "Your words aren't clear

You'd better spit out your gum"

She screamed till her face got so red

Then she fell on the floor

And I covered her up and then

Thought I'd go look through her drawer

And when I was through I filled up my shoe

And brought it to you

And you, you took me in, you loved me then

You never wasted time

And I, I never took much

I never asked for your crutch

Now, don't ask for mine

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Yo-Yo Ma's song "Second Time Around" are rich with emotion and poetic imagery, leaving room for personal interpretation. At the surface level, it tells the story of a failed relationship, where the singer is trying to make amends with his ex-partner. The lyrics, however, are not laid out in a straightforward narrative but consist of a series of fragmented scenes that serve to convey the complexity and anguish of the situation.


The poignant opening line, "When she said, 'Don't waste your words, they're just lies,' I cried she was deaf," describes how the singer's attempts to reconcile with his ex-partner are met with indifference or hostility. The lines, "And she worked on my face until breaking my eyes / And what else you got left," suggest that the singer is emotionally spent and has nothing left to offer.


As the story progresses, the lyrics reveal that the singer has a lingering attachment to his former lover. He returns to her home to retrieve a forgotten shirt and is drawn to a picture of her in a wheelchair, which symbolizes her vulnerability and the care that he once had for her. The singer continues to try to make amends with her but is met with further rejection and hostility.


The lyrics of "Second Time Around" are impressionistic and metaphorical, leaving space for the listener to fill in the gaps with their own interpretations. They speak to the universal human experience of love, loss, and longing, and the emotional pain that can come with trying to rebuild a broken relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

When she said, "Don't waste your words, they're just lies"
I was emotional when she told me not to speak because she said that everything I say is untrue.


I cried she was deaf
I was crying but she was not responding to my emotions.


And she worked on my face until breaking my eyes
She treated me poorly by making me cry so much that my eyes became swollen.


And what else you got left
I felt hopeless when she hurt me so badly and asked her what more she could take from me.


It was then that I got up to leave
I decided to walk out and leave the situation because I could not take it anymore.


But she said, "Don't forget, everybody must give something back for something they get"
As I was leaving, she reminded me that I should repay any kindness that I receive.


I stood there and hummed, I tapped on her drum, I asked her how come
I stayed a little longer and tried to make sense of the situation by asking her questions.


And she buttoned her boot and straightened her suit, then she said, "Don't get cute"
She got ready to leave and warned me not to try to be funny or charming.


So, I forced my hands in my pockets and felt with my thumbs
I put my hands in my pockets and nervously fidgeted with my thumbs.


And gallantly handed her my very last piece of gum
I offered her my last piece of gum in an attempt to make peace.


She threw me outside, I stood in the dirt, where everyone walked
She kicked me out and I was left standing outside, feeling lonely and exposed.


And after finding that I forgotten my shirt, I went back and knocked
When I realized that I had left my shirt inside, I went back to ask for it.


I waited in the hallway, she went to get it, and I tried to make sense out of that picture of you in your wheelchair that leaned up against
While waiting, I looked at a picture of you in a wheelchair and tried to understand the story behind it.


Her Jamaican rum, and when she did come, I asked her for some
When she returned, I asked her for some of her Jamaican rum.


She said, "No, dear", I said, "Your words aren't clear, you'd better spit out your gum"
She refused my request and I told her that she was not being clear in her communication.


She screamed till her face got so red, then she fell on the floor
She got angry and screamed so much that she fell down.


And I covered her up and then thought I'd go look through her drawer
I tried to make amends by covering her up and then went to look through her drawer.


And when I was through I filled up my shoe and brought it to you
I found something of value in her drawer and decided to give it to you as a gift.


And you, you took me in, you loved me then, you never wasted time
You showed me love and acceptance when I needed it most, and you never hesitated to help me.


And I, I never took much, I never asked for your crutch, now, don't ask for mine
I never asked for much from you and I do not want you to start depending on me in return.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: BOB DYLAN

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