I Should Have Known Better
Yo La Tengo Lyrics


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i got in a tussle
with a stranger on the train
his face was familiar
but i couldn't place the name
it got to be ugly
??
i hope that no-one who could see
would be someone who'd know you

i had a small run-in
with a driver and his wife
you might call it road rage
??
considered nothing
i held my ground
and now that it's over
i've said that there must be
a better way

i keep it in mind
eight times out of nine
i'm wrong or i'm right
it's not worth a fight
but what's hard to define
makes it tough to decide
you don't realize
until after it has begun
whether this is the one
i probably knew better
i probably knew better

consider nothing
i held my ground
and now that it's over
i'll say that there must be
a better way

i keep it in mind
eight times out of nine
i'm wrong or i'm right
it's not worth a fight
but what's hard to abide
it's tough to decide
we don't realize
until after it has begun
whether this was the one
i probably knew better
i probably knew better




i probably knew better
i probably knew better

Overall Meaning

In Yo La Tengo's song "I Should Have Known Better," the singer tells two stories of confrontations with strangers and the regret that follows. In both scenarios, the singer is involved in a physical altercation that may or may not be justified, but ultimately ends up feeling like it wasn't worth the fight. The first scenario involves a stranger on a train who the singer gets into a tussle with over an unknown issue. The second scenario, which could be called "road rage," involves the singer getting into it with a driver and his wife. Ultimately, in both situations, the singer comes to the conclusion that there must be a better way to handle conflict.


The lyrics in "I Should Have Known Better" speak to the human condition of handling conflict poorly and then regretting it. The singer acknowledges this tendency in the repeated line, "I probably knew better." The song seems to suggest that we often act impulsively and reactively in situations that we could handle more gracefully if we just took a step back and thought things through. The line "what's hard to define makes it tough to decide" speaks to the complexity of these situations and how difficult it can be to make the "right" call in the heat of the moment.


Line by Line Meaning

i got in a tussle
I got into a physical altercation


with a stranger on the train
It happened with an unknown person on a train


his face was familiar
I recognized his face


but i couldn't place the name
But I didn't know his name


it got to be ugly
The situation escalated to become unpleasant


??
Unknown


i hope that no-one who could see
I hope that nobody who knew me saw it happen


would be someone who'd know you
So they wouldn't judge you for my behavior


i had a small run-in
I had a minor conflict


with a driver and his wife
It was with a couple in their car


you might call it road rage
It could be described as road rage


??
Unknown


considered nothing
I didn't think about the consequences


i held my ground
I stood my ground


and now that it's over
Now that the situation has ended


i've said that there must be
I've come to the realization that there must be


a better way
A better way to handle these situations


i keep it in mind
I remember this experience


eight times out of nine
Most of the time


i'm wrong or i'm right
I make the right or wrong decision


it's not worth a fight
It's not worth fighting over


but what's hard to define
But what's difficult to describe


makes it tough to decide
Makes it challenging to make a decision


you don't realize
You don't understand


until after it has begun
Until it has started


whether this is the one
Whether this conflict is the one worth fighting for


i probably knew better
I probably should have known better


i probably knew better
I probably should have known better


consider nothing
I didn't think about the consequences


i held my ground
I stood my ground


and now that it's over
Now that the situation has ended


i'll say that there must be
I'll say that there must be


a better way
A better way to handle these situations


i keep it in mind
I remember this experience


eight times out of nine
Most of the time


i'm wrong or i'm right
I make the right or wrong decision


it's not worth a fight
It's not worth fighting over


but what's hard to abide
But what's difficult to tolerate


it's tough to decide
Makes it challenging to make a decision


we don't realize
We don't understand


until after it has begun
Until it has started


whether this was the one
Whether this conflict was the one worth fighting for


i probably knew better
I probably should have known better


i probably knew better
I probably should have known better


i probably knew better
I probably should have known better


i probably knew better
I probably should have known better




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